Last year I ran two OOBP day parties, at our usual times of year around the Mar / Sept equinoxes.
The 1st party, at EartH Kitchen, involved a full band live set from Joviale, their first time playing out in years. The highly intense day started with someone telling me the room was just not set up for a band - thankfully it worked out, with help from EartH’s golden community studio team,
@studi0_36 , photographed amazingly by
@eric.aydin.barberini
Joviale has since dropped their wonderful debut album, Mount Crystal.
The 2nd party was in much smaller venue (HWK), but took much more work. We went through a full feedback process with Neuro-Diverse guests from previous events (facilitated by
@jeanie_gee_ , plus extra insight from
@disconeurotico ), and fully reworked the format.
It was scary; prioritising neuro-diverse needs required cutting out parts of the party that I loved (parts that were also helpful for ticket sales). The new party had fully distinct spaces, a variety of activities, ranging from meditative to explorative, and explanatory welcome packs by
@heartleeap
Everyone who returned said that they preferred it (whether they were Neuro Diverse or not), filling me with excitement about pushing on and advocating for this stuff. Not a moment too soon - I was so ready to wind it down and live a simpler life, just doing my day job and chilling at the weekends.
Talking of day job, I ended ‘25 by bringing in and managing my first full research project at
@themix.global , exploring some new secret *things* that could be genuinely helpful for Neuro-Diverse people, having been freshly reminded how taking guidance from a range of ND people (as they discuss a world that wasn’t built for us) can make things more fun and more accessible for *everyone*. I’ve always intuitively believed this, so it feels surreal to be typing it into a Figma deck, sat alongside colleagues who have come to my party and seen the vision.
Thank you to everyone who has supported my work this year. It was only 2 years ago that I was deeply unemployed, praying that one of my research job or event funding applications get accepted. Sometimes things suddenly work out.