Mark Vicente

@markvicente

NXIVM Whistleblower THE VOW 🎙 WTF is on my Mind?! Director @thenarcissistsplaybook Mentor @rememberyour_greatness Dir: What the BLEEP?! 🇿🇦🇵🇹🇺🇸
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Cults encourage splitting. You get to stuff your shadows deep inside and rage against them in the outside world. When you are in a cult there is an approved ‘hate list’. Who’s on your approved hate list? And who’s telling you to hate them? John Cleese 1987 @johncleeseofficial #psychology #splitting #shadow #satire #comedy
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2 years ago
Kyle just has a stomachache… but his friends are convinced it’s blocked chakras, Uranus retrograde, and his past life. This sketch takes the Mandela Effect, spiritual jargon, and wild reincarnation claims to a whole new level of comedy. From misremembered movie quotes to tarot card tower moments, the group debates everything except the obvious answer. Watch as Kyle’s simple problem turns into a cosmic crisis. Send to a friend that was Janet Reno in a past life. P.S. The guy who thought he was Ben Franklin in a past life sang a Beethoven song. That’s not Ben Franklin. Check out Your Soul Is Not For Sale /soul Cast: Kyle Cease @evolvingoutloud JP Sears @awakenwithjp Amber Hollis @iamdramberlynn Aaron Abke @aaronabke Mark Vicente @markvicente Bonnie Piesse @bonniempiesse Mat Shaffer @matshaffer Michelle Sorro @michellesorro Analee Ward @analeeward
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8 months ago
Smear campaigns. Deflection. Victim-playing. Intimidation. The same tactics exposed in Narcissist’s Playbook are now being used against the film in real time. The pushback is proving the point. @thenarcissistsplaybook This documentary isn’t backed by a major studio. It exists because survivors, experts, filmmakers, and audiences believe this conversation matters. Narcissist’s Playbook exposes the mechanics of manipulation, coercive control, gaslighting, and psychological abuse, through survivor testimony, self-aware narcissists, psychologists, journalists, and cultural voices who’ve lived it, studied it, or exposed it. Early donors get access to watch the film starting May 30th. Watch the film. Share it. Start the conversation. Get early access at the link in bio & stories. #narcissist #smearcampaign #intimidation #psychology #gaslighting
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2 days ago
Jade Alectra had been told all her life that one of the telltale signs of a psychopath is that as a child, they torture animals. So when someone sent her a video claiming Bentinho Massaro had tortured a cat, her brain immediately rejected it. There was no way. Not him. She went to Cory to clear it up. Cory’s response? “Oh yeah, no, he did.” Said completely casually. Like it was nothing. This is from Inst@Guru : Bentinho Massaro Ep 6 - Jade Part 1 “Empty Eyes” Available on WTF is on my Mind?! YouTube and all Podcast platforms. #bentinhomassaro #spirituality #torture #cult #psychopath
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4 days ago
Making a film about malignant narcissism apparently makes a lot of powerful people very nervous. Hollywood is not exactly our biggest fan. Film festivals are nervous. And the threats... they are now bordering on physical violence. We’re not surprised. What does surprise us, in the best possible way, is what happens when survivors see this film. When the credits roll, nobody leaves. They turn to the stranger next to them and they just... start talking. Something that was isolating becomes communal. A wound becomes a conversation. A theater becomes a room full of people who finally feel less alone. That’s the film they don’t want you to see. We don’t have a studio. We don’t have a streamer. We have you. We are raising funds right now to cover our marketing, our advertising, and our outreach program. Every donation, large or small, goes directly toward getting this film into theaters. Please go to the link in our bio and donate whatever you can. Share everything you see. Help us get this seen by as many people as possible. Links in bio. And as for irritating people’s demons... we’re just getting started. #Narcissist #MalignantNarcissism #IndependentFilm #Survivors
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5 days ago
One of the reasons narcissistic abuse is so confusing… is because people often focus only on the ending. The manipulation. The blame shifting. The gaslighting. The smear campaign. But what makes these dynamics so psychologically disorienting… is that they usually begin with connection. Attention. Validation. Intensity. Future promises. Feeling chosen. That’s what creates the attachment. So by the time the confusion starts, the nervous system is already emotionally invested in trying to get back to the version of the relationship that existed in the beginning. That’s why so many survivors stay longer than they expected. And why healing often requires far more than “just moving on.” This is one of the many reasons I’m supporting The Narcissist’s Playbook. Because survivors deserve language for experiences they’ve struggled to explain for years. 🤍 Film drops May 31. If you want access let me know!
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5 days ago
According to Jade, one of Bentinho’s followers shares a sexual trauma in a group session. Bentinho’s response is to laugh. To celebrate it. And then… to send Jade upstairs and roleplay the sexual trauma on her, enacting the exact scenario the follower had just shared in front of everyone. When it’s over, he walks downstairs smiling. And turns it into a running joke. This is from Inst@Guru : Bentinho Massaro Ep 6 - Jade Part 1 “Empty Eyes” Available on WTF is on my Mind?! On YouTube and all podcast platforms. #spirituality #bentinhomassaro #highcontrol #cult #leader
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7 days ago
“But you chose them.” 🛑 Stop saying that to people. Nobody chooses to be abused. Abusive people do not present themselves as abusive. They show up as safe, loving, attentive, supportive, and often become exactly what they think you want and need. (Mirroring) If they showed up being who they really are from the beginning, NOBODY would choose them. That’s why the mask exists. This kind of abuse is extremely isolating and it’s manufactured that way. People living in it often can’t make sense of what’s happening, which makes it incredibly difficult for others to see and understand too. That’s why The Narcissist’s Playbook matters. This is the kind of resource that would have helped me l tremendously when I was in the thick of it. This film helps survivors feel seen, validated, and less alone while helping others finally understand what’s happening behind the mask. It helps lift the veil. Watch the trailer and let me now what you think. Get your ticket to help support this vital movement.One share to your page or privately to a friend could make a bigger difference than you realize. ❤️‍🩹 🎬 Early Bird Release: May 30 (🔗 in bio) 🌍 Worldwide Release: TBD If this resonates, sharing matters. It helps get The Narcissist’s Playbook into the hands of someone who needs to see beyond the mask and know they are not alone. @informed_healing #narcissiticabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #traumainformed #narcissisticabuse #narcissism
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9 days ago
She knew how to protect her body. She didn’t know how to protect her mind. @jadealectra was a D1 athlete, a celebrity yoga instructor, an Oprah magazine feature. She was someone who had built something real. And like so many of us, she had a pattern, one she could feel but couldn’t fully name: she kept finding herself drawn to men who locked onto her ankles and asked her why she wasn’t running faster. Her mom put her in Taekwondo when she was little. For exactly that reason. It wasn’t enough. This is the beginning of Jade’s story. Inst@Guru : Bentinho Massaro - Jade Pt 1 ‘Empty Eyes’ is out now. Link in bio. #Instaguru #BentinhoMassaro #HighControlGroups #CultRecovery #WTFIsOnMyMind
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10 days ago
We just held a screening of *Narcissist’s Playbook* at UCLA’s Friends of the Semel Institute Open Mind Series in Los Angeles, and it was phenomenal. @thenarcissistsplaybook We were completely booked out. Dozens of people couldn’t get in! That’s a quality problem to have. After five years of hard work, it was deeply gratifying to stand in a room full of mental health experts and clinicians and watch them experience what we’ve been building. The road here wasn’t easy. Long, difficult, full of ups and downs, and met with serious pushback. Hollywood doesn’t want to get behind this film. It’s confrontational for those who carry this pathology, and it certainly irritates their demons. For survivors and those who understand how this works, the feedback was extraordinary. The Q&A featured myself, producers Scott Altomare and Lyn Lear, the remarkable Dr. Ramani, and was moderated by Clinical Neuropsychologist Professor April Thames. Also in attendance was one our subjects, Doug Buggle @dougbuggle @saltosea @lyndlear @dr_april_thames @uclafriendsofsemel @doctorramani @drramaninetwork The thing I hoped and dreamed would happen is happening. When the film ends, people don’t rush out. They sit, stunned, informed... and then they turn to the person next to them and start talking. Dr. Ramani said it perfectly... abuse happens in relationship to people, and therefore healing has to happen in relationship to people. We’re still raising money through donations for our outreach and marketing so we can put this into theaters ourselves. The link is in my bio. Those who’ve donated will get an early screening on May 30th. We’re also planning an online weekend event with screenings, panels and Q&As, followed by a US roadshow and eventually online rental. Timeline TBD, but donors see it first.
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11 days ago
Comment “playbook” and click the link in my bio for early access to watch the documentary 🙌 🎬 Watch the trailer now — link in bio 🎥Early Bird Release May 30th 🎟 Donate $20 or more to Pre-Purchase the Film: watch before its worldwide release on June 30 📢 Share this with someone who needs to understand what they’re facing #creatorsearchinsight #narcissisticabuse #lovebombing #narcissisticabuserecovery #cognitivedissonance
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11 days ago
Cory, Bentinho Massaro’s right-hand woman, the person who kept the entire operation running, says to Keilan McNeil, with complete sincerity, that Bentinho is more spiritually advanced than Jesus. Keilan’s response: “Where the fuck am I?” It’s one of the moments that starts cracking things open for him. Not the only one. There had been the distortion readings, the unpaid work, the fog of war, watching people get psychologically dismantled in front of him. And then, in the same final meeting, Bentinho points to his bedroom and tells Keilan that if they go in there together, he would feel Closer to God than he ever has in his life. A sexual proposition masked as a spiritual experience. Framed as healing. Framed as transmission. Framed as a gift the universe is offering him. This is not unique to Bentinho. It is one of the oldest moves in the high-control playbook. The leader’s body becomes sacred. Physical contact with him becomes a pathway to God. And refusing that contact becomes evidence of your own spiritual limitation. From Inst@Guru : Bentinho Massaro, Keilan Part 2 - “Closer to God.” Now on WTF Is On My Mind on YouTube and all podcast platforms. Link in bio. #spirituality #god #bentinhomassaro #highcontrol #cult
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14 days ago