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@dj.abjectrelations

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Saturday May 2nd 9:30 PM -12:30 AM NEW DELUSION beats by @dj.abject relations drag by @jesus_vice_official and more TBA FREE Dance yrself clean
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27 days ago
Baltimore's Big Trans and 'HON' - Binary Reading! Thursday March 5th 2026 7pm Reading 9pm Dancing Beats by @dj.abjectrelations and @koticcouture The Club Car Baltimore 12 W. North Avenue @stationnorth
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3 months ago
February’s mix is up on my Mixcloud now! She’s a little open format slice of favorites from last year’s New Delusion parties - feat. Soulwax, Cerrone, Scott Walker, and many more. Link in bio and story. New gigs coming soon so watch this space! #queerdjs #queermusic #transdjs #discohouse
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3 months ago
NEW DELUSION is BACK at @theclubcar on November 22, with myself and special guest @dj_Shyboi ! Shyboi shares my love of disco and house and never fails to make the girls, gays and theys shake it all over the neighborhood, from the leather bar to the wine bar to the Club Car. They genuinely know their shit, and I’m so excited to see what they bring for the night! FREE, 9 PM-CLOSE, NOV 22 #queerdjs #queerbaltimore #queermusic #indiesleaze #discohouse
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6 months ago
My October mix is up on Mixcloud now! A quickie with a few flubs, but a vibe nonetheless. A great soundtrack to be moody about the end of summer to. Here I am feeling myself at Making Time last month!
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7 months ago
OUTCALLS Saturday October 25th 2025 Doors 730pm Music 8pm $15 cash at door $18 venmo at door Award-winning operatic pop duo Outcalls creates genre-defying music and is one of the most in-demand musical acts in Baltimore. Led by graduates of the Peabody Conservatory of Johns Hopkins University, Britt Olsen-Ecker and Melissa Wimbish have released three studio albums including Greatest Hits, Vol. 1 (2022), a culmination of 10 years of songwriting. Their latest single, "Blast!" (2024) is based on Lisa Nowak's infamous roadtrip and was produced by David Rosenthal. The duo has composed music for multiple film projects, notably the major motion picture Crisis (2021) starring Evangeline Lilly, Gary Oldman, and Lily-Rose Depp. The Club Car Baltimore 12 W. North Avenue @stationnorth
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7 months ago
NEW DELULU brings queer leftfield grooves back to the Club Car this month with yours truly and special guest @temporaryboyfriend !! July 19th 9 PM FREE GENRE-FLUID INDIE DANCE FOR THE PPL šŸ’¦
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10 months ago
JUNE 2025 MIX - ABJECT WORLDWIDE is up now on my Mixcloud A trancey indie dance set with visits to Niger and Mali. For keeping the party going at the afters - you can wind down later :) Link in bio
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10 months ago
My genre-nonconforming dance party NEW DELULU is back next weekend! Postpunk - tech house - disco - Burger Highlife for the recovering rock and roll groovephobe in you hits @theclubcarbaltimore Saturday May 17, 9:30-late. FREE!
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1 year ago
We have always been here. We will always be here. Authentic queerness isn’t a fad. Or a costume you can take off. It’s not a choice. Trust me. I spent my childhood and most of my teens praying to change. It didn’t work. And I’m so thankful it didn’t. . Come out on Saturday, March 8th for my birthday AND the release celebration for my Glorian debut album Dance Songs for Strangers. It will be a night filled with queer joy. Tickets available in my bio link. . #gay #gayboy #gaypride #gayman #gaymen #gaylife #gayart #instagay #music #gaymusic #gaymusician #pop #gaypop #popmusic #queer #queerpride #queerartist #queerart #queerjoy #queen #electronics #electronicmusic #electronic #folk #folkmusic #queerfolk #homosexual #gayagenda #folkpop
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1 year ago
seriously, I haven’t done an introduction post yet??? let’s remedy that - Hi! i’m J (he/him), a trans and gender-nonconforming musician, songwriter, and dj, based here in Baltimore. You might know me as the guitarist from the queer noise-pop trio Manners Manners, with whom I’ve been going steady for a decade. I’ve been making ~guitar music~ as a solo artist and in bands for over 15 years now, with stints in The Selkies, Guided by Wire, Silence Kid, and a smattering of others. Indie rock is the world I know best, and dance music is still something of a frontier for me. I approach dj’ing, humbly, as a largely untrained magpie collage artist. Being of service to a crowd in this role is uniquely rewarding, and presents history lessons and stimulating challenges to me at every turn. I don’t settle for creative endeavors that don’t scratch an intellectual itch, and this is no exception. I’m risking being embarassingly sincere and serious here, so I’ll cut to the chase already: I’m throwing my first dance party, NEW DELUSION, next Saturday, December 14th, at the Club Car! Expect disco (old and nü), house, cunty techno, funk, indie sleaze, hi-nrg, hit ā€˜em, pop girlies, divas, Devo, freak wave, permanent wave, wave wave…will it cohere? Dive into my ephemera bin with me on the dance floor and find out <3 NU DELUSION no. 1 @theclubcarbaltimore 9 PM December 14 $5 at the door no creeps or creep behavior
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1 year ago
I’ve been sitting on this for a minute and I am SO EXCITED to be announcing Baltimore’s newest, queerest, free-form dance party: NEW DELUSION playing exactly what i feel like playing all night - disco/house/post punk/techno/hyperpop/hi-nrg/who even knows what else, as long as it makes you move coming to the club car december 14 9 PM $5
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1 year ago