Real talk on all things mental health, social work and beyond! đ
Founder of The Madrina Network Community for Social Workers and @madrinamoney ! đ
Being a social work entrepreneur doesnât always fit into a 9â5 schedule. đ
Some days are filled with cafecito-fueled meetings, community-building, and dreaming big. Other days look like admin work, co-working with amigas, recording podcasts, and squeezing in rest where I can.
This is what building The First Gen Madrina looks like behind the scenes. Itâs not just one role, one title, or one lane. Itâs all the pieces coming together to support first-gen students, professionals, and social workers in real, intentional ways.
Every conversation, every collaboration, every quiet moment of planning matters. This is just a glimpse of how it all comes to life! đ
Social workers, your community is here! Join The Madrina Network today! đ
The Madrina Network: A Community for Social Workers is officially open for enrollment!
This is your space to grow, connect, and thrive with other social workers who get it. Whether youâre a student, recent grad, or seasoned professional, this community is designed to pour back into you.
Join us for group coaching, personal and professional development workshops, resource directories, a group chat of amazing social workers, and much more!
đ Sign-ups are open until November 24th!
đ Head to the link in my bio to join today!
Letâs build a network rooted in support, empowerment, and community. đ
Thereâs something really special about going from a virtual connectionâŚto a real-life hug. đŤśđ˝
At the HACE Summit, I connected in person with three incredible guests from The First Gen Madrina Podcast, and for two of them, it was our very first time meeting face-to-face! That moment alone reminded me how powerful this work and these relationships truly are.
Hereâs a little throwback so you can tap into their wisdom too:
⨠Episode 39 with my Jefa-hermana Paulaska Ramirez
An entrepreneur and founder of Generation Fearless, a nonprofit supporting first-gen women.
We talked about:
⢠Navigating life without a roadmap
⢠Cultural challenges we carry
⢠What it actually looks like to take care of our mental health as first gens
⨠Episode 91 with Dr. Stephanie Bannister of First Gen Forward
This conversation was REAL. We got into:
⢠The âhidden curriculumâ in college + professional spaces
⢠What first-generation students arenât taught but are expected to know
⢠The impact of changes within the Department of Education
⨠Episode 123 with Carlos Martin
One of my favorite money conversations. We explored:
⢠Money shame
⢠Cultural stigmas around wealth
⢠How weâre actively working toward generational wealth
Seeing these conversations come full circle, in real life, in community, and in shared spaces of leadership was grounding and affirming in ways I canât fully put into words.
This is your sign to go back and listen (or re-listen đ). The gems are STILL gemming!
đ§ Check the link in my bio or tune in on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or iHeartRadio.
I thought I was âbad with moneyâ⌠but it was actually my ADHD and anxiety running the show.
Hereâs how it showed up for me:
1. Impulsivity: Spending in the moment for dopamine, relief, or a sense of control⌠and then dealing with the guilt later.
2. Forgetfulness: Missing payments, losing track of subscriptions, or simply not following through because my brain had 20 tabs open.
3. Avoidance: Not checking my bank account, putting off budgeting, and ignoring the numbers because they felt overwhelming or anxiety-inducing.
For a long time, I internalized this as: âIâm just not disciplined enough,â or âIâm bad with money.â
But that narrative misses something important. We donât talk enough about how our mental health and brain wiring impact our relationship with money.
This is not about diagnosis, itâs about offering you perspective.
Because when you understand the why, you can finally start building systems that actually support you⌠instead of shaming yourself into change.
So, hereâs the thing. You may not be âbad with moneyâ. You might just need support that aligns with how your brain works.
Can anyone else relate? đ¤
If youâre a social worker afraid of ârocking the boatâ⌠this is your reminder that it is okay to do so.
At the HACE Summit last month, we discussed what it means to create âgood trouble,â and this topic couldnât be more relevant for our field.
I began to think about how I unapologetically tell my students to speak up for themselves. I teach them to advocate for the education and experience they deserve and to prioritize their self-care. We are losing too many social workers to burnout, and it is time we address it.
I wonât apologize for encouraging them to ârock the boat.â Because when systems arenât supporting you, you are allowed to push back.
Thatâs what we do as social workers.
Yes, it can feel uncomfortable, especially if you were taught to stay quiet and be grateful. Our voices matter, and you deserve the same support that you give to clients.
Just remember: advocating for change doesnât mean abandoning yourself. Self-care is part of the work.
For more insight and ways to take care of yourself in the process, subscribe to my newsletter Madrina Network, using the link in bio!
Think about this: Where in your work are you being called to create âgood troubleâ?
Somewhere along the way, we were taught that being a good social worker meant saying yes to everything.
This month on The First Gen Madrina podcast, I get real about this âgood social workerâ mentality.
Have you ever stayed late multiple nights? Have you ever taken on more cases than you signed up for? Have you ever answered emails after hours? To a certain extent, this could be realistic in most jobs but not in the long-term.
And for my first gens? That pressure hits even deeper. Because itâs not just about you. Itâs about our family, community and our legacy.
But hereâs the truth: That version of âgoodâ is not sustainable.
It can lead to:
1ď¸âŁ Blurred boundaries.
2ď¸âŁExhaustion.
3ď¸âŁBurnout.
And slowly⌠losing yourself in the work you once felt called to do.
So letâs redefine it.
⨠A good social worker sets boundaries.
⨠A good social worker rests without guilt.
⨠A good social worker advocates for others AND themselves.
Because you cannot pour into others from an empty cup, and a burnt-out social worker cannot create meaningful change.
But a supported, grounded, and empowered one? Thatâs where the impact lives. Check out this weekâs podcast for more!
So Iâll ask you this: What does being a âgoodâ social worker mean to you now?
âMental Health Awareness Monthâ is great⌠but my anxiety doesnât clock out on June 1st.
Hereâs the truth Iâve been sitting with lately. After 15 years of managing my anxiety without medication⌠I made the decision to start.
This wasnât an easy choice. It was layered, emotional, and deeply personal.
But hereâs why I said yes to myself and accepting additional support:
1. My body was speaking loudly
Hair loss (Iâll share more soon), constant weakness, and even impacts on my heart⌠I couldnât ignore it anymore.
2. My ADHD diagnosis shifted everything
It helped me understand how my brain works and also where I needed more support, not just more discipline.
3. The world weâre living in isnât slowing down
And pushing myself to âjust copeâ in chaos? Thatâs not sustainable for anyone.
Overall, this decision doesnât define me. It supports me. I share this because I know how much stigma still exists, especially in our communities, around medication, mental health, and asking for help.
Now here is your truth. You get to choose what support looks like for YOU. On your own terms.
One day, Iâll go deeper into this on the podcast. But for now⌠just know youâre not alone in navigating these decisions. Mental health awareness is not limited to just one month. We are in this together all 365 days of the year! đ #mentalhealthawarenessmonthđ #firstgenhealing #latinamentalhealth #adhdwomen #breakthestigma
Imposter syndrome doesnât magically disappear once you become a social worker.
Iâve seen it show up over and over again with students and recent grads I work withâŚ
Have you ever heard that quiet voice that says, âWho am I to do this work?â âWhat if Iâm not good enough?â Or âWhat if they find out I donât have it all together?â If you do, I see you!
And hereâs the truth most people wonât tell you: It doesnât 100% go away. But you can learn how to manage it.
Here are 3 ways to start:
⨠1. Recognize your triggers
Notice when imposter syndrome shows up. Is it during supervision? Your first client session? When comparing yourself to others? Awareness is power.
⨠2. Reframe the narrative
That inner voice isnât always telling the truth. Challenge it. Rewrite it. Instead of âI donât know what Iâm doing,â try: âI am learning, growing, and gaining experience every day.â
⨠3. State the facts + prioritize self-care
Look at the evidence. You earned your degree. You showed up. Youâre doing the work.
And donât forget that taking care of yourself is part of being an effective social worker, not separate from it.
You donât have to be perfect to be impactful. You just have to keep showing up for yourself! đ
What I wish I knew before becoming a social worker...
There are things no one really prepares you for when you step into social work. Not in school, not in training, and not always once youâre actually in it.
You learn them through the lived experience of the work: the pressure, the responsibility, and the moments you start questioning yourself more than the system.
I put together a newsletter sharing some of the biggest lessons I wish I had known earlier in my journey, especially for those of us navigating burnout, identity, and what it means to stay in this field without losing yourself.
If youâve ever felt stretched thin, underappreciated, or like youâre trying to figure it all out as you go⌠this is for you.
Go to the link in bio to subscribe and receive the full newsletter! đ
If you donât schedule your reset, burnout will schedule it for you.
Itâs easy to get caught in the grind. Thereâs always something to do, somewhere to be, something that feels urgent.
And if we donât intentionally create space to reset, burnout isnât a question of if⌠it becomes a question of when.
Thatâs why Mondays are my reset.
Not to catch up on everything I didnât finish but to come back to myself first.
I use this day to slow down, plan my week with intention, and make space for what actually matters. My weekly reset is not about productivity. Itâs about presence.
Because clarity doesnât come from doing more⌠it comes from coming back to yourself.
So...How do you reset for your week?
Ever wondered what it really takes to start a private practice or business? đ
Inside the Madrina Network: A Community of Social Workers, we recently hosted an exclusive Private Practice 101 workshop, and it was everything we needed and more!
From breaking down the actual steps to start a practice, to having real conversations about the fears, mindset shifts, and business side of things⌠this was the kind of space we donât always get access to.
When you join the Madrina Network, youâre not just joining a community, youâre stepping into:
â¨Support from fellow members who remind you that you are not alone
â¨Direct support from a fellow social worker who truly gets it.
â¨Opportunities for both personal and professional development and much more!
This workshop was just a glimpse of whatâs waiting for you inside⌠and itâs exclusive to members only!
A huge thank you and shoutout to @kathy.acosta.fig for facilitating such an engaging and transparent session. She showed up with honesty, wisdom, and openness, creating a space where members felt comfortable asking questions and truly learning together!
Ready to pour into yourself and your growth? Tap the link in bio to join us! đ
April is Financial Literacy Month! đ¸
Letâs talk about something important right nowâŚ
having multiple income streams.
This is not coming from a place of hustle culture, but from a place of stability, choice, and protection in an unpredictable job market.
As social workers, we pour so much into others⌠but we also deserve:
âď¸ Financial security
âď¸ Options in our careers
âď¸ The ability to build savings (3â6 months is the goal đ)
This newsletter, weâre diving into:
⨠Different types of income streams (including non-entrepreneurial options)
⨠How to be strategic without burning out
⨠Ways to align your income with your long-term goals
Because this isnât about doing more⌠itâs about doing whatâs sustainable.
đ Want the full breakdown + ideas you can actually start exploring? Subscribe to the Madrina Network Newsletter using the link in bio! đ #SocialWork #FinancialLiteracyMonth #SocialWorkers #moneymatters MentalHealthMatters