I can’t believe it’s been a year since I lost my right arm, my best friend, protector…my shadow. I think about you everyday. I will never know a love like this. Thank you for literally saving my life. I changed as a person because of your unconditional love and trust. It is so painful my Ghostie. I will always think of you until I close my eyes on earth. My forever BlumBlum 🤍🕊️🤍
Each year that passes on the day I lost my mom and brother, I try to turn my thoughts into love and gratitude instead of sadness and grief. There isn’t a “normal” life ever. Especially when it’s to violence and evil. You instantly have to decide that you will live, honor and succeed with a good mind and attitude. It’s unfair. It’s a lifetime job. Here it is 35 years and all I can do is hold on to memories, their faces and voices imprinted in my brain and pick up my spirit when I think of the nightmare our family went through. At the same time it’s the very thing that has kept me going since I was 16 years old. And it will until we are together again.
Year number 35. Love you my beloved Queen Yubi and my handsome brother Diego. In my heart and on my mind every single day. My angels ❤️❤️❤️
#domesticviolence #endviolence #peace #endabuse
In honor of Cancer Awareness Month. In August 2021 I was diagnosed with stage two triple negative ductal carcinoma invasive. I was immediately thrown into treatment which included 8 months of hard chemotherapy, 45 straight days of radiation, and a lumpectomy in December 2022 then I was cleared. Many may not know but triple negative cancer is very well known to return, it is also very stubborn to treat…15 to 20% survive triple negative cancer. This will make anyone want to be better than before and change the things in life that you need to change. And I’ve been committed to doing just that. If you think I’m different, I’m not, I just decided to be better than I was before.
The song is my attitude but I am here and grateful. I am here to see my daughter become a mom, to see her get engaged, to hold my granddaughter who is my light. Although I have suffered loss before and after cancer, it reminds me that life is still very real with ups and downs.
I think about my friends, people that I love that are going through treatment as we speak some for the second and some for the third time not to mention The beautiful people that have gone home to heaven. And so I honor my fellow warriors that are fighting and have fought, and I also honor the ones who have gained their wings and become angels. I know that this will never not be a part of my life. It is something I have to deal with until the day that I close my eyes myself. And so I take every day as an opportunity to be nicer, better, honest and as happy as possible. I have gratitude and love for all of those who support me and have always supported me. Blessed and grateful is an understatement. December will mark 3 years in remission. ❤️✨🙏🏽
#cancerawarenessmonth #cancersurvivor #fuckcancer #triplenegativebreastcancer #medstar
Her first Mother’s Day was spent in the nicu while baby Saje was fighting for her life. This year she’s putting her hair in pom poms for dinner. She has effortlessly become an amazing mommy and I am so proud of her. Happy Mother’s Day princess! @yubihonest
Catch up date with this baddie! Been friends since our Saks Fifth Avenue days lol 😬 And don’t get me started on her talent. If you are an art lover follow her @the_algerian_painter !! Oh and enjoy the shoe cam! 🥵✨ @dolcegabbana & @maisonvalentino 😮💨❤️❤️❤️
Another White House Correspondence Dinner in the books! We have Australian news, a Media/PR mogul, and NBC News writer/editor, a top Forbes Attorney and a few not photographed…it was 4 days of nonstop Glam ✨✨✨
Makeup by me for FYUBI Makeup & Brow Studio 💄🎨
@fyubistudio 🤍
