Char Bailey

@char_bailey_

šŸ§ šŸŒ¶ļøLight warrioršŸ’« . We are all one Vulnerable & Self reflective here. Take the deepest breath you’ve taken all dayāœŒšŸ¾ Bham Pride Dir šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ
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Being autistic is really cool when I can cut though the noise and help you solve your problems but less so when I’m hiding in a cupboard because a car alarm is going off outside . So yeah . Will you still be my friend when I can’t speak because I’ve been around people for too long . Will you accept me when we’re walking down the street and my arms and legs are flapping around stimming out and strangers think I’m weird , will you be embarrassed or will you join in and dance to the rhythm of life with me ? #autismacceptance #actuallyautistic #queerautistic @qndme_ @autisticauk @nationalautisticsociety
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3 years ago
Share with someone to start their Monday right 😌. You’re doing great . The thought of the day was about the meaning we give to things . Be careful what you decide something means about you . Especially if it’s negative . There’s always a different perspective to take . Who do you want to be ? Be gentle with yourself, you’re doing great. . @calm . #mindfulmoment #iwasart #monet #breathe #lightwarrior #mindsetmatters #breatheinbreatheout #nlp #actuallyautistic #asmr #mindfulness #mondayvibes
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3 years ago
Girlfriend Material Podcast went on tour!! šŸŽ™ļøšŸ’› Thank you to everyone who joined our beautiful event @morocco_bound_bookshop in aid of @rainbowminduk 🌈 The episode is out to listen to this Friday! #lgbtq #podcast #wlw #saphhic #pride
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4 days ago
Living with an AuDHD brain means constantly trying to untangle who you really are from who you had to become just to cope. The masking. The burnout. The hypervigilance. The feeling of being ā€œtoo muchā€ and ā€œnot enoughā€ at the same time. We were never lazy or dramatic or difficult. We were dysregulated, overstimulated, misunderstood, and surviving for way too long. Healing isn’t just self-care for neurodivergent people. Sometimes it’s grieving the version of you that only existed to make other people comfortable. Learning to feel safe in your own mind after years of chaos is one of the hardest things a person can do. You’ve got this . I’m proud of you . Keep growing šŸ«¶šŸ½āœØ#audhd #mentalhealth #adhdwomen #actuallyautistic
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7 days ago
Just a little of the soft life we’ve created . Because sometimes success looks like having a cosy home, afternoons in the local park,trying to figure out what each face your dog makes means ,having perfectly arranged cucumbers on your sandwiches and celebrating life’s as it is . I strongly believe the feeling precedes the manifestation. So here’s a gentle reminder to feel good now , and in this world at the moment your joy is definitely an act of resistance. Recharge , reconnect and try not to react … then when the time is right you can respond to the hard things in a way you can be proud of . Lil things count when you count them light warriors šŸ«¶šŸ½āœØ#spring #family #lovers
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8 days ago
pov: dating as a queer woman šŸ‘€ #wlw #sapphic #lgbtq #podcast #quotes
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16 days ago
I NEED EVERYONE TO HAVE THE CONFIDENCE OF ADAM… After the Diva awards the other night I got chatted up in this outfit by a very polite nice straight white man called Adam. How he didn’t realise I am a MASSIVE LESBIAN I have no idea . I was wearing the lilac suit bless him . He was very kind and respectful and was clearly made from confidence . So today. I wish you the confidence of ADAM āœØšŸ™šŸ¾šŸ˜…šŸ˜‚ #highvibrations #stud #suitsforwomen #aligned
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17 days ago
Let people show up how they feel most themselves šŸ’› #wlw #lgbtq #queer #friends #quotes
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17 days ago
It’s windy but whoever needs to hear this the universe will make sure they do . GROWTH IS HARD, but YOU ARE HARDER ! #lightwarrior #growth #personaldevelopment #spirituality
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18 days ago
YOU ARE NOT BEING DENIED YOU ARE BEING DEVELOPED! You ask for peace… and suddenly everything tests your calm. You ask for love… and you’re faced with how you treat yourself first. You ask for wealth… and you’re pushed to grow, learn, and level up. It’s not punishment. It’s preparation. Because what you want requires a version of you that’s ready to hold it... Go get ready baybay . I LOVE YOU . You are me I am you we are all one ! #universe #lightwarrior #mondaymorningmotivation #personaldevelopment
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19 days ago
It’s Lesbian Visibility Week — so we’re celebrating one of the most underrepresented identities in our community: studs. Curated by @char_bailey_ ✨ A stud is a Black masculine-identifying lesbian — rooted in culture, history, and self-definition. It’s more than style — it’s presence, confidence, and unapologetic masculinity. Allyship has the word all in it — so let’s keep amplifying the voices too often overlooked. @chantelleayanna @rotriplex @talktococo @just_soriah @megtalksonline @lizmaryward @ch3y_ @moniquebofficial @ro.frimpong
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24 days ago
Love is in the (h)air !!! SHE did it again ! Dom is a hair creative genius . I wanted a special look for Lesbian Visibility Week and she did not miss ! Feel like the love is radiating from me ! šŸ«¶šŸ½šŸ’•šŸ§”šŸ’œ #stud #braidsbraidsbraids #braids
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25 days ago