This is alchemy.. Where you stand is infinite in its potential.. And your access points are rooted in deep self-acceptance.. Knowing anything you touch will turn to what you believe it to be. #alchemy
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Desire vs Destiny. We may need to change how we attract our lover and partner if we want them to align with our destiny. I was coaching a male client this weekend. His current lovership didn't workout. Why? Because he aspires to be in a real relationship based on mutual respect and collaboration.. yet is attracting his partners based solely on his desire to have sexual chemistry with his mate. Desire alone will not lead to a relationship. The attraction must be aligned with one's destiny to make it to the next level in the growth and expansion of the union. If the intention is a mutual desire to simply have sex, perhaps conscious love making with healing support.. that's very different than being attracted to a person rooted in your destiny.
Consider how much of the attraction you have with people is anchored in desire -verses- in the destiny of your mission and the shared collaboration of building a vision together.
#attraction #relationshipgoals #relationships #relating #relationship #relationshipgoals #desire #sex #intimacy #partnership #sacred #connection #destiny #soul #consciousness #consciouscouple #embodiment #selflove #growth #sexualhealing #healing #selfgrowth #tantra #dao #love #lovemaking 🌀
"Can she hold his heart?" A man has emotions. A man has a tender heart. Most women don't have the skills to hold the man's heart in his most tender moments.. which ultimately pushes him away if he doesn't feel safe in her presence. So he stops offering his cup of love and generosity. Presence is a masculine quality so it's essential for women to practice holding space for herself and man to cultivate a deeply sacred space for the relationship to be healthy and harmonious.
The Tao of love is required here where Yin and Yang are in balance within the relationship container.
This conversation came after three girlfriends came to me with lovers whom had pulled away after they leaned in. 🙈🔥🩶
Drop a 🔥 if this resonates.
🎙️Clip taken from new podcast: Ep 001 - OG Mastery on @spotify
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You’re not lost so stop seeking. You’re avoiding the version of your life that would require honesty.
Stop looking for validation from 'out there' — And yes, this even means seeking it in spiritual practices.
The cycling in patterns isn’t real. It’s a buffer between you and the decision you already know you need to make.
The moment you stop performing you and start "living like you actually mean it…"
Your life meets you there.
#TheReality
Most people spend years trying to "fix" their anxiety or “push through” a fear.
But in the world of Internal Family Systems (IFS), those aren't flaws—they’re Parts with very specific jobs.
When you stop fighting your parts and start mapping them, the "Internal Board Meeting" finally gets a Leader. You accept you.
I built a 1-minute Self-Mastery Diagnostic to show you exactly WHICH PART is running the show.
Why did I do this? Because I took a course on PARTS WORK (The Internal Family Systems model) with Richard C. Schwartz and it massively helped me integrate with the parts I wasn't able to "accept."
The quiz reveals:
Your Attachment Landscape: Are you scanning for connection or protecting your space?
The Yin/Yang Spectrum: Is your "Driven" side exhausting your "Receptive" side?
The Mother/Father Archetypes: How your primary blueprints are still influencing your life choices.
You don’t need more therapy; you need a clearer mirror. 🪞
Comment "PARTS" below and I’ll DM you the link to the Parts Play quiz.
*Everyone has a story that could change everything* It took me 44 years to live mine before I could write it. Now I'm working on my second memoir — and I'll tell you this: it's the most liberating thing you'll ever do with your past.
Not because writing heals you. Healing is impossible. We are already who we are. The real work is acceptance — seeing your experiences, your perspective of them, and your sense of self as three aspects. Most of us collapse all three into one story and call it identity. But they're not the same. And it's not until you write your life that they finally integrate.
For most of us — especially women — there's something that shaped us that we've never fully named. Something we went to therapy for, or coaching, or meditation, and thought we'd "gotten over." But it shapes how we do life. But writing it into a book grounds it, and allows you to integrate and move in with REALITY, not with the thing that happened the way you 'thought' it did.
Your journey written honestly is your most powerful asset. Not just for legacy. Not just for a marketing offering. But for the clarity that comes when you finally see your own life in reality and can shape with your completeness.
If you are thinking about writing a book, start here — Your story requires a specific ARC, but most people don't know how to find it.
Take the Quiz
→ Find yours: COMMENT “ arc “
#storytelling #storybranding #branding #writing #bookwritingtips
It's not about diluting yourself within AI, it's using it to maintain your sovereignty and artistic edge.
Reinventing your brand and yourself post AI.. I want to share with you how.
Message BOOK for details 📖
Four years ago I walked away from business, not because I didn’t love it.. I did. But I was hacked and so was my health.
Took me moving across the world to start over. But Europe wasn’t the only reason I’ve bounced back. It’s writing. And using my art and voice to rebuild my brand.
A legacy.
What truly rebuilt me was writing my memoir. I’m soon to publish it as I am writing my second book.
Now, I’m curious — for founders and creatives in transition:
If someone could help you write a book— what’s the one thing that you need to know?
Drop the word "Book” below!
No longer an exile, an expat— Life is different having left America for Europe. It's now been two and a half years, and my life is just beginning to solidify within a new culture. Community? Harder to acclimate.. unless you're in an international hub like Lisbon (Portugal). But life has been... different. Challenges include driving on cliffside roads built for one car, but apparently two are allowed.. and language barriers around 'slang' phrases with words that mean nothing close to the original word. Family is prominent, and so is walking. America seems like a faded memory sometimes.. and the time zone blurred, I often forget I'm 5 hours ahead.
👀 I'm curious if you've had a desire, a fantasy, to leave where you are and live abroad—where would you like to go? What has been your experience with traveling verses spending a long time abroad? Curious.. #expat #lifeabroad #expatineurope 🏄
"Attachment Coach" Adam Lane Smith sits down with OG Mastery host Robyn Linn to unpack how hidden attachment patterns drive our intimate relationships and behaviours, and how to heal them.
You’ll learn:
WHY you keep attracting the wrong partners and "think" they're worth waiting for;
HOW childhood experiences wire our nervous systems for love;
WHAT it really takes to build secure, drama‑free connections as an adult
Adam shares real‑world examples from his personal experience as a husband with 5 children, and from working with clients around the world.
VISIT ADAM:
IG: @attachmentadam
FULL SPOTIFY LINK IN BIO 🎧
Expressing yourself doesn't only involve starting from nothing to make something new. Often it's an evolution from something you make your own. Music.. dance.. voice.. business. It's not about following what others are doing and doing it better.. it's finding your own groove within the material form and cultivating your own signature with it. Don't wait to make something with yourself. Just find what's out there and collaborate with it. #fateofophelia
