Benoit Denizet-Lewis

@benoitdlewis

Boston & Prague. Write for @nytmag . Teach @emersoncollege . “YOU’VE CHANGED” is out now in US & UK. Order & info ⤵️
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YOU’VE CHANGED—my six-year exploration of human change during bewildering times—is out tomorrow! Check out some of the nice things people—including @elizabeth_gilbert_writer , @tom_junod , @jkirchick , @jnoisecat , and @sessumsmagazine —have said about it. From political converts and identity reinventors to personality overhaulers and spiritual seekers, I investigate the possibility and mystery of change—and the fear and doubt it can awaken in ourselves and each other. You’ve Changed hits stores tomorrow and is discounted right now at Bookshop.org and Amazon. I hope you’ll give it a read 🙏 @aevitas_creative @auderemedia @williammorrowbooks #youvechangedbook
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19 days ago
Final front & back cover of US edition of You’ve Changed, coming April 28 from @williammorrowbooks and available for preorder now. A million thanks to @elizabeth_gilbert_writer , @tom_junod , @jnoisecat , @david__sheff , and @sharonsalzberg for their kind words. For their full blurbs, or to read praise from other generous early readers (including @sessumsmagazine , @jkirchick , and @larissa.macfarquhar ), go to benoitdenizetlewis.com. Cover design by @coversbypaul @aevitas_creative @auderemedia #YouveChangedBook #bookstagram
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The best part of working on a book for six years? Seeing your friends when it’s done. Come join me on tour and tell me where you land—Team People Can Change or Team People Are Exactly Who They’ve Always Been. Many thanks to this dangerously smart group for being in conversation with me: Wesley Morris, Rachel Aviv, Jabari Asim, Shuka Kalantari, Jeff Zlotnik, Dave Holmes, Paul Lisicky, and Ellen Barry🙏 For tour event details & links, go to /events #YouveChanged #bookstagram
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2 months ago
Such an amazing day today with @benoitdlewis sharing his new book “You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self Transformation” at the @dharmabumtemple and @buddhasforyou for a book signing. Thank you Benoit for your diligent effort to share your heart and write such a beautiful book. You inspire us all with the stories and we thank you for spending time with us! I hope you all buy the book! 📕❤️🙏🏻
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You’ve Changed appearing before the cultural parole board known as @nymag ’s The Approval Matrix #goodquadrant #youvechangedbook
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17 hours ago
"Dear Love, what would you have me know today about shame?" @elizabeth_gilbert_writer explores @benoitdlewis 's letter and the Spirit of Unconditional Love's acceptance of shame in her latest "Letters From Love" Substack.
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Last night at @changinghands in Tempe was SO MUCH FUN. Thanks to everyone who came out. Great people, great questions, and many books sold. Next stops: San Diego tomorrow at @dharmabumtemple and Los Angeles on Thursday at @booksoup . @auderemedia @aevitas_creative @williammorrowbooks #youvechangedbook
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On the Way to Self Knowledge, edited by my dad and Jacob Needleman. 1976. You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self-Transformation, by me. 2026.
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Join New York Times bestselling author Benoit Denizet-Lewis (@benoitdlewis ) to celebrate the release of his latest novel YOU'VE CHANGED—a timely, provocative, and deeply moving exploration of personal transformation in a period of roiling uncertainty. YOU'VE CHANGED investigates how we remake ourselves—and how identity, belief, and belonging shift in a world that won't stop doing the same. ⁠ ⁠ 🗓️ 6:30PM THURSDAY, MAY 14⁠ 📍 CHANGING HANDS TEMPE⁠ 🔥 FREE EVENT⁠ ⁠ 🔗 RSVP at the link in our bio.⁠ ⁠ ABOUT THE BOOK⁠ ⁠ We live in an age obsessed with reinvention. On Instagram, in recovery meetings, through name-change petitions, lifestyle pivots, deconversion blogs, and political conversion manifestos, we're surrounded by stories of radical personal change. But what does it really mean to shed an old skin—and why do some transformations inspire us while others raise our hackles?⁠ ⁠ Longtime New York Times Magazine writer Benoit Denizet-Lewis, known for his deeply reported and psychologically rich journalism, takes us on a freewheeling, wild-hearted journey into the mystery of human transformation. He introduces us to an unforgettable array of people in flux--including psychedelic reality benders, sexual and gender transitioners, ideological shapeshifters, seemingly reformed murderers, and an octogenarian grandmother trying to change her temperament ("Better late than never!" she says)—as well as those working to engineer change: psychologists, neuroscientists, name-change specialists, even his own father, a breath and meditation teacher who once wrote a newsletter about "the art and science of transformation." Intertwined with those portraits of change is the author's own reckoning--by turns painful, poignant, and hilarious—with his misfires and epiphanies.
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I grew up a few blocks from @christophersbooks , the Potrero Hill staple and one of the best indie stores in the country. It was so fun to stop in today to say hi to @tminot and to meet Jax before my YOU’VE CHANGED event tonight with @skalantari at the @cwclub . (Please come if you can.) If you’re in San Francisco, always make a trip to Potrero Hill and Christopher’s Books! @williammorrowbooks @aevitas_creative @auderemedia #youvechangedbook
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5 days ago
From a bully-turned-Buddhist to an octogenarian trying to change her temperament (and threatening to stab me) to borderlines and narcissists in a three-month self-transformation group led by a psychotherapist with his own prickly personality, the first chapter of my new book YOU’VE CHANGED grapples with how much we—whether officially disordered or merely imperfect—can change the core of who we are. Can we—as @psyche.the.magazine ’s Christian Jarrett argues, and @olga_khazan famously attempts—change our personalities? If so, how? And how much? I’m excited to be in conversation about that and more next week with the bully-turned-Buddhist himself (@jeffreyzlotnik , pictured with his dog) next Saturday at 11 am at the @dharmabumtemple in San Diego. Come join us as we struggle with some fun questions, including: What changes when a bully becomes a Buddhist? And what stays the same? “I bully people into doing good now!” Jeff told me. @auderemedia @aevitas_creative @williammorrowbooks #youvechangedbook
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Los Angeles! I’m heading west for the YOU’VE CHANGED book tour and am very excited to be in conversation with @daveholmes May 21 at @booksoup . Come say hi and tell us if people can change! All event details at link in bio. Other upcoming tour dates: May 12 San Francisco May 14 Tempe May 16 San Diego @auderemedia @aevitas_creative @williammorrowbooks #youvechangedbook
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