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This is a husband appreciation post because sometimes you just have to let Instagram know you married well.
Being your wife has been such a beautiful experience and Iāve grown so much because of you. Your patience and understanding have shown me that even a Lagos girl can be a full-time lover girl. You are my longest relationship ever, which is wild considering marriage was never my priority, but I clearly chose perfectly.
This year came with a lot of loss and having you by my side kept me grounded and sane. Thank you for loving me through all of it, for making life softer, and for allowing me to be dramatic in peace.
Hereās to more peace, enjoyment and hopefully a year we finally go on our honeymoon š¤£
Part flex because I got to read my sisterās book before the rest of the world š and part reminder to myself to show up again even with the body dysmorphia, the depression, and the constant urge to disappear from the internet.
As I type this, that little voice is whispering, āyour life isnāt perfect enough to post.ā But honestly? Iām proud Iām not where I was a month ago. Progress isnāt always pretty, but itās real.
Not here to sell perfection, just proof that where thereās life, thereās hope. And maybe a bit of good lighting and picturesque scenery to help it along. š
#healingoutloud #mentalhealthjourney #selfgrowth #softreturn #imnotwhereiwasiwas #progressnotperfection #bodydysmorphiaawareness #mentalhealthmatters #authenticliving #selflovejourney #healinginpublic #booklover #communityoverperfection
Chapter 31 ā You will be kind to me, you will win, because how can we lose? āØ
I almost didnāt post this, which is why itās a day late.
This year took so much from me.
Iāve seen life through the lens of loss ā loss of a job, loss of peace, loss of a loved oneā¦ and somehow, I kept pretending everything was fine.
But this year reminded me that perfection is a myth I was chasing even though I never truly believed in it. I let life shape who I was, and that ended yesterday.
Siji is and will always be who she says she is.
I forgot for a moment that sheās a fighter.
I was born to thrive, to shine, to win.
God made me to be a star, and 30 tried to make me forget that.
I am more than my circumstances.
I am more than the box the world tries to fit me into.
So hereās to future Oluwasijibomi Braithwaite Okeke
We. Do. Not. Lose. š«
#Chapter31 #NewBeginnings #Growth #Healing #Faith #Resilience #BirthdayReflections
Some days I forget Iām living in what I once prayed for. But grace has a funny way of whispering āHey remember thisā even when life feels like a group project with no group
Iām still here
Heās still good
itās still an answered prayer
#answeredprayers #softreminders #faithinprogress #somehowstillstanding #suddenlythingsmakessense
hot girl walkā¦ but make it heavy
since gaining weight, itās been sleepless nights, aching joints, and a whole lot of strangers being unkind!
But this isnāt just about my body
itās about how we treat bigger bodies
weight gain can come from illness, mental health, meds, addiction, grief
you never know what someoneās carrying
so if you have to choose anything choose kindness
it costs nothing and heals more than you think
#weightgainawareness #bekindalways #blackgirlvlogger #softlifeinprogress #mentalhealthmatters #healingseason #gentlereminders #reallifecontent
No storyline, just flavoured water, chaos, and whispered prayers that Godās redirection includes a soft life
Still jobless
Still learning that struggling ā failing
Not a comeback vlog
Just proof Iām still moving
The lightās not gone
Itās just taking the scenic route
#softlifeinprogress #faithingit #lifelately #blackgirlvlogger #reallifecontent #healingseason #romanticiseyourlife #jobhuntdiaries #stillhere
Day 1 of vlogging my very unglamorous life
Since being made redundant, itās been a blur of emotions. I struggled in that job, so losing it felt like confirmation of my worst fears
But maybe it wasnāt rejection, maybe it was God redirecting me.
Today was an interview in Central London followed by some much-needed peace in Surrey
Even when lifeās messy, the trains still show up (mostly)
Also, shoutout to my melasma for thriving under stress
Pretty sure that means Iām destined for the soft life
This vlog is my way of reconnecting with myself, with you guys,with the truth that struggling doesnāt mean failing. If youāre in the trenches too, I see you
There is a light
Sometimes it just flickers a bit
#careertransition #redundancyrecovery #blackgirlvlogger #healingseason #jobsearchjourney #softlifebabe #faithoverfear #lifelately #londonvlog #reallifecontent #blackwomenhealing #glowthroughit
