RUFUS! MY FAVORITE.
It would be impossible to list all of the reasons why. It has been the greatest privilege of my life to tag along for 10 years of the co-parenting ride with my dear friend Nico @verohneek , a special human that Rufus selected 14 years ago.
At a fighting weight of 9lbs, Rufus was tiny in body but his spirit was infinite. I know he is here with me now. A psychic said that he was even older than we thought, somewhere between 18 and 20.
He was a true lover. He made me feel safe from real and perceived threats. I loved smelling the top of his head and rubbing our noses together. I loved taking naps with him lying on my chest and feeling the breath from his little nostrils grazing my chin. I loved watching him sleep. I loved howling with him. I loved texting Nico things I needed to tell him. I loved staring into his huge beautiful brown eyes. I am grateful for all of the ways I got to appreciate his brief but longer than average visit to the material world.
A few weeks before he transitioned, Rufus visited me in a dream as we slept next to each other. He was really big, like the size of a golden retriever. I was giving him a bath and he had the voice of a toddler. He kept saying something over and over to me that sounded like âI love you! Iâm going to be okay!â I can only interpret this as him preparing me for the days ahead.
I recently encountered a quote by Terry Tempest Williams that says âGrief dares us to love once more.â What a gift.
Rufus, immaterial boy, I will love you forever.
TODAY IS MY BIRTHDAY!
AND MAN THIS PAST YEAR HAS DEFINITELY BEEN THE WORST OF MY LIFE! BUT LOOK WHAT HAPPENED WHEN I LEFT THE HOUSE TODAY!
A REAL MOTHERFUCKINâ RAINBOW!
IâVE SEEN MORE RAINBOWS IN THIS SHITTY YEAR THAN ANY OTHER YEAR I CAN RECALL AND I DO NOT BELIEVE IN COINCIDENCES!
WOW.
GRATEFUL FOR ALL OF THE RAINBOWS IN MY LIFE. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE. I LOVE YOU!
THE HEADSET MICROPHONEâPOPULARLY KNOWN AS THE âMADONNA MICââHAS BECOME A STANDARD TOOL IN LIVE PERFORMANCE, ALLOWING VOCAL CLARITY AND FREEDOM OF MOVEMENT. THOUGH OFTEN ASSOCIATED WITH MADONNAâS 1990 BLOND AMBITION TOUR, ITS ORIGINS TRACE BACK TO KATE BUSH IN 1979. DURING HER âTOUR OF LIFE,â BUSH FACED A UNIQUE CHALLENGE: SINGING LIVE WHILE PERFORMING COMPLEX CHOREOGRAPHY. TO SOLVE THIS, SHE AND SOUND ENGINEER MARTIN FISHER CREATED AN EARLY HEADSET MIC FROM A COAT HANGER AND TAPEâA GROUNDBREAKING SOLUTION THAT ALLOWED HANDS-FREE PERFORMANCE.
A DECADE LATER, MADONNAâS ICONIC USE OF A MORE ADVANCED VERSION DURING HER 1990 âBLOND AMBITION TOURâ CEMENTED THE DEVICEâS PLACE IN POP CULTURE. THE HEADSET MIC SOON BECAME KNOWN AS THE âMADONNA MIC,â AND LATER, WITH ARTISTS LIKE BRITNEY SPEARS, AS THE âBRITNEY MIC.â
WE SHOULD REALLY BE CALLING IT THE âJANET MICâ BUT THATâS A DIFFERENT POST.
Photo credit: Rob Verhorst/Redferns (Kate Bush); Kevin Mazur/WireImage (Britney Spears at the 2001 VMAs); Gie Knaeps/Getty (Madonna at Feyenoord Stadion, Rotterdam in 1990); Michael Jackson opening night of History Tour in Prague in 1995; Lucy Schaly (Janet Jackson State of the World Tour in Pittsburg in 2017); Kevin Mazur/Getty Images (Lady Gaga performing at Coachella in 2025).
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Since its founding in 1968, the @studiomuseum has pulled off a balancing act that has eluded many of its peers: simultaneously cultivating an intimate relationship with its neighbors and serving as a beacon for boundary-pushing contemporary art internationally.
For the past seven years, however, Americaâs leading institution dedicated to the work of artists of African descent has been closed to the public while laying the groundwork for a new chapter. On Nov. 15, it will open a seven-floor, 82,000-square-foot building designed by Adjaye Associates and executed by Cooper Robertson. In the art world, the Studio Museum is best known for cultivating a range of emerging talentsâboth artistic and curatorialâwho go on to seed institutions around the globe. To mark its reopening, CULTURED convened three prominent conceptual artists who had significant early support from the museum: @nikitagale , @camillenorment , and @sable_elyse .
Each was featured in the museumâs distinctive twist on a biennial, a series affectionately referred to as the âFâ shows because their titles all begin with the letter. Norment, 55, an Oslo-based multimedia artist and composer, appeared in the first âFâ show, âFreestyle,â in 2001 and is creating a new installation made of brass tubing and a chorus of voices for the grand reopening. The LA-based Gale, 41, showed a critical early workâan installation featuring two guitars that made a droning noiseâin the exhibition âFictionsâ in 2017. And 39-year-old Smith, based in New York and also featured in âFictions,â was an artist-in-residence in 2018 and worked in the Studio Museumâs education department from 2013 to 2016.
At the link in bio, they reflect on how the museum has shaped their lives and careers.
Words by @juliahalperin
THE WORD "ARENA," COMMONLY USED TODAY TO DESCRIBE SPORTS STADIUMS AND PERFORMANCE SPACES, ORIGINATES FROM THE LATIN WORD HARENA (ALSO SPELLED ARENA), WHICH MEANS âSAND.â
IN ANCIENT ROME, THIS REFERRED SPECIFICALLY TO THE SAND SPREAD OVER THE FLOORS OF AMPHITHEATERS LIKE THE COLOSSEUM. THE SAND SERVED A PRACTICAL FUNCTION: IT HELPED ABSORB BLOOD AND OTHER FLUIDS DURING GLADIATORIAL GAMES, ANIMAL HUNTS, AND PUBLIC EXECUTIONS. THIS MADE IT EASIER TO MAINTAIN A CLEAN AND MANAGEABLE SURFACE DURING AND AFTER EVENTS.
AS USAGE EVOLVED, ARENA CAME TO REFER NOT JUST TO THE SAND ITSELF, BUT TO THE ENTIRE SPACE IN WHICH THESE PUBLIC SPECTACLES TOOK PLACE. OVER TIME, THE TERM BROADENED FURTHER, COMING TO DESCRIBE ANY ENCLOSED SPACE DESIGNED FOR VIEWING PUBLIC EVENTS, REGARDLESS OF THE MATERIAL COVERING ITS FLOOR.
IN MODERN CONTEXTS, "ARENA" IS USED TO DESCRIBE EVERYTHING FROM SPORTS STADIUMS TO POLITICAL AND METAPHORICAL ARENAS OF COMPETITION OR DEBATE. DESPITE THE SHIFT IN MEANING, THE WORD RETAINS A LINK TO ITS HISTORICAL AND ARCHITECTURAL ORIGINS.
LOST ARENA 1, 2025
Velvet, river sand, cast iron powder, travertine, aluminum
73"h x 49" w x 5" d
183cm x 125cm x 13cm
@petzelgallery