Burton B. Buffaloe | Gay Dads

@bbbuffaloe

• Husband to @dustin_patrick_smith • Steward of @hollandstone • Blessed with twins • eMail - [email protected]
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Seven years ago today, we saw two tiny heartbeats for the first time. And the rest is history 🥰 @dustin_patrick_smith @bbbuffaloe . . . . . . . . #family #gay #instagay #lgbt #loveislove #pride #twins #dad #daddy #lgbtq #fathers #gayisokay #dadsofinstagram #instagays #marriageequality #husbands #gaymarriage #lgbtrights #instadad #modernfamily #itgetsbetter #daddylife #twodads #gaycouples #gaydad #lgbtfamily #gaydads #lovemakesafamily #surrogacy #gayswithkids
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3 years ago
Happy Mother’s Day to the women who helped shape our family with so much love. We’re beyond grateful for our moms — and so lucky to have gained second moms in the process. Watching our twins be loved by their grandmothers is something we never take for granted. Our family is fuller, stronger, and happier because of these incredible women. #family #mothersday #moms
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6 days ago
What an honor it is to celebrate such a beautiful milestone like a wedding here on our farm. Since opening, we’ve hosted three weddings—and this one has been our biggest yet. We’re learning as we go, and just like everything we do on the farm, we pour our heart and soul into it. Thank you, Johnathan and Clara, for trusting us with such a special day 🤍 . . . #wedding #farm #farmlife #hollandstone
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11 days ago
#ad There’s a fine line between “distinguished” and “I need a nap.” Lately, Burton and I have both been noticing just enough gray to question which side we’re on… and we’re not trying to look like we dyed our hair, just look like ourselves on a good day. Right where we want to be – under the graydar. That’s why we started using @americancrew Undetectable. It blends the grays in without making it obvious, takes about 5 minutes, and honestly just makes everything look a little more refreshed. No harsh lines, just subtle, easy, and back to feeling like us. Available at @ultabeauty
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15 days ago
April is Alcohol Responsibility Month—a reminder that the conversations we have and the example we set really matter. For the past 3 years, Burton and I have partnered with Responsibility.org, even traveling to D.C. to meet with lawmakers and advocate for responsible alcohol use.vBut the most important work happens at home. As parents, we’re intentional about how we talk about alcohol, what we model, and helping our kids understand why waiting until 21 matters. Responsibility.org provides resources that actually make those conversations easier—whether you’re a parent, caregiver, or educator. Proud to be part of this work and help create a safer future. We’ll be sharing more from our time in D.C. soon. This post is sponsored by @go_faar , but all opinions are our own. #ResponsibilityStartsHere #ARM2026 #AlcoholResponsibilityMonth #LeadByExample
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16 days ago
It’s my birthday! 45 hit me like… “Congrats, here’s your starter pack: 👓 + 🦵” Got my first pair of glasses AND tuned up knee all in the same year… just out here collecting upgrades like I’m on version 45.0. Not sure if I’m leveling up or being slowly replaced part by part, but either way—we move Here’s to 45… slightly refurbished, better vision, and fully supported. #ThisIs45 #birthday #dad #dads
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17 days ago
Suited up for a day at the farm. @hollandstone . . . . @bbbuffaloe @dustin_patrick_smith
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20 days ago
Nothing like scheduling my first-ever surgery a week before turning 45… really just leaning into the “warranty expired” era 😆 Turns out I just needed a little tune-up (aka knee surgery) so I can come back and really get this party started. @dustin_patrick_smith
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23 days ago
Sometimes you have to get a little dirty to create something beautiful. . . @bbbuffaloe @dustin_patrick_smith @hollandstone #flowers #farm #husbands #farmlife #hollandstone
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1 month ago
This one meant more than words can say. 8 months later… we finally got our fishing trip. 🎣 Thank you for carrying our family through this past year—more than you know. ❤️ . @bbbuffaloe @dustin_patrick_smith Thanks @kjfarwell10 for the 🎣. You are the best! . . . . #update #dads #twodads #gay #family
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1 month ago
Started with a simple choice… and turned into something so much bigger 💙 Watching Holland build, you can actually see it happening in real time—figuring things out, problem-solving, and hitting those little “I did it” moments along the way. And with each step, her confidence just keeps growing. By the end, it’s not just about what she built; it’s how proud she feels standing behind it. Meet her new animal besties 🐋 What animal bestie would you build? #ad #LEGOPartner #SheBuiltThat @LEGO
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1 month ago
Oh, Spring, how badly we needed you! 🥰 @dustin_patrick_smith . . . . . #dads #dad #family #gay #twodads
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1 month ago