Exactly one year ago today my love and I got the key to our new house. Since then, I’ve invested almost every minute to turn it into a peaceful home 👩🏼🔧.
It was a year filled with: 6 am alarms, early hardware store visits (and discussions about not selling female working gloves), espressos, living without a working bathroom for months (thanks to the sweetest friends for letting us use their shower 🚿), digging 30 cubic meters of clay, countless wheelbarrow walks, plaster boards, overstimulated brains, containers, days hunting on marktplaats (and driving towards these finds), patience, waves of anger, hyperfocus, 25 kg cement bags (why so heavy?), stones, 1,000 decisions, muscle soreness, tiles, banged-up vans, budgeting spreadsheets, countless 11 pm material orders, and most importantly: cuddles ❤️.
Before this adventure, my renovation experience was limited. My biggest skill is that when I take something on, I do so with full dedication. That’s how I learned this year about electricity, tiling, plumbing, paving, sealing, plastering, bricklaying, woodworking, insulating, you name it! I took this opportunity with both hands; maybe I’m one of the rare people who actually loves renovating?! Must have inherited it from my dad, since he was helping every week ❤️.
Meanwhile, I kept playing a lot, which helped release tension and step out of the renovation bubble. I have to admit, sometimes I was exhausted before starting, but the music and dancers always lifted me up 💖. Music can be great therapy (and sometimes hard work!).
Today feels like a milestone. I struggled all year to find moments to relax, it’s a lifelong challenge for me and this period even more: there is ALWAYS something to do. Before we moved here, we decided to build a studio in our garden (with a small 🛀, maybe I can finally relax there!), thanks to Pieter for building the base! A space where I can work, prepare gigs, invite friends, and sleep. It’s nearly done. So in a few weeks I can finally unpack my records, after building all the furniture (why buy it if you can build it?). I’m so happy to invest more time in music again soon! 🌸
Will share the studio when it’s done!
3 months ago