the hardest part of dating isn’t finding the right person.
it’s finding your way back to yourself first so you’re ready to MEET the right person.
we rebuilt pair’d from the ground up to actually take you there - to go deeper to walk you through your patterns, your wounds, the moments where things get uncomfortable.
because what we’ve learned is that you can’t matchmake your way to a great relationship. the inner work has to come first.
so that’s exactly how we built the new pair’d - coaching at the center, across 3 phases, with a guide in your corner not just in sessions but between them + in the actual moments of your dating life.
matchmaking is still here (if you want it). and @alliehoffman is still making all the introductions. it just comes after the foundation is laid.
because that’s when it actually works.
if you’re ready to actually make the change in your dating life - not just say you’ll do it - pair’d is where you start.
programs run 3, 6 + 9 months and enrollment is open now. link in bio to sign up.
#thefeels #paird #datingcoach #relationshipcoach #modernlove
This week's guest is the authentic Allie Hoffman of Catch The Feels! If you've ever felt like you're an imposter, stuck in a minefield of modern dating, or struggling to stay present, this episode is for you. Allie and Katie talk the role of inner work and community, societal norms, practical tools for loving reality, and so much more! This one's for everyone and anyone that wants to revolutionize the way the live and love.
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ending the week in a good mood bc our events are such a vibe ✌️ for real, the coolest humans come to the feels and have created the most awesome community that we are oh so incredibly grateful for.
and a major shoutout to our event partners for doing what they do and making our events awesome ♥️ @curiouselixirs@doladira@flechaazultequila@aspenvodka@drinkdesoi
Assume. Nothing's. Wrong! Revolutionary words with Allie Hoffman in our latest episode this week on Door 28 of The Room To Be In! Anywhere you podcast 🎧
what if nothing is wrong?
so many of us are wired to scan for problems - the bank account, the unanswered text, the situation we can’t figure out. it feels like if we just fix it, we’ll finally feel okay.
but that anxious energy doesn’t fix anything. it just keeps you stuck.
as @alliehoffman says: next time something feels crunchy, try this: take a deep breath and ask yourself — what if nothing is wrong?
you already have everything you need to navigate this. 💛
have you navigated love while going through illness? financial difficulty? family chaos? grief? a major personal transformation? (Any and all of the above?!?!)
we want to hear your story. we’re collecting real, unfiltered stories about modern dating and relationships during the hard stuff . however your journey has shaped the way you date, connect, or understand yourself in relationships — we want to hear it.
just give us a call and tell us all about it.
#thefeels #callus #lovestories #modernlove #modernrationships #voicemail
we got curious - are Age Gap Relationships showing up in how people date in real life? what about in our community?
the real question isn’t just whether younger men want older women. it’s why. and whether that why has something to do with what’s happening between younger men and younger women.
we looked at our own data. we had some conversations. and we ended up somewhere more complicated - and more hopeful - than where we started.
which is towards mutual care.
and if that’s what’s shifting beneath the surface of this moment, we think it’s worth paying attention to.
#relationships #dating #agegap #agegapromance
some of us still believe in meeting people the old-fashioned way 🙌
could your person be at our next event? check the dates + grab tickets through our link in bio.
#thefeels #irldating #datingevent #mindfuldating #datingapps
hot take: the reason your dating life feels exhausting is because you’re working too hard to be someone slightly different than you actually are.
acting more chill than you feel. more unbothered than you are. more or less of yourself based on whatever book you read last week.
but love doesn’t respond to strategy. it responds to truth.
the most powerful thing you can do? trust yourself. stop outsourcing your instincts to the internet and come back to what you already know.
Like @alliehoffman says: your gut has better advice than any formula.
#dating #relationships #truth
we are in a moment of collective sexual anemia.
less aliveness. less desire. less connection to our own bodies. and a whole lot of people sitting alone with it, assuming something is wrong with them specifically.
nothing is wrong with you specifically.
the journey back is a shared one. @alliehoffman gets into it.
