We said goodbye to Simi last week. She was the love of our lives.
Simi was a special creature. She was cat-like and aloof around new people, but joyful and feisty with her inner circle. She was gentle and calm with toddlers, but a menace to rodents.
Phil adopted this sweetie pie street dog when he was 22, and she was eight or nine months old. When he and I started dating a few years later, it was clear that the two of them were a package deal. Early in our relationship, I vowed to Phil that I’d love her and care for her as if she were my own — a promise that proved easy to keep once she had wormed her way into my heart.
Simi nearly made it to 16, much to our surprise, and her life was full of joy. She swam in lakes and pools, chased critters, and went on countless road trips and nature adventures with us. She accompanied one of us to work almost every single day for the last decade. This rascal played with her favorite treat ball for literally thousands of hours, and demanded to be pet in exactly the manner she preferred. When I was laid up in bed following a bad injury, Simi was my fierce protector — she didn’t leave my side for months, and had to be bribed with treats just to leave for walks. She was prioritized in nearly every decision Phil and I have made in our 11 years together.
Simi lived a gloriously full life, and had a peaceful, dignified death. Her last day was filled with sunshine and tenderness, one last outing to Fort Funston, an entire steak, and a sweet goodbye at home in our arms, with a warm breeze blowing through the house.
I know all of this, and am comforted by it… and yet the grief is almost unbearable. I can’t believe that I have to live every day of the rest of my life without her by my side. I’m so grateful to at least be going through this with Phil.
I’ll probably continue sharing photos and videos of her on the
@simipalooza account. It brings me joy to relive chapters of Simi’s life. I welcome any memories or observations you feel like sharing. Thank you for loving her and delighting in her, either in person or from afar.
I love you, sweet Simi girl.
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(Photo credit for images 1 and 2:
@kindredweddings )