📣Mental Health Awareness Month 2026📣
Remembrance on Mother’s Day💐
Today, on Mother’s Day, I am thinking about five women named FATIMA.
🌺Fatima, named in an 1813 notice, “carried off by a party of armed men” with her husband Adam and their one-year-old son, Fernando.
🌺Fatima, listed for sale in 1820 with her 5 children: two girls, ages 9 and 8, a boy about 6, and twin girls only 18 months old.
🌺Fatima, who fled bondage in 1841, seeking freedom with her two children, Rufus, age 5, and Rachel, age 2.
🌺Fatima, 26years old, a seamstress advertised for sale in 1854 with her two young sons, Robert, age 4 – “a smart boy”, and Thomas, age 2.
🌺And Fatima, 35 years old, described in 1855 as a “valuable servant, superior cook and washer,”; advertised in a “private sale” with her 15-year-old son, Edgar.
Five women. One name. Generations of Black motherhood recorded through advertisements that treated mothers and children as property to be sold, pursued, insured, recovered, or returned. This is why remembrance is absolutely critical to our healing. The UN resolution adopted in March 2026 names the “exceptional gendered nature” of racialized chattel enslavement, acknowledging that African women and girls were subjected to sexual violence, forced reproduction, domestic servitude, and gender-specific forms of exploitation.
On Mother’s Day, I am sitting with this truth. Because these women were not merely “servants,” “wenches,” “cooks,” “washers,” or “property.” They were mothers. They were wives. They were daughters. They were African/African-descendant women (likely of Muslim lineage). And yet, against extreme depravation, they mothered. They fed children, carried children, protected children, and tried—however they could—to keep something alive in a world designed to break every bond.
Today, I remember the Fatimas. I remember the children whose names survived: Rufus, Rachel, Robert, Thomas, Edgar, Fernando. I remember the unnamed children.
May Allah have mercy on them.
May their names be restored with dignity.
May their descendants know that they come from women who endured, resisted, and carried life under impossible conditions.
Ameen.🤲🏾
-Dr. Kam (
@drmamakam )