John Siebeling

What is it that you are afraid of losing? In this episode of Leadership in Black & White, Pastors John and Wayne discuss the key differences between jealousy and envy, and practical tips for dealing with the jealousy we all face. 🎧🎥 Listen or watch Leadership in Black & White on AccessMore! "Healthy Jealousy vs. Toxic Jealousy"

Better to feel lonely for a night than trapped in a relationship that makes you feel alone every day. A lot of people rush into love thinking they’ll “make it work,” but the wrong relationship can feel heavier than being single ever did. #fyp #marriage

Comparison is unavoidable. Jealousy is optional. In this episode of Leadership in Black & White, Pastors John and Wayne walk through the differences between comparison and jealousy—and what to do when you realize that jealousy is taking hold of your heart. 🎥🎧 Watch or listen to Leadership in Black & White now on AccessMore! “Healthy Jealousy vs Toxic Jealousy”

Happy Monday! Make something happen this week. Haha 😎 Let’s go!

Life Leadership Bible School launches in September and will be available in multiple languages - we are developing leaders around the world! Online Bible training for everyone - Theology, Ministry, & Leadership. Going to be amazing. Checkout lifeleadershipbibleschool.com! ***This is not tongues 😃….I bet you didn’t know @johnnylhill could speak German! Haha - there’s a reason we call him Johnny worldwide. Working with some amazing technology to develop people around the world… exciting times!

"Your season is certain, but not final." In this episode of Leadership in Black & White, Pastors John and Wayne answer questions about managing weaknesses, filtering thoughts, and knowing when it's time to change your job. 🎧🎥 Listen or watch the Leadership in Black & White Podcast on AccessMore! "How To Know When To Change Jobs & More Mailbag Questions"

@lesliesiebeling and I had such a great time at our @thelifechurchnewyork location. Leslie spoke at a sold-out Zoe Night and I spoke in the weekend services. It is so awesome to have such a vibrant strong location in New York. God is on the move! 5 weekend services. Loads of salvation decisions. New people. Growth and momentum! @waynefrancis and @classy1999 and the whole team are doing an amazing job.

Protection matters. But if protection is the only goal, our kids never learn how to stand back up. There’s a season when we cover them closely, watch every step, and stay ready to catch them. That’s good parenting. That’s love. But as they grow, protection has to slowly give way to preparation. Because one day, they’ll fall and we won’t be close enough to grab them. So we teach them how to get back up. How to try again. How to read a room. How to build strong faith in God. How to keep moving forward. The goal isn’t to raise kids who never hit the ground. The goal is to raise kids who know what to do when they do. Wisdom is knowing the difference between protecting and preparing. ➡️Save this one and send it to a parent who’s trying to get that balance right.

Strong marriages don’t fall apart because of culture. They break down when it becomes all about me. Scorekeeping will drain it fast. Who did more. Who gave less. That’s not how this works. Marriage moves forward when both people show up fully. No keeping tabs. Just giving. Because real love costs something. Jesus didn’t hold back. He gave everything. And He calls us to live the same way. That’s how a marriage lasts.

People stay in relationships they already know aren’t right. They see it. They feel it. They stay anyway. They stay stuck. Familiarity ≠ Safety Nothing really shifts until something deeper shifts. In Christ, you’re not trying to earn love or hold onto scraps. You’re already chosen. Already secure. When that settles in, your decisions start to look different.

25 YEARS! ARC Conference 2026 was extra special. It was an amazing few days. We celebrated our 25th Anniversary, had amazing worship and powerful teaching/preaching/impartation. It was the best one yet! I am always deeply grateful when I’m in the midst of these moments with my friends, my tribe, my spiritual family - but this year it all hit different. Thinking about the fact that @lesliesiebeling and I have been at every conference and part of this movement from the very beginning! It has shaped our lives! Looking around the room and worshipping with friends that we’ve done life with these past 25+ years. It was overwhelming. Big thanks to Billy Hornsby and @gregsurratt for the vision of planting churches! Right before Billy passed away, he got us all in a room and made us promise to stick together no matter what! Incredible to think that we’ve done that! We’ve fought life through together. We’ve laughed together and cried together. We’ve celebrated together and grieved together. We’ve raised kids together (and now grandkids). We’ve built churches and ministries together! It’s a picture of legacy. Mad love and respect to all my friends on the ARC Lead Team. Thanks for being passionate about the greatest cause on this earth - The Local Church! Let’s keep planting churches all over the world! And thank you to @dinorizzo and @delynnrizzo for leading the way, for loving Leslie and me and our family the way you do and hosting the greatest conference! Leslie and I love you so much!

"I don't think respect is something that's built overnight, but it can be lost overnight." On this episode of Leadership in Black & White, Pastors John and Wayne cover nine reasons why you may be losing respect as a leader—and the reasons might surprise you! Listen or watch Leadership in Black & White now on AccessMore! "9 Reasons Your Team Doesn't Respect You"