My Mother didn’t have a Will, nor did she ever talk about what she wished for after she would Pass.
Telemarketers would call and after entertaining a few of their questions, she would scream “I’M NOT GONNA DIE!!!!” And slam her Red Pushbutton Landline Phone several times like they could hear Her hanging up on them 🤣.
It took me a while, but I was able to finally find the perfect “Space” for Her Ashes to be placed. 🌟🙏🏽
The Alter of Reflection at The Chapel of Chimes, where the Light enters through the stained glass window, the skylight and halls and constantly shifts around the “Niches”. The sound of water-fountains and surrounded by fellow Multi-Cultural Ancestors of the Bay Area and Blessed with the Annual Summer Solstice Concert that Grace every Corner of the space with healing Sound Bowls, Harps, Chanting etc…the perfect space where Her Time in the Physical will always be Honored, and She will never “Die”.
Thank You to my Dad who really Held Me up through this 💪🏾…Thank You to My and Her Friends and Family that were able to join me with only a few days notice. Lea w the impromptu “SHE WANTS ME TO SING THIS!!!” Song (that was actually one of the songs she used to sing on Her answering machine 😩🤣🥹) 🙏🏽❤️
And Koko…She Loved this Lil Doggie so much, who is now my literal Road Dog who can hop on a plane at a moments notice. 🐶🤍
If you couldn’t make it, no worries, you now know where to find Her🌟🤍🙏🏽
This Photo was just sent to me by my dear friend @big_flent on the set of the film #itainteasy that he self produced in the early 2000’s
At the time, I remember being so self conscious in the industry, various folks telling me i needed to lose weight…i look at this pic now like, DAMN I LOOKED GOOD!! 🥰
A reminder to Love yourself as you are in this moment, you only have one time in your body on earth. You will look back on pics of yourself that you took today (while you beat yourself up finding all of your flaws) and you will think “wtf i looked GOOD!”
🥰🙏🏽
HAPPY OPENING DOG DAY AFTERNOON! 🐕🥰🙏🏽
So thrilled I was able to celebrate w the Familia! This Lovely, Talented Ensemble worked so hard to create the Beautiful Piece written by The Masterful @stephenadlyguirgis ✍🏽🤍🙏🏽
BRAVO!!! I Love you all DEARLY! You inspire me!!! Y’all so good, y’all make it look easy 🥰🥰🥰
#dogdayafternoon #broadway #theater
HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY MOM 🤍🙏🏽
Just prior to me moving my Mother to New York, she said wanted to go to JAMAICA, she knew that was one of my Favorite Places to connect to Spirit.
A month after she transcended, For her Birthday, a year ago today…i decided to Honor Her Wishes and take some of her Ashes to Jamaica and sprinkle them where I felt she was calling me to. A few of the most Beautiful spaces on Earth 🌟🙏🏽.
The first place, it was raining that morning and a tour i was going to take was canceled, and on of my Best Friends and Her Husband picked me up and drive me there. The rain cleared as if it was the perfect time and for about an hour, the entire place that is usually FULL of tourists, was empty except for us and our Guide. As soon as we left, a bus load of tourists began to fill the space 🥰.
After our River and Waterfall time, we went to of the “Hidden” Beaches the River flows into. It was closed, but they let us in to frolic and discover. We waded in the Ocean that again was like our own private beach. I felt another urge to sprinkle Mom.
5 Minutes after, while facing the Horizon, talking to my Friend while she was facing me…100 yards away, a Sting Ray leaped out of the water and flopped back making a splash and sound 😳😩🤣😍
My friend: “What was that??”
Me: “A Sting Ray!!! 🤣 That was my Mom!”
Thank you for the Conformations of Appreciations Mom, Happiest of Birthdays and I know you are even more Powerful on the other side with God and all your closest Buddies, Koko misses you ❤️🙏🏽🌟 🇯🇲
#onelove
AUNTIE OUTSIDE 🤪🥰
at @hankwillisthomas Big 50
Just found out my Dad @raymondsmemorybanque is a longtime friend of his Talented Mother @debwillisphoto 💕🙏🏽
I Love how we are we are this Next Generation of Gifted Artists! What a Beautiful Night of Celebration 💃💃💃🌟
#HWTx50 #80s
Hoppin’ on This 90’s Challenge Like…😍
Just a taste of my “Forrest Gump” Journey 😩🤣❤️🙏🏽
I think i still have some of the clothes @onikas_closet 🤪🙏🏽
#90s #the90s #ilovethe90s #blessed #set
