š Born & raised on the east coast of FL
š„ Came of age in Nashville, TN
š§ Currently finding my way in the Midwest
ā”ļø Husband/Dad/Storyteller
Another season with this ragtag group of morons is officially in the books. Grateful for the abundance of absurdity and hilarity they bring week in and week out.
My life is better with them in it! š³š¬šØš²š¬ššŗšøš¹š·š§š·šÆš²ā½ļø
I used to love doing this as a kid. Emptying a bag of dirt into a wild-west-style strainer, excitedly shaking it back and forth in a dirty trough of water with high hopes that some beautiful, undiscovered gem stone would appear as the dirt washed away. Wonder. Anticipation. Joy.
Then I got older. More cynical. Angrier. I realized the bags are stocked by some seasonal workers at a tourist attraction and itās how they make money. Itās a schtick. Itās for kids. It is what it is.
And this is how adults get lame. Itās the path I personally took to appear āmatureā and ācoolā and realistically it just made me a lot less fun. Bland. A flesh and bone version of the unsalted water cracker.
By the grace of God and the patient prodding of those that know me best, I finally realized the worldās too heavy and hard to just simmer in lame-sauce for the rest of my life.
So while nearly 40 years of practice takes a whole lot of unlearning and discomfort, Iām trying to recapture of bit of that childlike zeal by saying yes to things I used to say no to. Things like being in a play with the coolest group of young people ever, dancing tirelessly with said group, taking voice lessons (and wearing silly things to help get out of me own way), trying to laugh more than yell on the soccer field (work in progress š ), doing an improv class, bold design choices (color?!), and never skipping some good āol fashioned gem panning.
Donāt get me wrong, Iām still lame sometimes. No one has called me Captain Fun (yet), but cracks are forming in the old armor as new forms of expression start shining through.
Not sure whatās next (a musical, maybe? š), but whatever it is will likely be scary AF and good for my soul. And thatās the aim.
Whatās the saying? Shoot for escargot and maybe, if youāre lucky, youāll land as fresh sourdough on a table full of unsalted water crackers?
Something like that.
To know us is to know we donāt really sugarcoat. Life is full of ups and downs and mostly in-betweenās, and our anniversary was no different. Work and errands and kids and friends and feelings and tears and broken dishes and wondering whether we are even going to make it out of the house for dinner without throwing in the towel. And in the midst of it all, fighting to pause and reflect for just a momentāto look back at the life weāve lived and created and poured ourselves into.
And to be grateful.
Iāve lived enough to truly know thatādespite my best effortsāI am not God and I cannot control, let alone know, what tomorrow holds. But today? I get to choose whether or not to be present to that. And today Iām choosing gratitude. For the journey weāve gone on together. For the memories made and the trenches weāve fought in side-by-side. For the laughter and the heartache, because light and dark go hand in hand (despite what some of yāallās favorite Hallmark movies are trying to prove this holiday season!) Iām grateful for the lessons sheās taught me and the grace sheās shown me and the generosity sheās embodied.
All of it, together, is reflected all around us. In our kids, our home, our friends. Itās made us who we are. Made me who I am. And Iām grateful.
Love you @lindseyfrazier . Cheers to 18 years. āØ
P.S. We made it to dinner. Picture proof!
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Went to Maine. Saw some friends. Ate and drank heartily. Put my toes in the sand (a lot). Cheered for a new team. Made morning fires. Slept terribly. Stared at the ocean. Read a book to my kid via FaceTime. Missed my wife. Played with a puppy. Mountain biked for the first time. Got help from a stranger. Stocked up on worldās best bagels. Went for a frigid swim. A solid 4 days, to say the least.