Ebele Okobi

@ebeleokobi

“I am deliberate and afraid of nothing.” Audre Lorde
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Last July, my ex-husband who is also my current husband threw me a surprise party, just because, and bought what he thought were plain balloons. But this is not about how amazing he is (but you guys HE IS). When his party assistants (this is why we had children-to assist with shenanigans) blew them up, surprises all round, because they said “Happy Retirement”. 😳🤭🤔 But after I stopped laughing I thanked the ancestors for the message. This year, our twins went off to join their sister at UWC, our eldest is entering her third year as a lawyer at Cooley, and my second husband and I are empty nesting. 😮☺️🥹 I have worked decades (!!) as a lawyer, in civil society, as a trustee and patron of multiple cultural institutions around the world, in tech-multiple chapters with the red thread of wanting to live a life in service and to do work aligned with my values. But now, in 2026, I’m retiring!! Wellllll actually-more like I’m upgrading! Upgrading to only working with people who inspire me, on projects that bring me joy, and with organizations that are truly about pushing the arc of the moral universe towards collective joy and justice. Ancestor Toni Cade Bambara told us that the role of the artist is to make revolution irresistible. As principal of my own lil company named in her honor, @revolutionary_projects . I am excited about creating beloved community for radical imagination. I’m looking forward to supporting art in service of liberation, working with people who are telling beautiful and necessary stories and to shifting my center of gravity to Africa and the Black Atlantic-following my heart. So! I’m retiring from being an employee to dedicate myself full-time to being a joyful trouble maker, and I am making it all up as I go. ☺️ Holla if there’s good trouble you think we could get into, together! PS, thank you to the best manager I have ever had, Michael Samway (@everglades.mike ) for quitting Yahoo to sail around the world and leaving me all alone in 2007. I missed you terribly but you inspired me for life.
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@theartnewspaper.official let me talk about my favorite artists, rebels, revolutionaries and threats to empire, like @purebred.mongrel , @nzekwe_phills , @solaolulode , @ayanavjackson , as well as my new obsession, @mowaaofficial . Seeing Sis @matidiop ’s gorgeous and new film, Dahomey, puts the question of restitution in sharp focus. Anyone who knows me well knows that I absolutely WOULD roll through every museum, Killmonger style, and take back what was stolen, and look amazing doing it. 💅🏿 If I could. 🤔 The questions about exactly where in our countries our heritage belongs and how much was lost with the scale of the theft and how to make amends is at the heart of this necessary film, which EVERYONE should see. What is NOT in question is that thieves dictating the terms of the return of what they stole is absolutely wild behavior and I rebuke it. But wait where was I oh right-I’m in @theartnewspaper.official !! 💃🏿 Link in bio! Huge thank you to the lovely and amazing @selinalouisejones for absolutely everything. 🙏🏿
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Can you see past the hard part? Ebele Okobi has a question worth sitting with - what kind of relationship do you want with your ex-partner in the future? It's not always easy to think about when you're in the middle of it. But looking beyond the present moment could change everything. Her full conversation with Kate Daly is on The Divorce Podcast now. 🎧 Link in bio.
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London family!! If you love excellent storytelling, cake and/or bubbly-come through! I am hosting a cake and champagne book talk with the author @ikeecheruo about his latest book, The Comfort of Distant Stars. It’s a FASCINATING book that weaves together themes of Igbo cosmology, quantum physics, the relationship between reason and faith, the vulnerability of life in perpetual diaspora, and mental health and toxic masculinity. Talk will be moderated by actress, author and professional baby girl, @kelechnekoff Keeping it small at 35 people, so please RSVP soonest! It’s going to be a really lively, beautiful conversation, with books for sale and for author signing. And there will be (lots of) cake!! https://pp.events/bX9BBNXk
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17 days ago
Joyful community is an act of resistance. And in the BFF’s fifth year, we are leaning into it fully🍀 We were honoured to gather with the remarkable @ebeleokobi @susanchardy and an intimate circle of visionary women, committed to collective action, solidarity, and dreaming a world that is free and affirming for all. Shared between us, the abiding conviction that Black feminist movements deserve to be resourced at the scale of their vision. #BFFAt5 #BuildingBlackFeministWorlds
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Listen to Me follows three Black women as they navigate the journey to motherhood in a system not built to protect them. What begins as a documentary about the pregnancies of maternal health advocates becomes a powerful archive of grief, resilience, and healing. Woven together, these unique stories offer a profound look into the complex and layered lives of Black women and the core issues that place them at higher risk for complications from pregnancy and childbirth. Through intimate storytelling and wisdom passed from mothers to daughters, Listen to Me transcends statistics to reveal the quiet costs of survival, the weight of advocacy while grieving and the audacity of joy in the face of systemic harm. Listen to Me is a powerful call to break generational silence and center the voices of Black women. Through a lifecourse lens, the film reveals that true maternal health begins with how we protect, listen to and honor Black women and girls long before they ever become pregnant. Listen to Me challenges us to shift the narrative from crisis response to generational care and to reimagine maternal health as a continuum of justice, healing and radical listening. I will be part of the panel discussion after the screening. Hope to see you there. Link in bio #ListenToMe #StephanieEtienne #BlackMaternalHealth #AbuelaDoulas #AfricaCentre
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The second time I saw My Father’s Shadow, I texted @akinoladaviesjr to say that I had dissolved into tears, again. Akin texted back “We all need to cry together more.” I loved that, so much. That energy animated the events and moments of celebration I co-created in London, Houston and New York. I wanted to take this story and the storytellers into beloved community, to create beautifully safe and loving spaces for engaging with the film’s themes- the legacy of our fathers, the cost of parenting in capitalism’s manufactured precarity, grief, the permeability of childhood memory,loving those who aren’t meant to survive, indigenous spirituality, the bittersweet of loving and fighting for the promise of a country -so many things! The tour epitomized the power of solidarity and collectivity-Africa No Filter supported it with a grant, my brother @kojogh1 said yes to helping fund my shenanigans, @the_futureplate and @floralevolution brought the beauty, @evaomaghomi and Charlie Dorfman made hosting at the @everymancinema possible, Brother @chukaejorh and Blink Studios set it out in Houston, @larryosseimensah and @artnoirco , the Black Arts Council at the @themuseumofmodernart partnered to host, and Sis @busayoworld and Mofe Akinyanmi asked the most beautifully incisive questions. Please see this beautiful film. Take your friends, your family, your village people, smuggle in some chin-chin and dodo (egwusi is doing too much, fam-haba!), in beloved community. Thank you to @akinoladaviesjr , @kingxdavies , @funmbi_o all of @wearefatherland for holding us in your loving gaze, @ama.ampadu for your incredible advocacy in bringing this film to us, to @artistgirlmia for being the realest one, to @yvonneorji for introducing me to Akin that beautiful summer afternoon and to all for letting me be a small part of this beautiful struggle. ….for Nigeria, the Congo, Sudan, the Bay-Palestine WILL be free. 📷 @ejatushaw 📷 Millie Turner 📷 @rontimehin 📷 @zap_2
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2 months ago
On what would have been his 44th birthday, Black Freedom Fund remembers the life of beloved father, son, brother, and poet, Chinedu Valentine Okobi, who was killed by San Mateo County sheriffs in October 2018. In his honor, the Okobi family invested in BFF to create the Chinedu Valentine Okobi Sabbatical Program, supporting healing, rest, and joy for leaders of racial justice organizations. As we reflect on Chinedu’s life today, we are reminded of how pervasive and brutal state violence remains, and of the collective responsibility to invest in building a new legacy of racial justice for Chinedu and for this country. We are deeply proud to work alongside Chinedu’s family and @g4gc_org to administer the program. We will continue to celebrate Chinedu’s life and honor his legacy by building a world where every person is safe, supported and free.
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Twelve years ago today, Nnamdi and Amaka were born!!! We are so grateful for their lives, in awe of their spirits, and today, celebrating how much joy they have brought us. #motherofdragons #thetinyassassinturns12 #whoisthisWHOLEman🥹 #putonthehammerandyouwillberewarded
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When did this baby get this big and how 🥹🥹🥹
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1 year ago
Spending last week in Lagos and in Benin City, at @artxlagos and at the birth of the Museum of West African Art, was poetic prophecy. I began the end of empire as I mean to go on-with my people. Artists, dreamers, rebels, revolutionaries, lovers of eba and fried plantain, people who know love is a verb. Experiencing the community that Sis @tokinipeterside has created, being reminded of the Igbo fighting spirit embodied by @obiasika ’s and @babesabouttown ’s late mother (who is now my muse!!) and being part of the making of @mowaaofficial -the most audacious, ambitious, EXCITING art and culture infrastructure project-empires fall, but people/joy/umunna remains. Some of the earliest conversations about MOWAA were about catalyzing the return of the things that the colonizers looted. What it has evolved into is an invitation to discover the living artists, descended from those before, who continue to create. The guilds-the iron workers, the bronze casters, @victorsozaboy @angelsandmuse , @edoglobalartfoundation -there is so much beauty in Benin City, still! MOWAA has also evolved into a port of welcome in the Black Atlantic. To those who were stolen-come home. 🖤
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