The beach is never the wrong room đ jkjk - If youâre feeling stuck at work, there are always ways to shift, resources to upskill, and conversations you can have to make moves. Being stuck is a choice.
if you donât know where to start, write down what your dream life in the next 2-5 years looks like. If you donât have a vision yet, open a book, go to a museum, go walk around without your phone, and go create a vision.
myth: butterflies mean itâs real
truth: butterflies are usually anxiety, not safety
myth: if itâs right, itâs effortless
truth: any relationship is hard work. Open comms, trust, active listening, compromise. A love relationship is no exception.
myth: you need to check every box
truth: alignment > perfection. perfection doesnât exist.
myth: passion should feel intense all the time
truth: real love feels calm, steady, and secure - even boring, NOT chaotic.
myth: they should âcompleteâ you
truth: they should complement you
myth: jealousy means they care
truth: trust is the real flex⌠and trust is built on mutual respect for your partner, yourself, and your partnership.
Somewhere along the way we start living for expectations - for shit that doesnât necessarily matter when you look at the big picture.
The only opinions that really stay with you
are who you were before the world told you who to be
and who youâll be when you look back on it all.
The cage door is not locked. Go make yourself proud.
