“To all Asian American and Pacific Islander women in the breast cancer community: I want you to know that taking care of your health is not a burden. It is an act of love for yourself and those who care about you. I understand that cultural expectations and fear can sometimes make it hard to prioritize screenings or monthly self-exams. But early detection can make all the difference, and knowing your body is a powerful form of self-empowerment.”
Today, we’re sending love to community advocate
@bahamaxmama . Mar was a high school sophomore when she learned that her mother, Felicitas, had breast cancer. Her mother had kept the details of her diagnosis from her to spare her feelings. By the time Mar graduated from high school, Felicitas had undergone a double mastectomy, and when the cancer spread to her uterus a few years later, she had a hysterectomy. Eventually, the cancer spread, and treatment was no longer effective. Mar recalls:
“Through it all, my mother carried her illness silently, never wanting to worry anyone, and I often wish she had felt it was okay to ask for help sooner. Because of my mother’s experience, I make it a point to encourage my friends and family, especially those of Asian descent, to prioritize their breast health, perform regular self-checks, and stay aware of any changes in their bodies.
To Asian women currently facing a breast cancer diagnosis and undergoing treatment: I want you to know that you are not alone. This journey can feel overwhelming, and it’s normal to experience fear, uncertainty, and even anger. But within that struggle, there is also immense strength. Strength that comes from your courage, your resilience, and the love of those who support you.
Allow yourself to accept help, lean on your support network, and take each day one step at a time. Your bravery in facing treatment and advocating for your health is inspiring. You are seen, you are valued, and you are not walking this path by yourself.”
#AANHPIMonth
