1. I started creating slower mornings instead of immediately overstimulating myself.
For a while, my mornings started with anxiety, social media, fast dopamine, and rushing into the day already mentally exhausted.
Now Iām trying to slow life down before the world gets access to me by:
1. Stretching.
2. Breathing.
3. Running.
4. Sitting in silence.
Actually asking myself how I want to feel instead of immediately reacting to notifications. Iāve realized peace is something you practice.
2. I stopped treating my body like something that only mattered aesthetically.
I used to approach health from a very surface-level perspective. Now Iām learning that taking care of myself is deeper than appearance.
1. Working out has become less about punishment and more about discipline.
2. Stretching has become less about fitness and more about reconnecting with my body.
3. Eating healthier has become less about restriction and more about finally giving my body things that help me feel clear, energized, and alive.
3. I became more aware of the things I was using to escape myself:
Smoking.
Mindless scrolling.
Overconsumption.
Constant stimulation.
None of those things made me feel better long term.
They just distracted me temporarily.
Iām trying to build a life I donāt constantly feel the need to mentally escape from anymore.
4. I stopped overthinking the person I needed to become and started focusing on daily alignment. This has probably been the biggest shift for me.
I spent so much time trying to mentally perfect my future self that I delayed actually becoming him.
Now Iām realizing confidence is built through consistency.
You become yourself through repetition.
Through habits.
Through keeping small promises to yourself over and over again.
5. I started choosing a lifestyle that reflects the person Iām trying to grow into.
More movement.
More intention.
More structure.
More discipline.
More creativity.
More real conversations.
More experiences that actually nourish me mentally, spiritually, physically, and emotionally.
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Jazz on the Beltline @buenavidatapas midweek, but it felt like a moment.
Starter: passionfruit & spicy margaritas with a charcuterie board to start
Tapas: empanadas, steak & potatoes (10/10)
another round š«£
churros to close š¤¤
26 taught me that peace is louder than chaos.
That not everyone who enters your life is meant to stay but everyone leaves you with something to learn.
It taught me how to choose myself without apology.
How to sit with hard truths, heal in real time, and keep moving even when things felt uncertain.
26 stretched me š®āšØ emotionally, creatively, spiritually.
I learned that growth isnāt always pretty, and strength doesnāt always look loud. Sometimes it looks like quiet boundaries, confidence, and showing up for yourself anyway.
I learned that my kindness isnāt weakness. My heart stayed open, my vision got sharper, and my standards got higher.
Now I move differently. More intentional. More grounded.
More me.
Chapter 27: fully stepping into my own energy.
stopped forcing routines that werenāt built for my life.
January is where I slow down and take inventory.
February is where I move.
Not because Iām behind
because I want this year to actually last.
If you fell off your New Year plans already⦠youāre not broken.
You might just be building something that fits you better.
Everyone does New Yearās resolutions in January⦠and Iāve always been the odd one.
I take my time.
I look back longer.
I sit with what worked, what didnāt, what I actually want next.
I realized a while ago that I donāt have to run my life on the same calendar as everyone else. Other cultures reset at different times. Different rhythms exist. So I gave myself permission to find mine.
January is when I check in.
February is when I move.
That extra space helps me feel intentional instead of rushed. Like Iām building my life instead of chasing one.
This year Iām putting more into my body, my mind, my money.. the whole system. Not because Iām behind⦠but because I finally know what Iām aiming at.
Iām done moving on anyone elseās timeline.
This is the life I created.
And Iām upgrading it my way.