Still riding high from this conversation the other week. There was something special about hearing the coos and cries of little people in the room as we spoke about becoming mothers, that we were in chorus with the very bodies that remake us.
Motherhood is so often framed as something instinctive, but it was affirming to be reminded that this transition is a liminal space, destabilising, expansive and generative all at once.
It was an honour to sit alongside Atong Atem, Rachel Ang and Sophie Walker, three artists whose work I deeply admire, and hear their honesty, ambivalence, grief, humour, warmth and generosity about this seismic shift. We spoke about how motherhood collides with art, how it reorients us and our concepts of time and the body, and how the unfurling mostly happens in the darkness, in between sleep and crying babies and snoring partners.
As Sophie writes, mothering is a learned skill. We often say it takes a village to raise a child, but it also takes a community to raise a mother.
I walked away reminded how revitalising these spaces are, where parents and caregivers can unpick all these knots. This felt like just one small part of a million more conversations, but I’m so glad to have been part of it.
Full convo is up on
@yarralibraries YouTube, if you fancy it. Link in bio. x
📷 1 and 3 by
@hilarywalkerfamily , 2 and 4 by Nick Hardi-Louey