Exhibit A: Me.
I’ve had a lot of new faces around here lately and quite a few inquiries for 2027 (hello!), so I thought it was time to finally step out from behind the lens and say hi. My second shooter, Tracy, tried to catch some "professional" shots of me in action at a recent wedding, but as you can see... I have a natural reflex to do something stupid the second a camera finds me.
It is incredibly rare to get a photo of me being sensible. I feel awkward, I look awkward, and I’m pretty sure it comes across in the photos.
But here’s the weird part. My reviews always say the same thing: that I make people feel so relaxed in front of the camera. Maybe that’s because I know exactly what it feels like to want to hide. I know the “what do I do with my hands?” panic because I feel it too. I’ve made it my mission to make sure you never have to feel that way.
I’m here for the real emotions, the loud laughs, the messy moments, and the stories that feel like you, not a Pinterest board.
If you’re looking for a photographer who gets the awkwardness and turns it into something beautiful, I’m your person. Just don’t ask me to model.
DM me to check your wedding date today ❤️
📸: @tmephotographyherts
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After photographing almost 70 weddings, I have lost count of the amount of times that I have heard people tell me that they have invited people out of obligation. Whether that be their parents' friends or aunts and uncles that they never see, I think there is a shift coming and I am noticing it happen less and less.
Intimate weddings are my favorite. A room where it is only the couple's absolute nearest and dearest is unmatched. In 2026, do we still need to be inviting people just because our parents have been friends with them for 30 years? It is not about being mean, it is about being realistic. Even if it is not going to take you over budget, could that money not be put into something else?
If you would not speak to that person within a year, why on earth would you invite them to your wedding? For 2026, I am throwing out obligation invites and wholeheartedly encouraging my clients to do exactly what feels right for them.
I know firsthand how hard it is when family pressure kicks in, so I want to know, how are you handling the guest list? Are you sticking to your guns, or is the pressure to invite your parents' bridge club getting to you? Let me know in the comments if you need a bit of moral support to hit that delete button.
DM me to check availability for your wedding 📸
Thank you to @yourreelwedding for the BTS of this beautiful family wedding 💒
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I think I’ll always be looking for my Grandad in every wedding I shoot.
After I posted about the smell of his garage last week, so many of you reached out with your own memories. It made me realize again why I’m so obsessed with these specific, quiet moments.
This is Daisy and her Grandad. 🤍
There was so much going on around us, cars arriving, veils being straightened, the hum of the day starting. But when he saw her, everything else just... stopped.
Looking at his face here, you can see the whole story. It’s not just a "first look"; it’s decades of love and a legacy right there in front of me.
This is the "sentimental" side of what I do. I’m not just there to get the "standard" shots. I’m there to make sure that in 30 years, when you’re looking back, you have the exact photo that takes you back to how it felt to be loved like this.
Currently booking for 2026 and 2027. If you’re planning a day that’s more about the people than the 'stuff,' I’d love to be the one to capture it for you. Link in bio to chat. ✨
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Don’t let being nice ruin your wedding memories.
Most couples are too polite to ask the uncomfortable questions, but let’s be real: your wedding isn't a drill. You’re investing your time and money, and "trust me, it'll be fine" isn't a backup plan. Here are the 3 things you’re probably too shy to ask (but definitely should):
1. "How do you keep my photos safe?"
If your photographer only has one SD card in their camera, they are playing with fire. I shoot with dual-slot cameras, meaning every single image is written to two separate cards instantly. I also bring multiple camera bodies, because if a shutter fails during the first kiss, "oops" doesn't cut it.
2. "What happens if you’re hit by a bus?" 🚌
(Or, you know, just get really ill!) It’s never happened, and I’m not planning on it, but you need a professional answer. I have a robust network of incredible photographers l can lean on. If I can’t be there, I’ll find you a replacement of the same standard. And if they aren’t your vibe? You get a full refund to find your own. You will never be left stranded on my watch.
3. "Can I see a FULL wedding gallery?
Anyone can curate 10 "hero" shots for Instagram. But can they handle a dark church, a rainy reception, or a jumping dance floor? Ask to see the whole delivery, the good, the bad, and the low-light. If they hesitate, that’s your red flag. 🚩
The moral of the story? Don't be afraid to grill your suppliers. A true pro will love that you’re asking.
Which of these would you be most nervous to ask? Tell me in the comments! 👇
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I promised you natural photos, I didn’t say I’d look natural taking them.
I was at a wedding fair recently and a couple came up to me and said: “I remember you! You were the photographer lying face-down on the floor at that wedding to get the shot!”
Honestly? Highest compliment ever.
If you want those effortless, candid, “how did she catch that?” moments, you have to hire a photographer who isn't afraid to look a bit ridiculous in the process. I’ll do the lunging, the diving, and the floor-laying so you can just stay in the moment.
I might look ridiculous, but the results are always natural.
Limited availability across 2026, 2027 & 2028
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If you know me, you know I love it when my couples decide to break with tradition, and that is exactly what Jenny and David did for their wedding at @cottesmorecountryclub
They shared their first dance alone in the courtyard, tucked away from everyone else just after we had finished their portraits. Jenny hadn't told David what she was planning, but she arranged for the venue staff to put their song on so they could have a private moment to themselves before entering their wedding breakfast. It was truly one of the most unique things I have ever seen at a wedding.
I did my best to stay back and capture the moment from the sidelines. This is exactly why I always carry a variety of lenses with me; it ensures I can document these intimate scenes without ever having to intrude on the moment.
The final frame in this set is a particular favourite of mine. A few guests had spotted them from the balcony and started cheering and sharing a bit of banter from above. Seeing Jenny and David with their hands in the air, looking up and laughing with their friends, was such a sweet, spontaneous end to this special moment.
If you are planning your wedding and don't want to wait, please DM me immediately. My diary is getting very full and I only take on two weddings a month to ensure my service remains the best it can possibly be.
Venue: @cottesmorecountryclub
Mua: @jukchalk
Florist: @floralandwildbyemma
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I’m a firm believer that the "little things" are actually the biggest things. 🤍
Coming from a nursing background, I’ve always been drawn to human connection, the quiet ways we show love when we think no one is looking. This bouquet charm is a perfect example.
It’s a photo of a photo. It was this bride's way of making sure her mum was right there with her, walking down the aisle at South Farm.
When I’m at a wedding, I’m not just there for the big, loud moments. I’m there to look after the sentiment. I take these photos because I know that in twenty years, it’s often these "small" details that hold the most weight.
South Farm is always such a joy to shoot at because it’s just full of these little stories, from the handwritten notes to the thoughtful guest newspapers. It's a place that really celebrates the details, just like I do.
Photos are forever. They’re how we keep people with us. And that's exactly why I don’t just take photos of people all day, I capture the things that connect us.
Are you a sentimental soul too? I’d love to hear about the little details you’re planning for your big day. Drop a comment or slide into my DMs for a chat!
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At almost every wedding I shoot, there’s a bridesmaid (or two!) who is the ultimate unsung hero. They are the ones running between rooms with a pair of scissors in one hand and a glass of Prosecco in the other.
They’re the ones checking that the flowers have arrived, hunting down people for photos, and capturing every behind-the-scenes moment on their phones so the couple doesn't miss a thing. They don't truly let their guard down until the first dance is over, that’s when you finally see the shoes come off and the party really begin.
I have a huge amount of respect for this role. Having had my own best friend since I was four years old, I know that asking someone to stand by your side on your wedding day isn’t just a small gesture, it’s a testament to years of shared history, secrets, and support.
I love capturing these relationships. The quiet glances of reassurance during hair and makeup, and the loud, messy laughter on the dance floor. It’s these bonds that make the day feel like home.
Tag your wedding day support crew in the comments 👇
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Yesterday marked the big milestone, I’m officially 40! I celebrated by heading into London for a day of doing exactly what makes my soul happy. My husband knows me well, so he took me to a vintage market (my absolute favorite!) where I got to play with some street photography. I met some truly lovely people, including a stall owner who was such a beautiful soul. I’ll be sharing some portraits I took of her over on my business page soon, she even gifted me the most beautiful candles for my birthday! We finished the day at the Tower of London; it was so refreshing to wander through history on a weekday without the usual crowds. I’m really trying to push myself with street photography. It’s a totally different beast to weddings! At a wedding, everyone expects the camera, but on the street, you’re trying to capture the story without interrupting the moment (or looking like a total weirdo lurking in the shadows! 😂). It’s definitely a confidence work-in-progress. But that’s the heart of it for me: I just love telling stories wherever I go. Whether it’s a milestone wedding or a quiet moment in a city market, I’m obsessed with the "blink-and-you’ll-miss-it" magic.
I’m so excited to see what stories this next decade brings my way. Cheers to 40! 🥂🪴
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It’s the biggest trap in weddings: you spend 18 months planning a day for two people, only to spend the actual day apart.
Between Auntie Susan’s stories and the open bar, you become hosts instead of a couple.
My Suggestion? The One Drink Rule 🍷
At some point during your reception, grab your partner and sneak away. Go somewhere quiet. Finish one entire drink, just the two of you. No photos, no guests, no small talk.
Take ten minutes to actually look at the person you just married.
Because if you don’t fight for that connection, the day will move on without you.
🗓️ 2027 Diary is now open. If you want a photographer who protects your connection as much as your gallery, click the link in my bio.
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My top 3 “must see” wedding venues in Hertfordshire, from a wedding photographer who has shot them and even married at one! Hertfordshire has some of the most stunning backdrops in the UK, but these three are always at the top of my list for their unique light and character.
@fanhams_hall in Ware is a total dream if you love that grand, editorial look. Between the Jacobean Long Gallery and the Japanese gardens, every corner feels cinematic.
@southfarmweddings in Royston is perfect if you want something more relaxed and organic. I love the iconic blue door and the 20 acres of gardens (and the piglets are always a hit with guests!).
@offleyplace is my personal favourite. Not just because it’s where I said ‘I Do,’ but because it actually sits on the site of an 8th-century Saxon Palace. The way the light hits those conservatory chandeliers at golden hour is just magic.
I’m currently opening up my 2026 and 2027 calendar for a limited number of weddings. Since I only take on a few dates a year to keep my quality and turnaround times high, dates do tend to go quickly.
DM me your venue and date to check my availability, I’d love to hear more about what you're planning! ❤️
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So many smiles and a 20 photo upload limit 🤣
There will definitely need to be a part two of Matt & Leah's wedding at @bassmeadmanorbarns
This beautiful barn wedding in the Cambridgeshire countryside was full of love, laughter & connection, my favourite elements of any wedding.
Leah looked absolutely beautiful and her bridesmaids were by her side every step of the way. Matt's best man flew in from Australia to be a part of their wedding day. They are clearly a very loved couple!
It was my first time at Bassmead, what a gorgeous wedding venue! I hope to be back soon!
Venue: @bassmeadmanorbarns
Photo: @april.ridge.photography
Video: @april.ridge.photography
Second shooter: @tmephotographyherts
MUA: @danirobertsmakeup
Hair: @ievagenovesibridal
Dress: @blush_ely
Suits: @chimneyformalmenswear
Flowers: @jccambridge
Venue decor: @onreflection_magicmirrors
Guest video compilation: @edityourwedding
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