"...the words I saw...LOUD and AGGRESSIVE...I was speechless."😳
My HR expert friend found these words written on her annual performance review by the company president. After she'd exceeded expectations just 60 days earlier.
This is the reality for Black women in corporate America. 💔
But Monique didn't just take it. With 25+ years in HR, she knew exactly how to fight back, and she's sharing all of her secrets with us.
Your survival toolkit:
✅️ Never sign a review you disagree with
✅️ Schedule your own feedback meetings
✅️ Document EVERYTHING
✅️ Know your rights under Title VII
✅️ Take control of your career destiny
The stats don't lie:
Only 54 Black women promoted for every 100 men. 40% of us have had our judgement questioned in our area of expertise.
But we're learning how to protect ourselves and thrive💪🏿💪🏾💪🏽
Save this post. Share it with your girls. Knowledge is power.
Full episode links in bio.
#blackwomenbusinessowners #blackwomeninbusiness #blackownedbusiness
#blackgirlmagic✨ #coffeenocream #blackwomen #blackwomenatwork #workplacebias #HRtips
From an STL #Moles Happy Hour at the High Bar to showing up and celebrating my beautiful sis Rachel Powers at The Opportunity Trust Spring Celebration & Awards—held at the stunning Saint Louis Art Museum—what a week! ✨
A huge shoutout to the incredible young scholar who secured over $3 MILLION in scholarships… simply phenomenal! 🎓💫
I’m soaking up every moment of this #JubileeYear 💚🤍🤎
So proud of my my cousin @jewelry_by_sunshine for a Beautiful Mother’s Day #celebration.
Congratulations to my Mommy @wilson.vallorie on her beautiful award💚. @tiffwilbro
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My💚 is full #happymothersday
🎙️ Unapologetically Heard: Owning Your Voice at Work🎙️
I’m incredibly excited to join Rhoda Banks & Co. for this powerful conversation centered on the experiences of Black women in the workplace and the harmful narratives of being labeled “loud” or “aggressive” for simply leading with confidence and clarity……
This episode is honest, empowering, necessary, and one I CANNOT wait to share with you all. ✨
Inspired in part by “I’m Not Yelling” by Elizabeth Leiba. #ImNotYelling
‼️TUNE IN‼️
#BreakthroughConversations #changingthenarrative #womenempoweringwomen #blackwomeninleadership
🎥Some movies are meant to be experienced in a theater — light flickering through film, surrounded by an audience, in a place that cares about cinema.
That’s why I’m supporting Cinema St. Louis’ 35mm campaign this Give STL Day. #BoardMember #lovefilm
Join me with a gift of any size:
/organization/cinemastlouis
#35for35 #GiveSTLDay #cinemastl
🐢Mental Health Awareness Month🐢
May is recognized as Mental Health Awareness Month—a reminder that taking care of you is not optional, it is essential.
Let’s normalize:
- Rest without guilt
- Seeking support
- Checking in on one another
Green represents mental health awareness—wear it, share it, live it.💚💚
Upward and Onward in Efficient Service..#IotaPhiLambdaSorority #EtaAlpha #mentalhealthawarenessmonth
✨AMAZING night! ✨
Huge congratulations to Michael Patrick McMillan for hosting a phenomenal 108th Annual Dinner!
The energy in the room, the purpose, the legacy—it was all unforgettable.✨
And let’s talk about IMPACT! 🙌🏾
Special appreciation to Keith H. Williamson of Centene Corporation & Michelle Tucker of United Way for their incredible generosity—$1 MILLION and $100,000 in support of the Urban League’s mission. #impact
A truly historic night celebrating leadership, community, and the power of giving back. 💫 #ULSTL #CommunityImpact #Gratitude #stl