This part of my life has taught me much. Through experiences, reflections, grief, conversations, and people, I’ve grown.
UC has witnessed that change..
It has seen me being with friends, crying with some, crying for some, and sometimes withdrawing silently into my world, peacefully or weighed down by emotions. From panic attacks to stomach-aching laughs, UC was the stage for every shade of me through these years. UC was not just a college campus, it’s the people, the hostel, the rain, the trees, the food, the dogs, the wind, whatnot!!
Through these years, when I was struggling to find reasons to go on, there were people to listen without judgment, sing all night to soothe, show me stars and moon, to watch the sky together, to make me laugh, and remind me to believe in life again, even while fighting their own battles. To share heartfelt conversations and moments of craziness. Some of the most important people in your life might arrive when you least expect them. They don’t come with grand gestures, but with quiet understanding. Some friendships may lose their closeness, but memories never lose their meaning. And some bonds, unexpectedly, grow stronger with time. I’ve learned that sometimes, a few words, a smile, or a gentle pat can give you the strength to keep going. Those moments stay with you forever.
Hostel made UC home. When we vacated our hostel room, it may have looked empty to others, just four walls and packed bags. But to us, it was a space filled with memories. It was where we cried for each other, celebrated one another, cheered, hyped, styled, and supported each other through thick and thin.
They were the people to come back to. This was where we truly lived our three years. As we leave this place, we carry pieces of each other. Some words, the way someone laughs, their tone, words, accent, ideals, culture, emotions, family. Not all the memories we carry in our hearts began here. Some of them come from one another's childhood, teenage dreams, loss, and wounds. Now, the memories each of us used to carry alone are ours. It felt like living multiple lives.
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