If youâre in HR you might have wondered how do we create psychological safety as part of cultural change? What burnout related issues affect turnover? What actually works to ensure performance and wellbeing, or do we have to choose?
Or you might be an employee asking how do I support a member of my team when theyâre burning out without me burning out too? How do I protect myself if theyâre cause of the burnout is the workplace? At what point do I find another place to work, or what can I do to impact positive change in it?
Over the next few weeks @yourburnoutcoach@andrebright will be answering all your questions with a separate video, so put yours in the comments for answers to questions you may not have felt safe enough to ask
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If you keep finding yourself struggling with stress, you might have been treating the symptoms, not the causes
The RELIEF framework I developed looks at your stress, holistically
It helps you identify the stresses and stressors, symptoms and causes, and gives a structure do deal with them immediately and long term
This carousel might be enough for it to click for you
If not, the webinar gives more detail, and if you still need help, comment âstressâ to book a call with me
Weâll get to the bottom of your stress and decide if weâre a good fit to work with each other
I think thereâs a fine line between effective coping mechanisms and masking.
We still have a job to do so you do what you need to, to get it done
But years, decades of refining this down to an art/science can get to the point where people forget your experience is happening at all!
But if they donât see the signs, they assume youâre ok
And if they assume youâre ok, they may forget to ask
And if they donât ask, you may feel alone
And feeling alone, you may refine your approach even more to keep it even more hidden, and the cycle continues
In this episode of the What a RELIEF! podcast, Iâm talking to Vicki Hodges about endometriosis, but this can apply to any chronic condition
- fibroids
- grief
- sickle cell
- shame
If you feel like you may be masking too well, and donât feel like there is a safe space where you can be honest about what youâre carrying and need strategies to help you break that cycle, DM me
Menstrual health related stresses donât stop when you enter the office and resume when you leave.
But youâre a leader at senior level - director, head, c-suite - dealing with a condition that doesnât end, and still relied on to make quick decisions, manage conflict and KPIs, and maintain client engagement.
So what reasonable adjustments, policies, ERGs that support those with menstrual health related issues, does your company provide? What can they do to help?
On this weekâs episode of the What a RELIEF podcast, I speak to Vicki Hodges about the impact that endometriosis and other chronic conditions have on stress, and what scope organisations may have to provide support.
If youâre living with a chronic condition or want to know how better to support someone who does, this episode is an important one.
What happens when giving something the best chance means letting go of control instead of doing it all yourself?
I discuss this and more, with Dylan Brown, co-founder of SEJA on Episode 9 of the What a RELIEF! Podcast (out now on all platforms)
Letting go could mean:
- better ideas because more diverse insight is invested
- empowerment of others because they get to contribute, improve, learn
- more time for you because letting go gives you capacity for other things
But what happens when the idea alone is a trigger?
A recent client had this problem. They felt they were the best/only ones who could do certain tasks in the company so we explored it logically:
- what are you afraid of? The tasks that need to be done or being done, and those we help donât get what they need
- I see. How old are you? 50s
- how long before you plan to retire? Maybe another 10 years?
- what happens when you leave behind the tasks only you can do? OhâŚ
This was a shift, but just the beginning.
As you may know by now, behind every logical step, is an emotional one.
So we explored questions like:
- when you think about letting go, what feelings/emotions come up?
- what beliefs drive those emotions?
- how much of those beliefs are actually true vs a story?
- what would be the benefits of letting go - for you, your company, your clients?
- so what would need to be true for you to let go and release that abundance?
- and what would need to happen to make that possible?
At this point, weâre already building his exit strategy, and the energy towards letting go has shifted from anxiety to excitement.
Thatâs what happens when you have someone to help you reframe problems into opportunities.
If your struggling to let go is causing stress for you, your teams, and clients, DM me - I offer one free 30minute no obligation consultation where we can explore what opportunities lie behind your stresses/stressors
A 2024 survey of 12000 @unisontheunion members found that over 30% of NHS England staff surveyed took time off due to mental health issues with many experiencing panic attacks, high blood pressure, and dizziness due to workplace stress.
In this episode of the What a RELIEF podcast, @andrebright talks to @fearose (clinical nurse specialist) about her experiences and observations of her own stress and those of her colleagues.
Where are you trying to push through despite the symptoms?
đď¸ The What A Relief Podcast helps high-performing leaders and professionals reduce stress, prevent burnout, and build resilience in demanding workplaces.
If youâre in leadership, HR, L&D, or managing a high-pressure role â this is for you.
If you found value here:
â Subscribe
â Rate & review
đŹ Comment your key takeaway
đ Share with your team
đFull episode link in the comments/bio.
Stress doesnât stay in one area of your life.
If your finances are tight, you donât just âfocus harderâ at work â you overthink, lose sleep, and stay in survival mode.
If your relationship feels strained, you donât just âpush throughâ meetings â you become more reactive, less patient, and mentally scattered.
And if work is intense, it doesnât magically stop at 6pm â it follows you home as irritability, emotional withdrawal, insomnia, or that constant feeling of being âon edge.â
In todayâs episode, @andrebright (burnout prevention coach) and Nathanya Legesse (psychotherapist) explore the real stressors leaders are carrying, and how they manifest physically and emotionally.
Because the goal isnât to pretend stress doesnât exist.
The goal is to learn how to regulate it, recover properly, and perform sustainably without sacrificing your personal life.
If youâre feeling this right now, DM me and Iâll share how I help high-performing professionals build stress resilience.
đď¸ Welcome to the âWhat A Reliefâ Podcast
Helping high-performing leaders and professionals reduce stress, prevent burnout, and build resilience in demanding workplaces.
If youâre in leadership, HR, L&D, or managing a high-pressure role â this is for you.
If you found value here:
â Subscribe
â Rate & review
đŹ Comment your key takeaway
đ Share with your team
đFull episode link in the comments/bio.
What an incredible weekend at our very first Sheffield event! â¨
A huge THANK YOU to all the amazing dance schools who attended â the standard was truly outstanding, and every performance brought something special to the floor Weâre so grateful you chose to be part of this milestone with us.
Massive appreciation as well to our fantastic judges and dedicated staff who made the event run so smoothly. Special thanks to Marvel, Charlene, Loose, Hsiao and Andre for your expertise, energy, and support đŤ
Weâre already counting down the days⌠we canât wait to be back next April! đĽ
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If youâve been in my workshops, youâve probably heard me say âbe careful not to reward climbing a mountain, with another mountainâ.
As Amelia and Emily Nagoski talk about in their phenomenal book âBurnoutâ, to avoid stress accumulating, we reset by completing our stress cycles.
One of the many ways to do this is to celebrate our achievements.
However, itâs been brought to my attention that I, your burnout prevention coach, donât do this enough.
Sure, my 40th year had its challenges (6months of recovery from surgery has a way of testing your mindset), but it also had its wins - awards, speaking, hosting, travelling, launching my podcast, new clients and partnerships.
Upon reflection, I didnât give anywhere near as much space for the ups as I did the downs (and Iâm pretty sure some wins went completely unnoticed as a result).
My last year taught me that if I can give capacity to the challenges when things go wrong, itâs possible to have an equal and opposite capacity and frequency to celebrate wins when things go right.
So, this year, I will do just that, starting with my first win.
Reaching my 41st year.
What can you celebrate today?
Share in the comments.