Somehow climbing a ladder to hang a chandelier feels easier than responding to one more email.
Our brains are not normal. And honestly, we wouldnāt have it any other way.
This is where the real work lives ā not in the inbox, not in the mood board, not in the planning documents that keep everything moving behind the scenes. Itās here. Hands on. In the room. Watching something that existed only as an idea on a screen become a space people actually stand inside and feel.
Styled shoots are where I get to push past the brief. No parameters, no timeline pressure ā just a concept taken as far as it can go. Drapery floor to ceiling, chandeliers stacked until the room barely breathes, candlelight everywhere, and a stunning cake from @ink_sweets that stopped everyone on set mid-sentence.
Equestria West held all of it beautifully.
This is the part of the job that reminds me why I started. š„
Photography | @adriansteinphoto ā
Venue | @bavaria_downs ā
Food | @damicohospitality ā
Planning + Design | @lainepalmplanning ā
Floral | @kindred.blooms ā
Lighting | @phosevents ā
Stationery | @jill.elaine ā
Rentals | @apreseventandtent + @collectedrentals + @smthingvintage ā
#styledshoot #eventdesign #weddingdesign #luxuryweddingplanner #weddinginspiration
Iām pretty bad at keeping up with my business page on a good day and had not realized Iāve kept all of my political thoughts on my personal page⦠but, I want to make sure that anyone interacting with me or my business knows where I stand.
The utter lack of humanity and care that is taking place in this city by ICE agents is disgusting. It makes my blood boil and my skin crawl and all I want to do is scream into the void. I donāt understand how anyone can be okay with what is happening here.
The only thing that pulls me out of the depths of sadness is seeing the way this community has come together to support one another. Whether itās donating, patrolling, protesting, or even just hosting craft nights for people to make art and talk about how theyāre feeling. Iām in complete awe of how this city has wrapped its arms around our friends, loved ones, and immigrant neighbors.
No one is illegal on stolen land.
Fuck ICE š§
āš»2025 ā I canāt say Iāll be sad to see you go. There were definitely some really beautiful moments this year but I canāt help but feel like I struggled creatively which sucks. I have all of these whacky ideas in my head for truly fun and wild cakes but canāt ever seem to get them to come to fruition. Iām consistently frustrated with the āprettinessā of weddings, which, I recognize is not really a fair judgement for me to make. Of course people want their weddings to be beautiful and pretty! Selfishly I just want to create conversation starting cakes. Something that makes people talk and adds an element of true whimsy to your event. āØle sighāØ
Friends, planners, etc ⦠please bring me your goofiest clients in 2026 šš¼ I need a little weird back in my life.
Cheers, pals š„
Venue: @glasshousemn
Planning & Design: @empiria_planning
Photography: tom_thornton
Videography: @thesmiths.film
Hair: @emilyalexanderartistry
Makeup: @heathertrachsel
Cake: @ink_sweets
Rentals: @lineneffects
Pretzels: @akis_breadhaus
Catering: @butchersalt
DJ: @kernco.disco
Florals: @unhingedfloralco
Hotel: @wminneapolis
Iāve have multiple people in the last few months mention something along the lines of, āitās crazy you donāt have more instagram followers!ā which is very kind in its own weird way but honestly? I am so bad at social media. I have a really hard time caring. But I want to! I want to share stuff! Itās just every time I get on here to post something I just feel my soul dying a little bit. It all just seems so silly in the grand scheme of how many things are going on in life at the moment.
ANYWAY!
Anyone have any advice on how to not suck so much at this part of the job? š¤Øš
Planning/Design @empiriastudios
Photography @tom_thornton_
Venue @astercafe
Cake @ink_sweets
Dress @thewhiteroommpls
Floral @apricot.floral
Stationery @huntwrightdesignco
Rings newgild
HMU @ladyvampartistry
Rentals @apreseventandtent
Models @monetmbarnes
I donāt think anyone understands how happy and how truly grateful I am when a couple gives me total creative freedom. Getting to showcase some of the weirder ideas in my head is always such a joy! Caitlyn and Mattās event was inspired by Sedona sunsets and I just couldnāt get the idea of Arizona red rocks out of my brain. Thankfully they trusted me when I said āI have an idea but I donāt know how to sketch it out ā itās going to be more of a go with the flow/trust my instincts as I work situation!ā
What a special couple, a special event, and a special cake. This is what I started Ink for š
Venue: @glasshousemn
Planning & Design: @empiria_planning
Photography: tom_thornton
Videography: @thesmiths.film
Hair: @emilyalexanderartistry
Makeup: @heathertrachsel
Cake: @ink_sweets
Rentals: @lineneffects
Pretzels: @akis_breadhaus
Catering: @butchersalt
DJ: @kernco.disco
Florals: @unhingedfloralco
Hotel: @wminneapolis
Hi šš» just checking in. Iām still hereā even though Iāve been quiet on the social media pages. Iām just tired! But tbh who isnāt? Iāve got a lot on my plate in the wedding world and also in my personal bubble. Iām currently working my way through some medical issues (donāt panic, nothing life threatening!) that are super annoying and draining me mentally and somewhat physically so I havenāt been as attentive to my business as I should be. Anyway, Iām still here! Iām doing my best! Still caking away! š°
Photography - @adriansteinphoto
Planning - @empiriastudios
Floral - @cosmos.floral
Photo - @adriansteinphoto
Food - @parisdiningclub
Cake - @ink_sweets
Venue - @urbandaisyevents
Stationery - @huntwrightdesignco
Dress - @taralatour
Hair + Makeup - @cristinaziemerbeauty
Bride - @georgiawagnild
Bar - @4liquidmotion