Tiwalola | Confidence Coach

Allow me to reintroduce myself - TEDx Speaker, Author and Award-winning Founder and Coach of @confidentandkillingit !!!! Thank you @tedx_official @tedxhultlondon for inviting me to the stage to share an idea that is truly going to change the world. No more shrinking No more waiting for permission No more letting fear win It’s time to enter your Lion Era 🦁 Are you with me? 🎥 @seercollectiveuk

Your mind is so powerful, you can either make it work for you or let it run wild and sabotage you. Not every thought that comes into your mind is 100% factual. A lot of time, our fears are assumptions of things/ events that haven’t even happened yet! In chapter 6 of my book I talk about reframing fears as a powerful way to stop them from holding you back. Try this - for every negative outcome you visualise, think of 2 positive outcomes that could happen instead. Doesn’t matter whether it’s likely or not, just write it down and lean into the positive possibilities. Keep killing it Love T #overcomingfear #overthinking #overthinkerquotes #personalgrowthcoach #mindhacks #confidencetips #confidencetipsforwomen #confidencecoach #personalgrowthbooks

💥 EP54: How To Start Before You’re Ready💥 OUT NOW on the Confident and Killing It Podcast and YouTube! This episode is for you if: ✨ You often don’t feel good enough, smart enough or skilled enough to go after your dreams ✨You compare yourself a lot to others and often feel behind in life ✨You’re waiting for the perfect moment to start ✨A fear of the future and lack of clarity are holding you back ✨You self-sabotage because that feels more comfortable than betting on yourself Confidence isn’t a prerequisite to action, it’s a by-product of it. This episode will teach you how to still make progress in the midst of fear, uncertainty and your insecurities 📌Comment START and I’ll send you the link #confidencetips #confidencecoach #confidencepodcast #femalepodcast #fearlessmotivation #motivationalquotes

My mind used to be a battlefield. The lies and and the truth constantly fighting each other. Once I finally began to understand these principles of self-doubt it lost its power and I gained mine. It’s your turn Which slide hits the hardest? Let me know #mentalhealthawareness #confidencetips

📌 Rules of the game: Be your own proof of concept Don’t be mad that people haven’t given you a chance, have YOU given YOURSELF a chance? Don’t be afraid to start with what you have in your hands. Be your own proof concept. Self-validation must always precede external validation

Me and my dates for #NeverGettingMarried 🧡

Your favourite show in on #nevergettingmarried #bestdressed ————- Design consultant: @3xthreads Tailoring: @madebyynk

If showing up and speaking up feels uncomfortable, let me give you the blueprint to go from shrinking to shining in 5 simple shifts. Shining isn’t boastful. Shining is ownership. When you learn to communicate your value: 1️⃣ You stop questioning your worth & can clearly name your strengths. 2️⃣ Your ideas carry more weight because people trust the woman who owns her impact. 3️⃣ Your visibility inspires other women to rise too 4️⃣ Opportunities find you because people can finally see and understand your expertise. 5️⃣ Your confidence grows because celebrating progress quiets self-doubt. So many incredible things happen when you shine. But nobody wins when you shrink. That’s why I created the 5 Cs of Self-Promotion — a free 15-minute video series brought to you by @galaxyuk UnHumble Project in collaboration with @youngwomenstrust Comment UNHUMBLE and I’ll send you the link to get started.

Whew what a run, which lesson is hitting hard for you? ——— Here’s a recap of everything I got up to: @ewafrica_ I loved hearing how we create systems and infrastructure to support Africa as a creative powerhouse @thevendorexchange I shared my entrepreneurial journey with women in the wedding industry making moves @coldr.world IWD was so special! Loved being in the room with impact driven women @magnifycollective had a special evening about aligned ambition and whew it was so timely @rootstofroots I talked about financial confidence and how women should stop playing small and charge more!! @equitycity we held an IWD for Howden insurance where I spoke about the importance of confidence, collaboration, unlocking networks that lift you up @allbright we brought the house down! I spoke about how women can speak up, show up and stand out and then I moderated a panel on women stepping forward for innovation @galaxyuk we did the internal launch at Mars HQ for the Unhumble Project and it as so much fun! @woodhallcapitalfoundation and Mrs @mojihwusu launched Her Executive Edge and it’s been a dream bringing it to life. We’ve hosted over 100 women in Nigeria and London is next! And no I’m not tired! I’m just getting started 😝

Be seen. Be heard. Be impossible to ignore. If you’re a hidden high achiever, you already know the pain… Working harder than anyone in the room, yet nobody sees it. You shrink when you should be speaking. You watch people with half your talent get the credit, the opportunities, the pay rise. This isn’t an ability problem. It’s a visibility problem. Your visibility hasn’t caught up with your capability…yet. I was recently on stage with @allbright doing exactly what I help my clients with: taking up space, owning the room, and making sure their voice is impossible to ignore. If you’re done being overlooked, undervalued and underpaid — comment COACHING and I’ll send you a link to my coaching programme designed for ambitious women like you

Thank you to my younger self for saying yes to what was possible because now it’s a reality we both get to enjoy Dreams really do come true

Somewhere along the line, you were taught that celebrating yourself was “too much.” That the humble thing, the safe thing, was to shrink. So you compared quietly. Overworked privately. Shrunk publicly. And called it humility. But what if that story isn’t serving you? This IWD I said yes to something bigger than anything I’ve been part of before. A partnership with @galaxyuk and @youngwomenstrust — The Unhumble Project. We’re on a mission to help 50,000 women stop downplaying their achievements and start owning their success. Why? Because you deserve to be seen, heard and valued for the amazing work you are ALREADY doing! The opportunities that changed my life didn’t come from competing. They came from daring to speak up and show up as my authentic self with confidence and without apology. 📌Together with Galaxy and Young Women’s Trust I’ve designed The 5 C’s of Self-Promotion — now available as a FREE 15-minute online course packed with practical tools to help you celebrate yourself unapologetically. 🤎Comment *UNHUMBLE* and i’ll send you the link directly to take the training. And once you do, share it far and wide because life is more fun when we’re all a bit less humble!!!