A few key reminders ⤵️
✅️What is unconscious in you will be outwardly expressed.
NONE of this is a curse. It is your rites of passage. It's not because Wise Elders are scarce that your soul is not wise.
No, not every man is the same, and although I say every man, some men have a completely different experience.
What I speak of here comes from the direct experience I've had with working with hundreds of men and also within my experience of my personal life.
True freedom is an inside job
You probably have no idea what it is to be the greatest version of yourself, so expect a lot of self sabotage in your journey.
- be patient, this work doesn't get to be on a time-line, this isn't a project, this is individuation, and more will come once you are ready.
Thank you for paying your attention to this matter. Life is beautiful, God is good, and embrace all of it.
With Heart,
Malcolm
P.S: we are 6 days away from the start of TRO2, a 4-month online men's group, giving you the tools through necessary for your life-long journey. If you are looking for brotherhood, accountability, and tools, this is it. Click the link in bio, or comment the word RISE, and I'll send you more details.
Openness
Curiosity
Humility
Asking questions
Are doorways to deeper intimacy.
Instead of imposing, assuming, overpowering, controlling.
It's time to rise.
These past few months have been a season of expansion for us both.
So much has changed internally and then has been reflected externally.
From building new friendships,
To bringing responsibility at a whole new level,
To creating new spaces for men and women to rise,
To being of service like never before,
To bringing our intimate relationship at even deeper levels of connections,
To optimizing all aspects of ourselves,
To reaching depths of remembrance that very few speak of,
Life has been so abundant, and we get to have it all, as Marina says!
I wish you all an amazing life because it is simply it regardless of the highs or the lows.
This whole thing is the greatest gift that we could ever have.
I love you my love.
It's time to rise!
"Grief is not a problem to be solved, but a doorway to be entered. It's the way the soul insists on being included in the process of life."
- Michael Meade
This is for the man who is ready to take full responsibility for his reality.
Who is ready to face and be faced.
Who resonate to the work I do.
Who want to truly be of service as men of valor.
To be supported and be challenged by other men.
Who is ready to integrate his strength with heart.
Who is willing to commit time, energy, ressources into an important process that will change a lot for him.
Men in previous round reported:
- Huge Shifts in relationships.
- Deeper emotional attunement
- Feeling much more present with themselves and others
- A clear sense of purpose
- Greater confidence
- Inner peace
- A new way of being.
And so much more.
Comment DRAGON to begin your application.
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Being in that grief, I wished I could stay longer, it felt so true, it felt so honest, it felt so intimate.
Grief is most probably the most timprotant process to inner transformation.
And so many men avoid it, and instead put on armors and masks that keep them stuck where they are.
Grief as Robert Bly said: "If I don't have a connection to my grief, where is my grounding?".
Allows you to fully be in your body...
Such power in grief,
Try it sometime, allow yourself to grieve.
Calling in the cycle breakers,
The devoted men of truth,
The lovers who want their partners to feel all of their love,
The men who want more capacity, more ground, more heart,
The ones who are ready to fully step into the work that has seen layer out for them,
The ones willing to walk towards the pain,
The walkers of path,
The men who carry the flame, and who do not fear getting burnt,
The Warriors who serve a greater purpose,
Men ready to commit to changing their world and changing the world
Comment DRAGON below
Have you ever stopped for a moment,
Taken a sweet, gentle pause?
Have you ever looked in the mirror and smiled,
So the mirror could smile back at you?
Have you ever wondered why you are here,
And perhaps realized that you are here?
And that in itself is the only proof you need,
To remember that you are the greatest thing that could ever happen to you.
- Malcolm
Ibn Arabi said:
"The most intense and perfect contemplation of God is through women, and the most intense union in the world of nature is the conjugal act."
Al-Hallaj said:
"I am the one I love, and the one I love is me. We are two souls inhabiting one body — if you see me, you see him; if you see him, you see us both."
St. John of the Cross wrote:
"Where there is no love, put love, and you will find love."
Rumi said:
"Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
C.G. Jung wrote:
"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed."
Gerhard Dorn wrote:
"The union of soul with body is not the true coniunctio. True union is the union of the whole person: body, soul, and spirit — with its opposite. This is the Great Work."
May we continue to remember.
