Reshma Sebastian

@urvashikaur 🕊️ // @anjanaannaphotography @styledbysmiji @muabygeethumanu

Darling, just go ahead.. Live your life !Do all the things that excite you and stop playing small .. Confidence is something you work hard to get and once lost in between it’s hard to get back on track .. Love to all the ones who stood by me when I was cocooning myself into a shell .. maybe in someway I am literally turning into an example of “When life gives you lemon, make lemonades and what not out of it!”😄 So stop being worried about all the things that can go wrong, when the only thing that matters is all the magic that could go right.. There’s is so much life to be lived, so much love to be received.. Open yourself up .. BLOOM ! Let the screams inside you turn into your own magic ✨ // Shots by @vaffara_ , one of my fav who lets me free and push my boundaries ! Styled by my constant @styledbysmiji 🫂 And the one who make me look like a doll @unnips , my love 😘 Hair : @mosshairbyrajeev ♥️ Special thanks to @amal666raj ✨

DOUR .Unyielding.Determined. To be fearlessly yourself .. To not care what the world thinks of you .. To not let anyone dim your light .. To dance against the wind and stubbornly refusing to fit in ! // Draped in a cotton saree with baggy detail drape over a thrifted cardigan, channelling vintage vows. Incorporating the knitted sweater and a laced-up boots. // @dhora_india Production @rocococlubb Photographed @anjanaannaphotography Styled @rn.rakhi MUA @prabin_makeupartist

For @lulucelebrate ✨ @plan.b.actions @jibinartist @shimnaz___nazar @meet_biya @mankasurath @draping_by_anna

Esthu : Amma, what makes you happy Me : you Esthu : What makes you sad ? Me : you testing my patience level Esthu : I think you will be sad for while 🙄 Happy Mother’s Day , to us - the permanently exhausted ‘beings’ who love their offsprings to bits 😵‍💫 // 📸 : @heavens_due__by_anna

From the time I was pregnant with my daughter all I could think about was ‘whether I will be good mother’.. because, to be frank I was someone with the least maternal instincts :) But then again what is this ‘good mother’ ? How do you define it ? Is the tag so worth to be constantly judged by the people around us dictating how motherhood is supposed to be ? This constant worry about whatever we are doing is right or wrong ! From the way we hold our newborn to the ways we raise them everyday, even the food we feed them , every single thing is judged ! To work or not to work after having a child ! No matter what decision you choose you are judged. All these things are just a cherry on top when you are going through a phase where you don’t even recognise the person you are from the time before your child’s birth. How much it changed you in every possible way.. Struggling to get back into life as you know it. For me I couldn’t even look at mirror for the fear of not recognising that person there.. We moved on as someone new, finding ways along the way to handle work, home and child like a juggler.. Even when we show outside that ‘we are ok’, all these things affect us to the core ! All the nights we cried our heart out.. So one day I stopped. stopped thinking about being that ‘perfect mother’ and focused on being a ‘happy mother’ for my child.For my child was growing up so fast that I just needed to be there witnessing the moments and be part of her ‘happy childhood’. So I tell you this to all moms out there : 1. Take care of your health because no one else is going to do that for you and trust me you need that more than ever. 2. Find time for your sleep, you need that ! 3. Ask for help, even if we are conditioned not to. 4. People are going to judge no matter what you do , so just smile and keep doing what makes you happy :) And let’s not forget a few people whom we tend to miss this day.. To those who lost their child , who are not able to conceive, have lost their mother/have a strained relationship with their mother, to those who had to give up their child .. This days is yours too 🫂 #mothersday //As always,these perfect 📸 @heavens_due__by_anna 🫶

The details of the room as requested :) Each space took years to form , bit by bit .. not following any trends but with pieces that can be passed on to generations .. an heirloom ❤️ An ode to the child in us that wanted a root, a home to comeback to , when the noise becomes too loud to bear .. // 📸: @anjanaannaphotography Interior styling : @rose_jijo Furnitures : @heritageandheriloom @divyafurnitureandfurnishing Outfit : @godet.ago Wall-plates : @klei.like_ Floor lamp : @foundobjects.in

She bloomed where the world forgot to look, a wildflower soft, untamed, and rare. @reshsebu 🌸 Styling @styledbysmiji 📸 @vaffara_

It’s been a while .. let’s start again !🙃🙌 Spring is here , so am I, back from my hibernation 🤓.. Hello all ❤️ A little heads up : Going forward this will be an even more boring page with slow normal contents that goes along with my life .. I miss what and who I was before all this frenzy.. I miss writing and being free with my thoughts , whether it’s perfect or not.. so let’s go back to slow boring life , shall we :) // Outfit : @treeandpoetry 🌼

@alapatt.legacy ✨ // @vaffara_ @unnips @styledbysmiji @vretouch

🤓 @treeandpoetry @anjanaannaphotography

‘Treasured’ ✨ new collection releasing soon @godet.ago // @godet.ago @anjanaannaphotography @styledbysmiji @muabygeethumanu