Lee B Chaffee

Buckle up, babes—The spotlight shines on powerful femmes for this night of celebration and play! Bask in the unique glow of feminine dominance, as we uplift women and fem-types to the left of the power-exchange slash. Theme: Strap In & Strap On Hosted by @leebchaffee & @walkerxoxo Probe’s FemDomme centers any femme-identifying folks who take control over others, however that control and femininity manifests. As such, masc D-types and M-types are expected not to top at this event. Probe’s FemDomme highlights power exchange and those who practice it: • Folks who hold power over others are called D-types or M-types (from the “D” in D/s and the “M” in M/s).
 • Folks who give up power are called s-types (from the “s” in D/s or M/s).
 Female-identifying, femme-presenting, trans, nonbinary, and genderqueer D-types and M-types are invited and encouraged to inhabit the space as they wish, whether it’s play, worship, socialization or simple existence. D-types or M-types Include: Femme Dominants, Dommes, Dominas, Ladies, Mistresses, Misses, Mxtresses, Goddesses, Queens, Femme Owners and Handlers, Femme Tops, Femme Sadists… Masc-identifying D-types and M-types may attend to offer support or service, but are to refrain from topping people at this event. Folks who choose to give up power are called s-types (from the “s” in D/s or M/s), and includes: submissives, bottoms, service bottoms, pets, property… s-types of all genders are welcome and encouraged to engage in service, worship and/or observation depending on their comfort level.  Check out the Goddess Lounge details, full Protocol Expectations, and Dress Code in the event description (link in bio). At Probe, inclusivity is our priority. We welcome all orientations, genders, and identities. Our venue is wheelchair accessible, and we encourage accommodation requests. Membership required. Sign up online (link tree), at a social, or at the door. Note: Entry door locks at 11PM. Tickets on a sliding scale to promote accessibility. Choose a price that makes this event accessible to you. All ticket types provide the same access. Photo: @biscotti.after.dark #probeottawa #probelife #femdom #femdomme #protocol

Before the Bruises is a guided discussion space with @ladyfreyanna and @leebchaffee focused on the emotional and psychological layers of intense scenes—before marks appear, before attachment sets in, and before the drop hits. We’ll explore: • The highs of deep connection and shared intensity • The frenzy that can blur judgment, boundaries, and pacing • The drop—emotional, physical, and relational—and how to recognize it early • The difference between healthy intensity bonding and unexamined trauma or dependency patterns Rather than teaching “how to hit,” we ask: • Why do we chase intensity? • What are we actually bonding to? • What do we need in place before we go there? Participants are invited into conversation—not confession—around expectations, warning signs, emotional aftercare, and how to stay grounded when scenes feel intoxicating. This class is ideal for: • People exploring or escalating into high-intensity scenes • Tops and bottoms who’ve experienced emotional whiplash after play • Anyone who wants to understand what intensity does to the nervous system and attachment • Folks who want to scene with intention instead of fallout No war stories required. No judgment. Just clarity, language, and tools—before the bruises even form. Photo credit @biscotti.after.dark Tickets are sold per person on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. Choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. All ticket types provide the same access to the event. This discussion group does not require a membership. Doors will open 15 minutes before the start of the class. Learn more about @ladyfreyanna and @leebchaffee in the event description on our website (link in bio)! #probeottawa #probelife #intensescenes #discussiongroup #ottawaevents

Join us at Probe for Let’s Talk About Risk: An interactive discussion with @ladyfreyanna and @leebchaffee about impact risk management, body safety, and technique on Monday, February 9th from 6:00PM-8:30PM. Impact play is one of the most common forms of k!nk — but how much risk does it really carry, and how can we play smarter? In this discussion-based session, we’ll explore the basics of impact play, from light sensation tapping to intense, bruise-making scenes. Sharing your thoughts, feelings and opinions are heavily encouraged to make this class everything it can be. You don’t need to be an expert to join in — this is a guided group conversation, with space for questions, shared experiences, and tips. Whether you’re brand new or years into your journey, this is a chance to reflect on risks, learn from others, and sharpen your approach to safer, more satisfying scenes. Tickets are sold per person on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. Choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. All ticket types provide the same access to the event. This workshop does not require a membership. Doors will open 15 minutes before the start of the class. Learn more about @ladyfreyanna and @leebchaffee in the event description on our website (link in bio). We would love to see you there! #probeottawa #probelife #impactplay #discussiongroup #ottawaevents

Impact play is one of the most versatile and expressive forms of kink. From the sting of a slap to the thud of a paddle, every strike can be art when paired with skill, technique, and intention. This class by @ladyfreyanna and @leebchaffee is designed for beginners and intermediate players who want to refine their practice, learn safe technique, and explore a variety of tools in a supportive, hands-on environment. This class covers the essentials of impact play with a focus on safety and technique. We’ll review anatomy and safe striking zones, then move through hands-on practice with slaps, floggers, canes, and paddles. Along the way, we’ll explore rhythm, control, and the balance of sting versus thud. The session wraps with partnered practice, giving tops a chance to refine their skills and bottoms the opportunity to provide feedback in a collaborative setting. What to Bring: • Yourself, curiosity, and a willingness to learn • If you have floggers, paddles, or canes, feel free to bring them along (we’ll also have loaner toys) • Comfortable clothing that allows movement NOTE: This class requires a partner. Tickets are sold per person on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. Choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. All ticket types provide the same access to the event. This workshop is open to members only. Not a member yet? No worries! Sign up online (link in bio) or come by to see the space and sign up in person. Doors will open 15 minutes before the start of the class. Learn more about @ladyfreyanna and @leebchaffee in the event description on our website (link tree) #probeottawa #probelife #probe #impactplay #ottawaevents

Impact play is one of the most versatile and expressive forms of kink. From the sting of a slap to the thud of a paddle, every strike can be art when paired with skill, technique, and intention. This class by @ladyfreyanna and @leebchaffee is designed for beginners and intermediate players who want to refine their practice, learn safe technique, and explore a variety of tools in a supportive, hands-on environment. This class covers the essentials of impact play with a focus on safety and technique. We’ll review anatomy and safe striking zones, then move through hands-on practice with slaps, floggers, canes, and paddles. Along the way, we’ll explore rhythm, control, and the balance of sting versus thud. The session wraps with partnered practice, giving tops a chance to refine their skills and bottoms the opportunity to provide feedback in a collaborative setting. What to Bring: • Yourself, curiosity, and a willingness to learn • If you have floggers, paddles, or canes, feel free to bring them along (we’ll also have loaner toys) • Comfortable clothing that allows movement NOTE: This class requires a partner. Tickets are sold per person on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. Choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. All ticket types provide the same access to the event. This workshop is open to members only. Not a member yet? No worries! Sign up online (link in bio) or come by to see the space and sign up in person. Doors will open 15 minutes before the start of the class. Learn more about @ladyfreyanna and @leebchaffee in the event description on our website (link tree) #probeottawa #probelife #probe #impactclass #impactplay #impactplaykink #comelearnwithus #ottawaevents #613events #accessible #inclusive

CLIMAX Practitioner Spotlight ✨ Representing @probeottawa , Therapy Doll (@leebchaffee ) and LadyFreyAnna (@ladyfreyanna ) will be presenting a live fire play demonstration at CLIMAX - an experience that blends artistry, intensity & trust. Don’t miss your chance to witness this fiery display and explore the world of k!nk up close at CLIMAX on Nov 8! 🔥 🎟️ Get your tickets today at climaxconference.com #Ottawa #OttawaEvents #FirePlay

Welcome to Forget the Toybag with @ladyfreyanna and @leebchaffee ! Hands, feet, and everything in between: toy-free impact & sensation play. Who needs a toybag when your body is already the ultimate toolbox? In this interactive class, we explore how to create intense, intimate, and creative scenes using nothing but hands, skin, and body contact. We’ll talk about: Accessibility - Nothing to carry, nothing to clean, nothing in your hand. Intimacy - Direct touch builds stronger emotional and physical connection. Creativity - Improvisation and body awareness keep play fresh and exciting. Versatility - You are both the toy and the toolbox! But going toy-free doesn’t mean going risk-free. We’ll talk about how to negotiate limits, intensity, pressure, and aftercare needs, and we’ll explore why control and finesse matter just as much with your hands as with any implement. Whether you’re brand new or a seasoned player looking to strip things down and reconnect, this class will help you level up your skills and connection through the most versatile tool you’ll ever own — yourself. This class requires a partner. Tickets are sold per person on a sliding scale to promote inclusivity and accessibility. Please choose the ticket price that makes this event accessible to you. All ticket types provide the same access to the event. This workshop is open to members only. Not a member yet? No worries! Sign up online (link in bio) or in person. Doors open 15 minutes before the start of the class. Photo by @safety_captain #probeottawa #probelife #probe #impactplay #impactplayer #ottawaevents #ottawa #613events #613

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First attempt at video.. not bad, if I do say myself.

The birthday card my cousin made me. Freaking brilliant!!