The 50 State Courage Tour š
I think Iām doing something kind of crazyā¦
This summer, Iām driving across all 50 states to build my speaking career, launch my book MOVE FORWARD MESSY, and actually live the message I teach about moving before you feel ready.
This book came from the last few years of doing exactly that⦠and now Iām taking it on the road in real time.
Iāll be speaking in different cities, meeting people, listening to their dreams, and encouraging them to say YES to the things that both scare and excite them.
And Iām documenting all of it.
Not the polished version.
The real version.
The fear. The doubt. The moments where I donāt know what Iām doing⦠and choosing to move anyway.
For so long, I waited to feel ready. To feel confident.
I know thatās not how it works anymore.
So this is me⦠doing it anyway.
Fearās coming with me.
It just doesnāt get to drive.
The tour officially kicks off May 15th at the District 44 Toastmasters Conference in Atlanta.
If youāve been waiting for your moment, maybe this is your sign.
Letās see what happens.
Where should I stop on the 50 State Courage Tour? Drop your city below š
#courage
#realityshow
#moveforwardmessy
#confidence
#speaker
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šššš FOUR WINS and a full heart.
ššš Sweet Body is officially racking up the wins and Iām over the moon with gratitude!
Weāve now taken home:
Best Director ā Atlanta Comedy Film Festival
Best Dark Comedy ā Womenās Comedy Film Festival in Atlanta
Best Dark Comedy ā Atlanta Short Film Festival
Best Dark Comedy ā Georgia Comedy Film Festival
Iām still pinching myself.
Thank you to every single person who came to a screening, laughed with us, hugged me in the lobby, donated as an Angel investor, or reached out with love. Your supportāfinancial, emotional, and everything in betweenāmeans the world. Seeing your faces in the audience makes this whole journey even sweeter.
This film started as a personal leap of faith. Now itās become a shared experienceābringing together stories, voices, and hearts from all corners of the creative world.
Huge thanks to our badass team. You brought Sweet Body to life with your humor, heart, and hustle. I couldnāt be more proud of the magic we made together.
Hereās to bold storytelling, fearless comedy, and the power of film to bring us together. Letās keep going.
@womenscomedy@cinemalifeorg@sweetbodyshortfilm@mikel.fair@derek_sitter@atlanta.comedy.film.festival@georgia.comedy.film.festival
Team credits belowācouldnāt have done it without you:
Cinematographer: @blakestudwell
Co-Director: @ahumanhannah
1st AC: @cagandcam
Gaffer: @wulongg_tea
Set Decorator: @feathertotem
Sound Mixer: @vic_the__
Stills & BTS Photography: @marciglianophotography
Theme Song Composer: @mattymusicmadness
Editor: @title.wav
Colorist: @jdubsworkspace
Jade: @nikisterner
Kiki: @ansleighfunk
Chase: @itstimpruitt
Emma: @ansleykateee
Ryan: @codylandmichl
Writer/Co-Director/Producer: @nikisterner
Photo by @marciglianophotography
#SweetBodyShortFilm #BestDirector #BestDarkComedy #WomenInComedy #CreativeCourage #IndieFilm #FilmFestivalWins #ComedyFilm #WomenFilmmakers #SupportIndieFilm #Grateful #CourageToCreate
#atlantacomedy
Happy Motherās Day to this baddie warrior woman I get to call Mom. ā¤ļø
DIY Queen. Suzy Homemaker. Fashion Designer. šShe can make anything sparkle, taste delicious, and look new. Whether sheās helping someone fix a problem (her advice is free š), decorating a space, trying on my wigs with my niece, or showing up at a bike rally looking like an absolute warrior babe⦠she brings creativity, laughter, love, and heart everywhere she goes.
She taught me what it looks like to outwork everyone. To truly support people. To encourage them, love them fully, and see greatness in them before they fully see it in themselves.
Mom, thank you for always believing in all of us, and for supporting our dreams. Weāre so lucky youāre our mom. ā¤ļø
Iām also feeling incredibly grateful for my hubs Scott, daughters Kelsey and Breezy, and son Jake, for making me a mom. I canāt imagine my life without you. This Motherās Day feels a little different because Kelsey and Breezy canāt be here today, and my heart definitely feels that, but Iām so proud of the women they are becoming and I know weāll celebrate together soon. ā¤ļø
Happy Motherās Day to all the wonderful moms out there, all the women who wanted to be Moms and didnāt get to, all the Moms who have lost a child, and all the women who chose not to become Moms but mother and care for others in their own special way. We celebrate all of you! šŗ #happymothersdayā¤ļø #happymothersday
šāØ NEW TIRES. BIG DREAMS. LETāS GO.
Weāre getting ready for the 50 State Courage Tour and my husband Scott (aka Mr. Safety š ) just upgraded my KIA Telluride with brand new Michelin tires⦠because when youāre about to drive across the entire country, you donāt mess around with safety.
And honestly? I wouldnāt want to be in ANY other car.
This Telluride is a full body YES.
Smooth. Comfortable. Spacious. Luxurious.
Like⦠road trip dream status.
And thatās coming from a former minivan mama who held onto her KIA Sedona for dear life (10 years) because it was THAT good. š
But this? This is next level.
This SUV is about to carry me across all 50 statesā¦
to small towns, big cities, and everywhere in betweenā
collecting stories from people who have BIG dreams but maybe havenāt said them out loud yet.
Because hereās what I know:
The most powerful stories arenāt just on stagesā¦
theyāre in the everyday people driving next to you.
So yeah⦠this isnāt just about tires.
Itās about the journey.
The courage.
The Wildest YES Life.
Follow along as I hit the road in my KIA and move forward messy across the country šŗšøāØ
@michelin_tires__@kia_autopremier
#michelin #kia #moveforwardmessy #courage #bigdreams
Itās a beautiful Saturday Funny Bussers, and itās also Atlanta Dogwood Festival weekend at Piedmont Park!! š¼š Soak up the vibes, hop on a tour, and keep the spring energy going before or after the festival fun! šāØ
Niki is kicking things off with our SOLD OUT 2:30 tour, and Connor is bringing the laughs at 5 PM & 7:30ādonāt miss your chance to drink, laugh, and ride with us! š»ššŗ @nikisterner@connorglyons
Tour times this weekend: Sat 5 & 7:30 (2:30 SOLD OUT) | Sun 2:30
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#AtlantaDogwoodFestival #ThingsToDoATL #AtlantaWeekend #SpringInATL #ExploreATL
Happy Easter šā¤ļøš„° If you need a little happy today, you can borrow some of mine. Life is better with you in it. Remember that. šā¤ļø
#happyeaster
#family
#easter
#brunch
#love
What if your procrastination isnāt laziness⦠but a sign youāre close?
Resistance gets loud right before your breakthrough.
Not because somethingās wrongā¦
But because something is about to change.
If youāve been:
⢠overthinking
⢠procrastinating
⢠reorganizing everything except the thing that matters
⢠feeling stuck or overwhelmed
Thatās not failure.
Thatās the moment most people turn around.
And itās the exact moment I teach my clients how to move through.
MOVE FORWARD MESSY: The Confidence Shortcut For Ambitious Creatives.
This book isnāt just something you read.
Itās something you experience.
You get my story, 4 weeks of my method, and 4 weeks of action.
Itās me coaching you for 60 daysāpage by pageāas you build the courage to:
⨠move before you feel ready
⨠stop waiting for confidence
⨠and finally go after your Wildest YES life
If this hit⦠youāre closer than you think.
Where in your life do you feel that pull⦠and that hesitation at the same time?
Save this for the next time resistance gets loud.
#MoveForwardMessy #TheConfidenceShortcut #creative #confidence #courage
If this is how courage feels for you⦠youāre not doing it wrong.
For so long, I kept exposing myself to things that scared meā¦and wondering:
When will I actually feel confident?
Will my nervous system ever settle down?
Hereās what I can tell you now:
It did.
Not overnight. Not all at once.
But through repeated REPZ⦠it changed.
My nervous system expanded.
My tolerance grew.
The same things that once felt risky⦠now feel normal.
Speaking.
Writing.
Teaching.
Coaching.
Singing.
All of it felt uncomfortable when I started 3.5 years ago.
But I kept showing up.
I kept exposing myself.
I kept growing⦠and expressing myself.
And this week, I saw it work in a whole new way.
We paused with our kids and mapped out their futures using the Courage Quest Big Picture MAP.
One is on the med school path.
One is exploring engineering.
And our oldest is already thriving in computer science at Apple. Yay! šš„³
When we slowed down and reverse engineered their path, something shifted.
š Relief.
š Clarity.
š Belief.
They could finally see that what they want⦠is actually possible.
Because we break it down into:
BIG Breakthroughs: Focused energy sprints toward their SOUL Role. (āI am a doctor.ā āI am an engineer.ā)
And step by step⦠it becomes real.
This is the system Iāve been building:
The Confidence Shortcut
To help you:
ā get clear
ā take action
ā and build confidence through real experience
Itās for creatives.
For students.
For entrepreneurs.
For anyone ready to stop waiting and start moving.
And itās coming to life through:
BOOK. JOURNAL. BLUEPRINT.
To say Iām excited to share this with you is an understatement.
This journey has taught me patience.
Resilience.
And how to celebrate the small wins.
And the best part?
š It works for you too.
#theconfidenceshortcut
#moveforwardmessy
#confidence
#courage
#dreams
Jake had the best time at prom with this beautiful crew. āØ
Such a fun night, and that skyline made it even more magical.
#promnight #proudparents #son #prom #makingmemories
Congrats to the NSA Speaker Academy Graduates and Coaches for rising up and taking the stage with each of your beautiful stories today! There is so much power in your words.š„š„š„
#confidence #nsa #courage #speaker #moveforwardmessy
I just picked up the first printed version of
MOVE FORWARD MESSY: The Confidence Shortcut BLUEPRINT.
And wow⦠this moment hit me.
What started as an idea in my head is now a real tool that can help people build their Wildest YES life.
First I sketched it on poster board.
Then I taped paper together to create the exact 24 x 36 size and sketched again.
Then I built it in Canva so it could be printed.
Today⦠I held it in my hands.
This BLUEPRINT is the final piece of the Confidence Shortcut Collection alongside the BOOK and the JOURNAL.
And seeing it printed made something very clear to meā¦
This isnāt just an idea anymore.
Itās a tool that will help people design the life thatās been calling them. The life that makes them feel alive. The one that feels scary AND exciting at the same time.
I share this with you today, in case you are looking for a little hope. A little seed to be planted, that your dream is waiting, and this is the BLUEPRINT to design the path that gets you there.
I am so excited for you and your BIG dreams.
Theyāre closer than you think.
#MoveForwardMessy #theconfidenceshortcut #courage #creative #confidence