Heated debate last night with my gay guys about whether it’s hotter to look at the phone vs looking at the lens when taking a mirror selfie. Current consensus is it’s hotter to look at the phone bc it makes you seem aloof / blasé whereas lens contact is too earnest / yearning. I’m listening and I’m learning 🫶🏻🫰🏻🫱🏻🫲🏼 #gayguy #selfie