2026 i am doing everything my mind thinks is unsafe !!
So letās kick off with a book !!BECOMING HER WITH YOUR STYLE !!
2025 changed a lot of things for me,not in loud ways,but in quiet defining ones.
One of the major lessons was the psychology of style.
It taught me that style isnāt just what you wear, itās how youāre read before you ever speak.
Trust me when I tell you I lived the psychology of style firsthand.
I walked into rooms and felt the difference.
I was treated differently.
I was trusted faster.
Fun fact : I was handed a VIP pass at an event I didnāt even buy a VIP pass for, simply because of how I showed up and how I was perceived
And it began to make sense !!
I knew I didnāt want to be perceived as a small person.
Not in my thinking. Not in my carriage and definitely not in my presentation.
This book didnāt come from theory.
It came from living. From observing. From choosing myself again and again even when I didnāt have it all figured out.
Becoming Her With Your Style is everything I learned by experience, written with intention so you donāt have to stumble blindly the way I did.
If this shift could happen for me without planning every detailā¦
imagine what happens when you become intentional with a guide.
Preorders are officially open. Link š in bioāļøš¾
This isnāt about clothes.
Itās about becoming her !!š¤
Happy new year my beautiful family !!
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If youāve purchased your copy is waiting for you, just follow the steps in this post carefully. And if you havenāt gotten your copy yet⦠this is your sign.
Becoming Her With Your Style is officially out, and the conversations itās starting are too important to sit out on.
Read it. Reflect on it. Grow through it.
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Also feel free to ask questions you would like to know !!
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Everybody wants to heal, glow up and protect their peace⦠but what If the the person you need to confront is yourself?
Real growth happens when you stop avoiding the mirror and actually look inward
Comment āI'm going to look inwardā
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Iāve really been enjoying pieces that let me move through my day feeling powerful while still being comfortable, feminine, and still fully like myself āŗļø
These looks from @levivstar gave me exactly that. Soft, effortless, but still with a little edge depending on the mood.
Now I canāt decide which one I loved more. Which look does it for you? The soft girl look or the more powerful, structured look?
All outfits from @levivstar
If thereās one thing the response to that video shows, itās that so many of us are quietly navigating the same struggles.
There may not be one answer that works for everyone, but there is a starting point, going back to the root. When you do, you begin to notice the patterns and habits that may have been shaping your experience all along.
My hope is that this video gives you a bit of clarity, and maybe even answer some of the questions youāve been sitting with š¤.
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Iāve been working on something new ā
The Hair Library.
A wig rental service created for creatives and productions who need quality hair, fast and camera-ready.
From film sets to music videos, shoots and costume styling weāre here to make sourcing hair one less problem.
If youāre in production or styling, Iād love to work with you.
āMoremu Fallsā is now showing on YouTube via Love Story Media⦠and somehow, we didnāt just watch this story, we were in it.
When you watch, pay attention to the beauty and detail. Follow and sharešš¾
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