Wayne LeSane

@wayne.lesane

Certified Sex, Intimacy, & Relationship Coach
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New year, same commitment to community, support, and radically embracing your truth! Join us every other Thursday for our Consensual Non-Monogamy Support Group. Meetings are virtual, only $20 to drop in, and are hosted by LAST’s own intimacy and relationship coach Wayne LeSane. Wayne is the cofounder of @shades_of_nonmonogamy and has a wealth of experience supporting members of the CNM community. Join him TOMORROW, 1/9, at 5pm PST to ask questions, share experiences and feelings, and foster discussion around what is still a somewhat taboo truth that so many are living! Link in bio to sign up 🌈
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1 year ago
. . . Shades of Relating: Non-Monogamy Support for Men $20.00 Every other Tuesday STARTING March 19th 5:00 - 6:15 pm PST Virtual Space A group of vulnerability, support and humor in our shared pleasures and struggles of our dating and relationship experiences. This is a space where you can let your guard down some to connect with yourself and with other men who also value the comradery, self-reflection and opportunity for personal growth within community. REGISTER to reserve your spot and to receive the video meeting link. 👆🏾Link in Bio #menssupportgroup #nonmonogamysupport #nonmonogamy #relationshipsupport #relationalwellness #community #communityformen #bipoc #bipocsupport #polyamory #swingers #monogamish #relationshipanarchy #emotionalsupport #emotionalwellness
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2 years ago
In this episode of the LAST podcast, Shades of Pleasure, Mou, Melissa, Wayne, and Kelly explore why even the experts need support. Even with all the tools, insight, and training, there are limits to self-reflection, especially when we’re emotionally invested in our own lives and relationships. The conversation also highlights the value of outside perspective. Whether through therapy, coaching, or community-based resources like books and podcasts, engaging with someone who has no stake in your life can help interrupt confirmation bias, illuminate blind spots, and support deeper growth. An objective lens can reveal patterns, offer grounded feedback, and invite new ways of understanding ourselves and our relationships.
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2 days ago
Real Talk with the Sexperts is back!!! 🎤💥 And you’re invited to this month’s panel- Staying or Leaving. Relationships evolve—and sometimes that means repair, sometimes it means redefining, and sometimes it means letting go. Join us for a thoughtful, honest conversation about how people navigate these turning points. We’ll explore everything from communication and repair to restructuring relationships and moving through breakups with care and intention. Also, you may have heard, it’s our 1 year birthdayversary! 🎁🥳🎂 and we want to celebrate you!! If you’d like to be entered into a giveaway for a free Pure Romance pleasure product, a 30 minute discovery call with one of your favorite coaches or therapists —- including @wayne.lesane @intimacylacey @unforbiddenlifestyle @ofcolorshealing @abrandikink and myself— Follow these steps to enter into the birthday giveaway! HOW TO ENTER: 📲 Share your experience with Real Talk Post, comment, or send us a message—tell us what you learned, loved, or how it felt to be there (written, audio, or video all welcome) 🗓️ Join the next panel: Tuesday, May 19 | 6–7 PM EST 👀 Follow us @realtalksexperts Link in bio to register!! 🔗#breakups #nonmonogamy #monogamy #dating #relationships
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13 days ago
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18 days ago
In the latest episode of our podcast Shades of Pleasure, Mou, Melissa, Wayne, and Kelly break down the blame game and explore the role of radical responsibility in relationships and how it often breaks down as seen in the therapy room. Men’s roles in modern relationships have changed. For many, the traditional roles of provider or protector no longer define partnership. Many women are seeking something different now. Equality. Emotional presence. Shared responsibility. Partnership that feels mutual, not hierarchical. The challenge is that many men have not been taught or shown what this version of partnership looks like. Models of healthy, emotionally attuned roles for men are still limited.
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23 days ago
🚨Real Talk With The Sexperts: Mythbusting Highlights A HUGE thank you to everyone who joined us last night! We tackled tough topics, dispelled myths, and had real conversations around low desire, relationship exclusivity, and what counts as “real sex.” We covered so much more, and it was all driven by your questions! The conversation is always unique, but one thing’s for sure: community, heartfelt advice, laughter, and learning come together. Join us next month on April 21–details coming soon, with exciting new panelists! 🔥💜🚨‼️ Did you attend or have you attended Real Talk before? Share your experience below or drop one thing you learned below in the comments 👇 ‼️Also be sure to follow our new page @realtalksexperts Interested in being a featured panelist! Send a DM! We’d love to connect with you! 💜 #coaching #education #relationships #intimacy #realtalkwiththesexperts
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1 month ago
🚨Real Talk With The Sexperts: Mythbusting Highlights A HUGE thank you to everyone who joined us last night! We tackled tough topics, dispelled myths, and had real conversations around low desire, relationship exclusivity, and what counts as “real sex.” We covered so much more, and it was all driven by your questions! The conversation is always unique, but one thing’s for sure: community, heartfelt advice, laughter, and learning come together. Join us next month on April 21–details coming soon, with exciting new panelists! 🔥💜🚨‼️ Did you attend or have you attended Real Talk before? Share your experience below or drop one thing you learned below in the comments 👇 ‼️Also be sure to follow our new page @realtalksexperts Interested in being a featured panelist! Send a DM! We’d love to connect with you! 💜 #coaching #education #relationships #intimacy #realtalkwiththesexperts
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1 month ago
🚨Real Talk With The Sexperts: Mythbusting Highlights A HUGE thank you to everyone who joined us last night! We tackled tough topics, dispelled myths, and had real conversations around low desire, relationship exclusivity, and what counts as “real sex.” We covered so much more, and it was all driven by your questions! The conversation is always unique, but one thing’s for sure: community, heartfelt advice, laughter, and learning come together. Join us next month on April 21–details coming soon, with exciting new panelists! 🔥💜🚨‼️ Did you attend or have you attended Real Talk before? Share your experience below or drop one thing you learned below in the comments 👇 ‼️Also be sure to follow our new page @realtalksexperts Interested in being a featured panelist! Send a DM! We’d love to connect with you! 💜 #coaching #education #relationships #intimacy #realtalkwiththesexperts
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1 month ago
🚨Real Talk With The Sexperts: Mythbusting Highlights A HUGE thank you to everyone who joined us last night! We tackled tough topics, dispelled myths, and had real conversations around low desire, relationship exclusivity, and what counts as “real sex.” We covered so much more, and it was all driven by your questions! The conversation is always unique, but one thing's for sure: community, heartfelt advice, laughter, and learning come together. Join us next month on April 21–details coming soon, with exciting new panelists! 🔥💜🚨‼️ Did you attend or have you attended Real Talk before? Share your experience below or drop one thing you learned below in the comments 👇 ‼️Also be sure to follow our new page @realtalksexperts Interested in being a featured panelist! Send a DM! We’d love to connect with you! 💜 #coaching #education #relationships #intimacy #realtalkwiththesexperts
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1 month ago
Real Talk is a live edutainment Q&A panel with your favorite therapists, coaches, and educators here to transform conversations around relationships and modern intimacy. Each Live Q and A panel invites the audience to anonymously or openly ask their most pressing, curious, or vulnerable questions. Panelists respond in real time—offering a dynamic blend of expert advice, research-informed perspectives, lived experience, and compassionate guidance. No two Real Talk events are alike! The topics shift with each panel, and so does the lineup—ensuring a fresh, diverse, and culturally expansive lens every time. The result is a space where people learn, laugh, unlearn shame, and leave with clarity, community, and deeper self-knowledge. We invite you to subscribe to our YouTube, peep 👀 all the former discussions, and join us on the 3rd Tuesday of every month from 6-7 pm EST for conversation and community. We can’t wait to see you there! #realtalkwiththesexperts #modernintimacy #relationships #dating #education
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2 months ago
Welcome back to Real Talk with the Sexperts!! Join us for this month’s Real Talk Panel “Hot Seat Sexperts!” —- a rapid fire myth vs. truth edition with audience Q and A. We’re tackling the big questions and bold assumptions that shape how we think about sex, desire, and relationships. You’ve heard them before: “Is monogamy natural? “Sexual desire is gendered.” “Great sex should be spontaneous and effortless.” We’ll unpack what’s myth, what’s truth, and what’s more complicated than a yes-or-no answer. What myth, assumption, or “rule” about sex or relationships have you always wondered about? What topic do you want us to debunk? As always bring your curiosity, and submit your questions in advance! We’re breaking down what’s outdated, what’s cultural conditioning, and what actually holds up under real scrutiny. Bring your curiosity — and your questions. FREE AND LIVE ON ZOOM! Tuesday, March 17 6-7 PM EST Register at the link in bio! We can’t wait to see you there!! 😍#realtalkwiththesexperts #panel #education #mythbusting #relationships
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2 months ago