Tori Ivey

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Baby Sister Due May 2026 // Ezra couldn’t resist inviting his new friend he made at the park into the photos. Happy Valentine’s Day! 🎀 Ps - Ezra’s Video somehow muted but he was disciplining a bird just out of frame. “Naughty Naughty Bird.” 😆 (check stories to hear audio)

It’s been so fun watching Elliott’s personality come to life recently. Happy 1st birthday to our little guy. 👉 Scroll to the end to see Ezra watching his little bro the way a mom watches a kid open the Christmas gift she swore she didn’t buy them. 😆

Today we took Ezra on a little adventure, handing out some thermal blankets and meals to our friends in need around town. Recently, we were discussing how both giving and receiving each play crucial roles in our lives. Tori and I want our kids knowing how to receive humbly, and give generously, as both are foundational Biblical values. After giving a gentleman a sandwich Ezra says “Here, I’ll open it for you” as he sat at the picnic table and began raising the sandwich to the man’s mouth (pictured above). 😆 The man was tickled as he chuckled being fed by a 3 year old. If you’re out and about with your little ones, just tell them, “Hey, let’s go find some friends to share a little kindness with.” You might be surprised how naturally they interact with those in need when given the opportunity. Learn to give. Learn to receive. Make it fun.

Happy 3rd birthday to my silly boy!!! Ezra loves monster trucks, making a mess with bubby, and going on adventures. He’s all boy and a wild child yet has a soft and tender heart just like his daddy. My heart is full and so proud! 🫶🏻🥹

When does your Christmas Tree go up?

Hey Men, a friendly reminder — of all the time you’ll spend chasing dreams and reaching the world, the greatest lives you’ll ever impact are the ones you raise. Love God, start a family, and lead them well. I promise, being a dad is the best job description you’ll ever have.

With Ezra turning three in a few months, the phrase “time flies” starts resonating in a way only watching your kids grow up can do. A picnic at a local park doesn’t usually feel as exciting as a beach trip or a day at the zoo. But I’ve noticed that Ezra’s best days aren’t influenced by where we go but by who goes with him and whether they’re fully present and undistracted. To him, the sandbox might as well be the beach, and the swing could pass for a rollercoaster. His joy isn’t tethered to any specific place. It’s connected to the places we go ‘together’. I’m learning that one of the secret ingredients of parenting isn’t what we do, but how present we are while we do it. That’s what sticks. That’s what shapes memories and gradually opens the hearts of sons to their father. Yeah that could preach, but I think you get the point. Of any title I’ve ever had or will, “dad” & “husband” will always be my favorite. Being a father is less about perfection, and more about connection. Discovering how to connect with the heart of your spouse or child is far more beneficial than just giving good advice in a moment of need. Frankly, we never outgrow that need for real, honest, personal connection. Being raised in a home where “family first, ministry second” was a modeled value, it’s easy to see how quickly one generation can pass along something good to the next. Not all of our lessons have to come from trauma or brokenness. 🙄 So here’s to practicing connection and giving your best, to whoever you share your life with.

Spring dates with my guy 🫶

Elliott Brooks Ivey Born 1.22 // 7lb 7 oz Been soaking up every moment these last two weeks with all three of my boys. 🫶 So incredibly thankful for Ash, he really is the sweetest husband I could ever ask for. He’s so helpful, encouraging, makes the most of each moment. He balances everything he does with work while making us feel special. It really makes raising a family so easy and fun. Love you babe 😘

This sweet boy somehow turns 2 today and I’m realizing that when people say “they grow up so fast,” there’s never been a truer statement. It’s so bittersweet because I love every new stage but as I look back at that sweet baby face my heart aches just a little bit. Ezra, I’ve never known a life with so much love and laughter till you were born. Thank you for giving me the title “mommy.” You are going to be the best big brother ever. ♥️

Baby #2 — Jan. 26th 2025 // Raising kids with @tor.ivey is simply the best, most fun thing I’ll ever do. 📸 @debbyhandolescu (AKA, Aunt Debby)