Starting something new in my channel - called “Adoma diaries”. Sharing my raw unfiltered thoughts. Today we’re talking about some lessons I’ve been gathering in this season - “Expectations vs Reality”. ✨
Yes, other people are doing things in their life, so are you! Learn to appreciate the beauty of your life right now.
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PART II
The ADA (First born, First Daughter) is having a baby?! Big Sister Gloria is about to be a mommy fr this time. This one hit different. It was no longer just us in our bubble anymore.
We took my little sisters into one room and had them read the letter, they were excited and emotional at the same time. This would be the first time it went from just us, four to yet another addition to the family. They were still getting used to having Kwame around - now a Baby?!?! It was an emotional shift for us 4. Especially baby last, I was no longer going to be just her Sister Mommy, but now a real mommy. 🥺💕
Now of course, shifting to my parents. The famous Aunty Linda is about to be a whole grandma, what do you mean? My mom’s reaction really came from facing so many medical trials over the past couple of years. It hit most when she yelled, “Jesus, I’m alive to see this.” My dad as quiet as he was, he also, felt the same sentiment. My parents have been through so much, have buried so many of their friends — this moment in time is highly appreciated. Something they couldn’t but thank the Lord for.
This news is God’s special gift to our home. Quite literally, a confirmation of His word. #pregnancyreveal
new month, new season 🤍
still in awe that we’re walking into 2026 as parents…
God has been faithful, always.
the journey is just beginning.
“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up...”
Isaiah 43:19 NIV
📸: @atangwasthere
Ihe i na-emere m di mma 🤍
What You do for me is good.
The song of my season. ✨
Happy Birthday to me! 🥳 A new year full of new beginnings but also so many full-circle moments.
The tears, the toil, the seasons of isolation & loneliness—all led me here. This birthday reminded me that little Gloria would be so proud. God’s journey for me wasn’t always pretty, but it was proof that the latter is greater.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart… and he will make your paths straight.”
Proverbs 3:5-6
Special shoutout to my husband for planning a surprise dinner when I wasn’t even going to celebrate. 🥹💐 It turned out to be the best day ever—I haven’t smiled that much in a long time.
Grateful to grow & evolve with you, babe. I love you so much ❤️
Soft glam for brunch? Yes please.
It’s been a minute since I shared a makeup look, but this one felt too pretty to gatekeep. ✨
Rediscovering my go-to soft glam makeup routine — from shades to process! Follow me on this journey 💄
Details:
@elfcosmetics primer
@nyxcosmetics brow gel
@benefitcosmetics precisely brow
@hauslabs Foundation
@fentybeauty concealer
@toofaced brightening concealer
@danessamyricksbeauty blurring balm (cream bronzer)
@juviasplace liquid blush + powder blush + powder bronzer
@lauramercier translucent setting powder
@maybelline Fit me Powder
@maccosmetics powder foundation
@morphebrushes Setting Mist
@onesize Setting Spray
#SoftGlam #MakeupReels #MelaninGlow #blackgirlmakeup #EverydayGlam #GlowyMakeup #melaninmakeup #SoftBeat
#DarkSkinMakeup #SimpleBeat #GetReadyWithMe
#QuickMakeupRoutine #MelaninBeauty #BlackGirlSoftLife #BeautyOnReel
ᴵ ʷᵃˢⁿ’ᵗ ˢᵘʳᵉ ⁱᶠ ᴵ ˢʰᵒᵘˡᵈ ᵖᵒˢᵗ ᵗʰⁱˢ… ᵇᵘᵗ ʰᵉʳᵉ ⁱᵗ ⁱˢ 📝
Every time I lead worship, I always ask the Lord what He wants to say to His people. The night before Resurrection Sunday, I couldn’t sleep — I was so excited! So, I asked the Holy Spirit for understanding. He led me to Matthew 28:1–6 (NIV).
As I read it, it all made sense.
This joy I was feeling wasn’t random — it was the reminder of hope. Resurrection Sunday isn’t just a moment; it’s a declaration. It tells every believer — not one left out — that 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐝.
We’re not fighting for victory. Jesus already won.
Even on days when we feel low, discouraged, or just tired… the cross and the empty tomb remind us:
𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗳𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱. 𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲.
Sometimes we get caught up in trying to “do everything right” — but that’s often because we forget (or maybe haven’t fully grasped) this truth:
𝐂𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐭.
𝐘𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐟𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞.
So this is your reminder:
The battle has been won. The victory is yours. And 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗵𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 — not today, not ever.
That’s why I was so excited.
That’s why I’ll keep worshiping.
That’s why I’m posting this.
𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁 𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗵𝗼𝗽𝗲 — 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗹𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱𝘆 𝘄𝗼𝗻.
#ResurrectionSunday #EasterHope #HeIsRisen
It’s April—Q2 is here! For me, this feels like the real start of the year. ✨ After time away, I’m finally back doing what I love, and I have so much to share. This past year (and Q1) had its ups and downs, but I’m grateful for the lessons that came with it.
In my latest YouTube video, I’m diving deep into what I’ve learned and how it’s shaping me. Click the link in my bio to watch!
What’s one lesson you learned in Q1? Let’s talk in the comments! 💬👇🏾
#NewQuarter #LifeLessons #GrowthSeason #FaithJourney #Reflections #LessonsLearned #GodsTiming #PurposeDriven #LevelUp #Wisdom #ChristianCreator #Q2Goals #ResetAndRefocus
ʜᴀᴘᴘʏ ᴏɴᴇ ᴍᴏɴᴛʜ ᴀɴɴɪᴠᴇʀꜱᴀʀʏ to Us!
It’s been one heck of a month — lots of unserious moments 😂, lots of changes, lots of learning curves, but most importantly lots of Growth!
We’re grateful to God for keeping us & really guiding us through this journey. He’s really redefined so much for us in this past month — defining what love truly means, caused us to grow closer than ever & raised up community that supports/guides us through this journey.
We’re grateful to everyone who played a role/supported us in this journey: may God bless every person, business, family, etc that had supported us in one way or the other! Thank you so much!
To many more months, years, seasons 𝓕𝓸𝓻𝓮𝓿𝓮𝓻 to come 💭 - The AFs
📸- @mfieldsphotography
Planner- @signaturelaevents
MUA- @salewaojo_mua
Stylist- @sadustyling
Hair- @thetoriatouch
#TheEmmaculateGlow 💍