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Health update - a year in review
Today, March 12, 2026, Iâll receive infusion #7 of my second round of chemotherapy and immunotherapy
as part of a clinical trial that targets a certain protein in participantsâ tumours. My tumors have shrunk and through I still have a torso dotted with cancer, and pain
and nausea, my meds are working, the masses have decreased, and I am stable.
Yay, science! Yay, BC Cancer!
One year ago exactly, on March 12, 2025, I received my
first infusion of chemotherapy and immunotherapy. It was physically hard in ways Iâve kind of partitioned
off. I barely remember the pain but my body hasnât forgotten.
That arduous experience was capped off by the devastating news that my tumors were growing. Chemo
failed, my cancer spread, and I spent months afraid of dying.
Time is weird and a lot of things about cancer are absurd, but Iâm feeling this anniversary in a big way. Since the recurrence I have known that my cancer isnât curable but it is treatable. Iâm so lucky and I never
take that for granted.
Iâm still afraid, of course, but Iâve worked through a lot of things thanks to BC Cancer counseling and so many loved ones showing up and taking care of me. Carlos,
my Chemo Club, my family, my friends, folks here who have sent kind messages â cancer takes a village.
Thank you all.
Iâm also very hopeful thanks to the ongoing success of this clinical trial. Thereâs no end in sight for my
treatment so Iâll be living in three-week cycles for awhile, but Iâm alive and Iâm so grateful for that.
Love to all & fuck cancer,
A
PS: After two months of no waiting room songs, the playlist gods came through in a big way yesterday.
March 11, 2026
âShiversâ - Ed Sheeran
âHow Does It Feelâ - the Kid Laroi
â(Everything I Do) I Do It For Youâ - Bryan Adams
ârubberbandâ - Tate McRae
âPurple Irisesâ - Gwen Stefani & Blake Shelton
âCanât Get Enough â - Jennifer Lopez
âI Found Youâ - Andy Grammer
âMade For Youâ - Nick Schilder
âThe Peopleâs Houseâ - Bon Jovi & the War and Treaty
#EndometrialCancer #FuckCancer #ClinicalTrials
SHANARA? CYNARIA? QUEEN. ICON. MOTHER.
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#WeOughtaKnow is in bookstores & Audible & at the library & at the link in my bio.
#ShaniaTwain
Happy release day to my fourth book, The Time of My Life! What a dream to write about Dirty Dancing in this way and see it come to fruition in this perfect little pink package.
Iâm grateful to so many people who helped make this book happen & if you scroll through youâll see both the dedication and the acknowledgements for The Time of My Life. Books are community đ
Justice for all the Pennys everywhere.
Link in bio.
#DirtyDancing #TheTimeOfMyLife #TimeOfMyLife #newbook
Daniel Zomparelli is a sweet, haunted angel & not only did he write a NOVEL, he also brought me an authentic wrap hat from the new Muppet Show! Iâm never taking it off & I want everyone to buy his book. #SuperCastleFunPark
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Yesterday I found out my recent CT scan shows a small amount of spread/growth in some of my tumors. Iâm not surprised as Iâve had more pain the last three weeks. My body is great at telling on itself.Â
My oncologist is super proactive and weâre switching to a different chemo immediately starting today. Weâll likely do six cycles of this new treatment and reassess (unless something else crops up before then).
Iâm disappointed that the clinical trial didnât work but there might be others in my future and Iâm grateful for immediate alternatives. This is the responsive healthcare everyone deserves.Â
Yesterdayâs waiting room playlist was as aggressively mid as this news. At least thereâs always the music. Long live this wild, cursed, hilarious algo.
April 22
âWaves of Blueâ - Major Jordan
âLouderâ - Kygo, Julia Michaels, Chance PeĆa
âBetter Sideâ - Elise LaGrow
âYou Love Who You Loveâ - Zara LarssonÂ
âHalf of My Heartâ - John Mayer
âSomebody Elseâsâ - Gwen Stefani
âBreatheâ (Pop version) - Faith Hill
âdaisyfieldsâ - Bella Armor
Love,
A
#endometrialcancer #ovariancancer #chemotherapy
Infusion #8 today but before that a hair update: still more coming in than going out! Almost no white! Curls and frizz that I just leave alone so as not to disrupt the process. Cancer treatment can be very weird.
#EndometrialCancer #ClinicalTrial #CancerRecurrence #Chemotherapy