Happy Mommies Day to All ❤️
Twenty plus twenty. I spent twenty years being someone’s child, and now I’ve spent twenty years being a mother. It’s honestly crazy to think about how quickly time has passed.
Motherhood was never easy for me. I didn’t have the fancy baby showers, a husband serenading me, or someone constantly there to comfort and reassure me that everything would be okay. I couldn’t even celebrate birthdays properly because I was always running back and forth to courts, dealing with life and responsibilities. There was no one massaging my back or legs, no soft and easy version of motherhood for me. Looking back, I genuinely don’t know how those years passed, and if I’m honest, I would never want to relive them.
Motherhood is not as easy as people make it seem. What truly makes the journey lighter is having a support system — the friends you choose to keep around you, the family that stands by you, and the meaningful people who enter your life and make you feel valued and cherished. Those are the people who keep you going.
So no, motherhood has not been a cakewalk for me. But would I change anything about my life now, with my beautiful son? Absolutely not. Motherhood has made me stronger, more nurturing, more empathetic, and more understanding. It changed me in some of the best ways possible.
Every single day, I continue trying to be the best mother my son could ever have. And more than anything, I’m grateful that I will always be his safe space. That matters more to me than anyone else’s validation ever could. At the end of the day, as long as my son is happy with me, that is more than enough. @muhammadpatnii for you a 1000 times over ❤️🤩
Living up to my middle name 👸🏻
I did not crawl through the shards of my own brokenness to live a mediocre life.
I’ve prepared for magic. Within me and around me ✨
@summiyyap 📸
Beating and braving the European Summer.☀️🇮🇹
The best feeling to take your kid to see places you saw as a child.
25 years later pretty much remember our 8th std classes with Ms Darasha as she fondly taught us the Roman Empire and all its marvel and grandeur and its rise and fall. But its impact on the current civilization remains profound. 🇮🇹💯
#rome #roma #ancienthistory #romanarchitecture #italy #europeansummer #travel #summer2024
J.B. Petit @jbpalumni is not just a school for us, it’s an emotion. We have grown up to be everything that we are today thanks to J.B. Petit. As fondly as Miss Datarsha would always say, the Irish Prayer is what truly made us feel at home:
“May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and the rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand.”
That prayer, those memories, and the love we received within these walls will forever stay with us.
Safe to say we made it to the 25 most noticeable Alumni of JB 😬🥳
After a year of tireless work by Karishma @karimehta05 and her team, they’ve built something truly meaningful — a support system for those navigating legal battles, domestic violence and abuse, cancer recovery, grief, and even manifestation journeys ✨ I’m so happy to share that I’m now a part of Kevat App, and here to offer a safe, understanding space for anyone who needs it 🤍
App is available for all IOS and Android users , in India currently.
Do share with anyone you feel’s needs a sounding board ❤️
We are here ❤️
Happy Happy 16 + few Dearest Baby Sis @summiyyap
Sailing life with me is absolute bliss 🤪
It’s true you know it toooo 😂😂
Love
Apa ❤️
Around the world cuz that’s how we rolll
#2026
Surrounded by talent in abundance as we all know 😏
Love in abundance and lots of laughter food smiles and everything nice!
Thats what pretty girls are made of❤️🥳
#2026
19 February 2006
20 years ago, I walked away from an abusive marriage.
I was just a few months short of 20.
I chose not to return to a toxic environment.
I chose peace.
I chose to raise my son on my own.
And it remains the best decision I’ve ever made.
This journey has taught me:
• Healing is not linear. Some days you rise, some days you rest.
• Unhealed trauma repeats itself — do the work so it doesn’t define you.
• The people who stand by you in your hardest seasons are your real ones. Presence doesn’t have to be loud — just consistent.
• The ones who protect your children will always protect you.
• Not everyone who smiles with you stands for you — and that’s okay. Discernment is peace.
• I have been misunderstood, misjudged, and discussed in rooms I never entered. I no longer rush to correct every narrative. Time reveals truth.
• It is better to raise a child in peace than in a home filled with fear.
• Some friendships faded. Some strengthened. I learned not to chase what chooses to walk away.
• Gratitude keeps me grounded — even on the heavy days.
• Pray. Nourish your body. Move. Reflect.
• If it doesn’t align, release it.
• Not everyone will be comfortable with your growth — and that’s not your responsibility.
I am still learning.
Still healing.
Still choosing better.
I built a small, beautiful circle — and I am deeply grateful for those who stayed with integrity.
Some came for a season.
Some came for a lifetime.
I hold no bitterness — only clarity.
And clarity is freedom.
Twenty years later, I’m at peace with whatever narrative floats your boat — this mothership isn’t sinking. ✨
It’s our duty to protect families who have suffered from violence and abuse . Not everyone can leave and live easily.
There will come a time when we meet and our conversations will no longer be about violence, but about how peaceful and beautiful this world has become.
But when will that time come?
It will come when we educate and raise this generation to break the generational cycles of violence and abuse.
Is it important to speak about it?
Yes—now more than ever. And louder than before.
I have faced countless hurdles in my life. I have been silenced, told I was “too much,” asked to shrink myself to fit into what society calls normal. I tried putting myself in a box—but I couldn’t stay there.
I didn’t speak up for attention.
I spoke up so my son would know the difference between right and wrong.
I spoke up to break the cycle.
I spoke up so my peers would become aware.
I spoke up so people like me would know that it’s okay to not be okay—and that it is absolutely okay to speak out loud.
Let’s end this cycle.
Let’s stand together.
Let’s sign this petition.
Let’s end r**e and abuse—for a safer, kinder future. ❤️
@supsawitch Thank you for having me ❤️
@_audreydmello@thesafecityapp
