Damn I never thought Iād be writing this .. itās so hard to even form the words to think the thoughts so as I type this with a cloudy vision , Iām so hurt right now. So many want the perfect family story our family is the furthest from it . So much dysfunction but one thing about us we always come through for one another no matter what & thatās what you taught us. You gave all your kids your strength thatās one thing for sure, youve been holding on for so long and I just know you were tired and couldnāt anymore. I know you were not ready to go yet.. I know pretty lady. You have been a warrior all your life . You lost your mom early and Iām now losing my mom early, Now you can go be with her. You didnāt necessarily believe in heaven but you always felt like it was something out there and I hope that you find it & are truly happy and free. I love you mommy so much , thank you for being the best grandma to ethan, he loves you so much & when I share the news with him I will tell him what youāve told all of your kids , you donāt want no crying . You want celebration & to keep your memories alive & I willā¦. Ms. Valentine you will be missed dearly š¢š¢ 7/23/66-6/29/24