Daulton Van Kuren Mongell | Owner

@therefinedhost

Creating celebrations that are FUN, SOPHISTICATED & TIMELESS 📋 Full-Service Planning + Event Design ✨Seen In: Brides, MSW, The Knot, OTM✨ 📍NY, ATL, ✈️
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Candlelight, drapery and 12’ tall trees brought warmth to the Barn @thesistersofcedarlakes to create the coziest ambiance for Sam + Matt’s wedding. Photography: @dosmasenlamesa Florist: @soilandsoulflowers Rentals: @broadwaypartyrentals , @partyrentalltd , @giodrapingdesign Lighting: @eventlights.inc
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1 year ago
Olivia + Braden 🤍 Photography: @meccay_photography
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1 year ago
One of my favorite aspects of the planning process is curating an intentional and impactful event design. Mixing materials, textures, colors, and patterns in an interesting way that enhances your guests experience and leaves them in awe. I will forever be so proud of this team that pulled together the vision and the couple that put all of their trust in me to bring it to life! Venue: @countryclubofbuffalo Photography: @lauraroseweddings Planner & Event Designer: @therefinedhost Structure & Rentals: @hankparkersrental @galleriaeventstructures Couple: @lindstagram24 & @altydimps Band: @theslyband Ceremony + Cocktail Musicians: @buffalo_heartstrings_quartet Custom Ceremony Platform: @kmgdstudio Lighting + Sound: @SpeierEvents Paper Goods: @elizabethlynndesigns Florist: @wildrootfloral Drapery & Linens: @tesoroeventrentals Hair: @goldenhourbuffalo Makeup: @paulmarianibeauty Alterations + Bridal Valet: @madebyanatomy Cakes: @villagebakeryandcafe Cookies: Homemade by the Groom’s Family Wedding Dress: @wona.bridal Bridal shop: @bridalby_j Shoes: @manoloblahnik Jewelry: Family Bridesmaid’s Dresses: @amsale Tuxedo + Accessories: @josabank Shoes: @stacyadamsstyle Groomsmen Attire: @josabank
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1 year ago
Chase & Maggie’s day was so full life and overflowing with love. Every detail was thoughtfully planned, and @therefinedhost brought Maggie’s vision to life beautifully. Maggie made sure every person felt loved and appreciated. The day ran so smoothly from morning til night. From the very beginning, Maggie kept me involved in the plans, so watching everything come together, and getting to capture it, was truly a dream. And in this process, I also gained such incredible friends in Maggie and Chase. More to come from unforgettable day. Special shout out to my incredible side kick @emilyarleenephoto
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1 month ago
Vivienne Mongell made the end of 2025 so special for us and we can’t believe she is ours 💕
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4 months ago
Alex & Mitch’s wedding was the most incredible way to close out my 2025 season. The design was a true winter wonderland, brought to life with white velvet drapery and layers of soft, snowy textures that transformed the dinner space. Surrounded by faux Christmas trees, the room felt intimate, elegant, and magical! The perfect setting for a cozy winter celebration. Guests were welcomed into the all-red reception room, a complete contrast and such a showstopper. Red velvet draping lined the walls and cascaded from the ceiling, making the space almost unrecognizable. Red roses accented the bar and mantel, paired with lamps and candlelight to create a luxe, elevated lounge experience that set the mood for the night. We feel so lucky to have worked with the most amazing couple, their families, and such an incredible vendor team to bring this unforgettable weekend to life. Church: St. Joseph Cathedral Venue: @wanakahcountryclub Photography: @lauraroseweddings Planning & Event Design: @therefinedhost Couple: @acalfier17 @mitch_gardepe Band: @thebandmethod Lighting: Speier Displays Paper Goods: @paige_bydesign Florist: @beckandforthco Rentals: @tesoroeventrentals , @allseasontentrental , Speier Displays, @TheRefinedHost Hair and Makeup: @groomservice Bridal Valet: @madebyanatomy Cake: @ohlsonsbakery Desserts: @OhlsonsBakery & @quokkasweets Wedding Dress: @eliesaabbridal Transportation: @buffalolimousine Calligraphy: @flowercityletters Gold Baubles: @littlefinchparty
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5 months ago
most dreamiest wedding for Jake and Nicole! Photographer: @katiapopikphoto Planning & Event Design: @therefinedhost Florals: @wildrootfloral Venue: @buffalohistorymuseum Invitations: @paige_bydesign #weddinginspiration #wedding #nywedding #contentcreator #weddingphotography #theweddingedit #weddinginspo #behindthescenes #upstatenyphotographer #rochesterny #buffalony #rochestercontentcreator #buffalocontentcreator #syracuseny #syracusecontentcreator #weddingcontent #weddingcontentcreator #contentcreator #classicwedding
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6 months ago
Little Miss Mongell, you are so loved already 💕 Photo: @sarahbridgemanphoto Planning + Event Design: @therefinedhost Hair: @goldenhourbuffalo @jurdankellerman Makeup: @paulmarianibeauty Floral: @wildrootfloral Rentals: @tesoroeventrentals Cake: @ohlsonsbakery Lighting: Speier Displays Ice: John Matwijkow Venue: @countryclubofbuffalo
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6 months ago
Effortlessly beautiful backyard wedding 🤍 . . #backyardwedding #weddinginspo #weddingdress #weddingday #classywedding #weddingdecoration #weddingflowers #lakewedding #buffalowedding #buffaloweddingphotographer #buffalophotographer #wnyweddingphotographer #wnyphotographer #rochesterwedding #rochesterweddingphotographer #rochesterphotographer #nyweddingphotographer #cnyweddingphotographer #cnyphotographer #fingerlakesweddingphotographer #catskillsweddingphotographer #adkweddingphotographer #saratogaweddingphotographer #saratogaweddings #adkphotographer #newyorkweddingphotographer #newenglandweddingphotographer #newenglandphotographer
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1 year ago
It is so special to see all of the patterns, textures, and colors come together on the tables when so much time and intention has gone into pulling together the design. Super proud of this stunning wedding! Photography: @lauraroseweddings Florist: @wildrootfloral Rentals: @tesoroeventrentals @hankparkersrental @galleriaeventstructures Paperie: @elizabethlynndesigns Venue: @countryclubofbuffalo
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1 year ago
Some of my favorite black and white photos of Jule and Will shot by @katiapopikphoto
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1 year ago
Reminiscing on this at-home wedding for Hannah + Cole with so many special details beautiful curated by the bride herself. Photography: @lanealbersphotography Florals: @natalie_durham_events
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1 year ago