It was my 36th birthday on Monday. In October, I was in such a dark place that I didn’t want to even see it.
I lost my reps, I was unemployed, I was lonely. Thanks to my friends, parents, therapist, IOP, and Hudson Williams, I made it. I’m finding myself again. I’m figuring out a new career path. I’ve reconnected with old friends. I’m simping over a hot man who doesn’t know I exist. Can’t say life is perfect—I’m still single, after all—but it’s good.✨
(Shout out to @kikibasil54 for my big Hudson head 🙌🏼
@wonderwomansparkles visited yesterday! She got her wish to see a hockey game in OT and I got mine to see the Kings win!!! 👑🥅🏒 #lakings #gkg #gokingsgo
Today is Trans Day of Visibility. I’ve been out as trans and on T for over ten years. It’s almost been a third of my life. The craziest thing about getting to this point is how, ten years ago, I never thought I would. I thought I’d never be seen as a man or be able to move through the world the way I wanted. I compromised for a while by identifying as nonbinary, as an apology to the world that I’d never actually be a man. Then I grew a beard and said fuck that, I am, and never looked back.
Today, I’m blessed enough to be in a position of disclosure—where I have the option to tell new people of my transness. The most common response? “I would never have known if you didn’t tell me.” Some friends regularly forget I’m trans. All in all, I no longer compromise on my identity.
Being trans is far from being the most interesting thing about me. It now feels like a footnote. And in a world that constantly wants to demonize trans folks for [insert issue here], I’m posting today to show we’re just boring, average, everyday people too.
Pic 1 - this past Friday when I became ✨debt free✨
Pic 2 - Spring 2011 during dress rehearsal of a play
#trans #transman #gay #transdayofvisibility #transgender
We drove all the way to Irvine to watch our first rugby game at the California Legion’s season opener. Could not have asked for two better companions on this boy safari 🦁 Looking forward to the game on April 19! Go Legion! #rugby #usmlr @usmlr@legion.rugby
Kicking off our 2026 season with a solo show in which one woman’s exploration of kink and sexual submission empowers her to take back control of her everyday life. February 27 & 28 at @thepico.la . Ticket link in our bio and stories!
Written and Performed by @mimi.collins288 (Water Party)
featuring @davidnett
Directed by @elliepyle (Blood Brides, Water Party)
Assistant Directed by @jacklovestv (Water Party)
Stage Managed by @effiecumming
Produced by @kitboylan and @lauriejgoulding
On being perceived.
I think I’m gonna post more of these little videos because they’re fun and people like seeing my face? Idk. Please tell me if my face is too much.