You ever be mid-conversation like… why do you need to know all this?
Be honest… what’s a question that instantly turns you off?
You can always tell when a person’s curiosity is t coming from a genuine place. The questions get way too specific and the whole conversation starts feeling like data collection. They not tryna connect..they really tryna collect 😂
#prissytalks #protectyourpeace #boundaries #fakefriends #realtalk #monitoringspirits #boundariesmatter
Being featured in @voyagelamag is my first accomplishment of 2026 and I don’t take it lightly.
I’m beginning to see the fruit of what I’ve been faithful to and it reminds me that nothing is wasted. Opportunities are unfolding in ways I couldn’t have planned and I’m grateful to God for the grace, the patience, and the growth.
Thank you to @voyagelamag , @iamjosephtoler , and everyone who has supported me, encouraged me, and believed in my journey. This moment makes me so happy and reminds me to keep going.
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Losing my dad showed me you can grieve a relationship while someone is still alive…and still not be ready when they’re gone.
We were estranged.
I created distance to protect myself after being disappointed so many times. I don’t regret protecting myself…but I didn’t realize how final it would feel when there was no more time left.
Some relationships don’t get closure. They just run out of time.
So whether you’re the one who pulled away…or the one still holding on please stop assuming there will always be another moment to fix it, say it, or try again.
Sometimes there isn’t.
#prissytalks #grievingdaughter #healingjourney #lifeafterloss #estranged
You’re not unhappy because your life is falling apart. You’re unhappy because you keep leaving yourself out of it.
Choosing yourself means saying no without overexplaining. We need to start walking away without guilt, and we definitely not going to continue to keep showing up where you don’t feel good, even if you always have in the past.
A lot of what you’ve been calling “being there for others”…has really been you abandoning yourself and that will never create a life that feels good to live. Just know that the right people, the right opportunities, and the right life for you will never make you betray yourself to experience them.
#prissytalks #chooseyourself #selfworth #boundariesarehealthy #selfrespect
You’re not struggling to find your people…you’re struggling to make space for them.
So many people are still in friendships and relationships that already ended, they just haven’t left your life yet.
You cannot build new, aligned friendships while holding space for people who outgrew you or who you outgrew. Stop making excuses like, “that’s just how they are”…okay, and that’s why they can’t come with you.
#prissytalks #adultfriendships #fakefriends #friendshipbreakup #lettinggohurts
You can be completely sure about something, one conversation will have you second guessing everything you felt called to do.
Pay attention to how people respond when you speak about your future because that will tell you who can handle your vision and who can’t. At the end of the day, your life doesn’t need to make sense to anyone else.
So if you needed to hear this…
Start that business.
Move to that new city.
Marry that person.
Go back to school!
#prissytalks #selfvalidation #trustyourselfmore #selflovejourney #motivation
Constantly asking for direction or mirroring someone else’s choices feels like a lack of self-awareness.
I’m realizing I’m drawn to friendship with people who know themselves. People who can make decisions confidently. It might seem small, but being around someone who can’t make decisions whether it’s what to order, what they like, or what they want to do actually says a lot.
#prissytalks #knowyourself #selfawarenessiskey #adultfriendships #highstandards
And if they’re still telling your old story…it’s probably because they’re still in the same place you left them.
People will always try to hold you to the version of you they were comfortable with. People will try to project their insecurities, their fears, and their lack of growth onto you…because watching you evolve forces them to look at where they’re not.
You’re allowed to outgrow old habits, old mindsets, and even old versions of yourself. So when they speak on you…they’re not even speaking on who you are now. They’re speaking from who they are, that’s the part people don’t talk about.
Some people can only relate to the version of you that matched where they were. If that triggers people? That’s not your responsibility.
#prissytalks #adultfriendships #personaldevelopmentjourney #selflovejourney #fakefriends
The reason my life feels better…i started choosing everything
You don’t have to accept everything, choose better for yourself. Get intentional about what you allow, who you spend time with, and what you give your energy to.
#prissytalks #aprissylife #selflovejourney #maincharacter #selfworth
Always make sure you can get yourself there AND back no matter who you’re with…
Growing up, my mom always told me: “Keep at least $20 on you so you can get home.” Having your own way out is a form of self-respect. Don’t let convenience put you in uncomfortable situations.
Plan your exit before you even arrive.
#prissytalks #realtalk #lifeadvice #protectyourself #roadrage
How to create your dream life, it starts with shutting the f*ck up!
First…stop telling people your plans.
Not everything needs an announcement.
Sometimes you talk so much about what you’re going to do… it replaces actually doing it.
Second…decide who you actually want to be. Like really get specific.
What does she wear?
What kind of friends does she have?
What does she do on a random Tuesday?
And third…create a soundtrack for your life. I’m so serious.
Make a playlist that sounds like your higher self. The version of you that already has everything you want. Play it like it’s background music to your life.
#aprissylife #personaldevelopment #dreamlife #becomingher #growthmindset
I used to think people actually meant it when they said “we should hang out soon”…
Especially when you try to follow up and schedule it and they’re booked and busy until next year. But they are the person who keeps asking to get together!
At some point I had to stop listening to their words seriously and start watching actions.
Now I don’t go back and forth. I pull out my calendar. Because if it’s not getting scheduled…it’s not getting happening.
#prissytalks #putitonthecalendar #adultfriendships #boundaries
