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The sky isnāt even the limit
It found MEā¦
The magicā¦
I wouldnāt have even known how to look for itā¦
So I canāt exactly say I found itā¦
But what I can say without a doubt is that I handed it to Godā¦
All of it.
Itās not like I gave upā¦
Because giving up feels like not caring anymoreā¦
This was more like a trust fall.
āHelp.ā
Asking⦠ KNOWING deep in my soul⦠help was coming.
Surrenderingā¦Somehowā¦
And not seeing any of the āvery real eventsā occurring in real time as any kind of evidence that MAYBE⦠help wasnāt coming after allā¦
Being able to watch as everything I ever thought I NEEDED fell away⦠without connecting it to the demise of my prayer in any way ā¦
I didnāt know the process of a prayer made
Manifest⦠so who was I to start judging itās unfolding?
I just looked for anything I could find that looked like it was workingā¦
And I think that was the beginning of āITā finding me⦠- The Magic.
I had never looked at the world this way- at myself this way⦠or even thought about ANYTHING this wayā¦
And very quickly I felt differentā¦
Undeniably different.
Something had changed within me.
There is nothing like it.This feeling.
Itās a unique kind of food that transcends all othersā¦
Itās like taming an itch you didnāt know was scratchingā¦
Itās like taking the biggest breath in when you were entirely out of breath⦠but never even realized you wereā¦
Itās like the sun suddenly shining when you didnāt realize how dark or cold it wasā¦
Itās faith in your heartā¦
When you had forgotten what it meant to believe.
This feeling became the greatest gift of my lifeā¦
And I felt grateful for it like I had never experienced gratitude beforeā¦
And I KNEW.
No man could have ever given me this.
No amount of money could buy this.
No external circumstance could create this.
This was a giftā¦
And the only way to show adequate appreciation for it would be to be aware of its presence as often as humanly possibleā¦
I felt loveā¦
I felt gratitudeā¦
I felt abundanceā¦
I felt faithā¦
And I was sleeping in the front seat of a car⦠in a hardware store parking lot in the eye of winter⦠without enough
[ā¦] Part 2
Some nights I went hungry,
Some nights I went coldā¦
But I never went without.
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From this place that may have looked like absolute lack from the outsideā¦
I experienced more abundance and connection than I had ever experienced in my life⦠on the inside.
I felt a certainty in life I had NEVER felt before.
I now call this state *The GodZone*.
This became the single most important currency in my lifeā¦
Because I KNEWā¦
If you stripped it all awayā¦
Everything I thought I needed..
And there was no foodā¦
And no safe shelterā¦
And no shoulder to cry onā¦
And no person to rely onā¦
And no money to help meā¦
And nothing to numb withā¦
Right there⦠where there was seemingly ānothing leftāā¦
There would always be the GodZone.
And I knewā¦Ā
I had found what matters most in this entire worldā¦
And I remember telling *the sky*⦠that if there were a way to help people find this⦠I would spend the rest of my life trying to find the words.
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After this experience almost everything looked and felt different to me when I was in the *GodZone*ā¦
I could clearly see how people were searching for what I had found in all the wrong placesā¦
It was as though they were working on deserving it somehow⦠creating hoops to jump through⦠to prove⦠they were worthy.
They thought they could buy itā¦
They thought they could pose for itā¦
They thought they could fight for it, fuck for itā¦
They thought they could take it, steal it⦠fake itā¦
But you donāt take the magicā¦
It takes youā¦
Written one year ago⦠today. ā³
Here is the only ā10 STEP FRAMEWORKā I can truly stand by.
Step 1: Realize that you are pulled to more.
Step 2: Go on a quest to your becoming⦠to mastery.
Step 3: Emerge capable of doing extraordinary things.
Step 4: Do extraordinary things.
Step 5: Be both idolized and vilified for doing extraordinary things.
Step 6: Go through the kind of initiation that either makes your heart go dark⦠or reinforces your mission.
Step 7: Go inward, into a period of deep transformation and contemplation.
Step 8: Reemerge transformed, and SEEN by those who are able to vibrate on the plane of transformation itselfā¦
Step 9: Set a new standard for love, forgiveness, and self actualisation for the world around you.
Step 10: Live the rest of your life in the GodZone.
Today we shine our love on all Alpha Femme Mothers š¤
For all that you are, all that you do, all that it takes šš¼
Thank you for continuing to evolve as people, while you raise future generations⦠it is exquisite to witness.
And Today, we honor the many ways love nurtures lifeā¦
To the mothers, grandmothers, stepmothers, godmothers, chosen mothers, mentors, caregivers, and women who hold others through tenderness, sacrifice, wisdom, and strength ā¦
thank you.
And today, we also hold space for the many different experiences this day can bringā¦
For those longing to become mothersā¦
For those grieving a mother or childā¦
For those navigating complicated relationships, loss, distance, or silenceā¦
For the women who mother others without ever being called āMom.ā
For those healing from what they did not receiveā¦
And for anyone finding today heavy instead of celebratory⦠you are not forgotten here.
Motherhood is presence. It is protection. It is resilience. It is the quiet, powerful act of loving, guiding, creating safety, and helping others growā¦
We celebrate nurturing love⦠and every person carrying both joy and tenderness today.
May you feel seen, honored, and held exactly as you are.
Happy Motherās Day. š¤
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There is something I have intuitively known ever since my decision to embody the « Alpha Femme Frequency »⦠(There are many thingsā¦but the one I want to bring forward in this moment is this one):
The speed and intensity with which I move must be contained within a conscious awareness of the full spectrum experience that is required to maintain that pace and output.
What I mean by this is that there are times I could feel the ability to go faster, I could even feel a rise in my desire to go further or bigger, but an energetic question always arose in the pauseā¦(the pause I have chosen to honour no matter what)ā¦which was āwould this speed and intensity cause a collapse if it were being experienced during the shadow side of duality?ā
There are times the response came with certainty that I could handle it no matter what, I felt the energy ācontainedāā¦
And there were other times I was grateful for the pause.
During the 13 years of building this brand, the speed and intensity has varied fluidly but has never fractured. There has been no need for a 180, a performance, or a break. The journey hasnāt been perfect but it has remained ācontainedā.
The first phase of my discoveries with the women who have worked with me has allowed me to crack open receiving, show women what is possible, and celebrate hundreds and hundreds of financial freedom stories, and moments of true emotional freedom for women all over the world.
However, I have intuitively received what the next phase of this work is asking of meā¦
And I am choosing this purpose with all of my heart:
Women must learn this ācontainmentā as I experience itā¦and the most difficult part of this work for me always has, and continues to be, finding THE wordsā¦
But I will.
[new purpose chosen⦠May 4th 2026āļø]
Exponential wealth is not a reward.
Itās a consequence of coherence.
Not just brand coherence.
Not just messaging coherence.
Not just values coherence.
Field coherence.
Exponential Wealth comesā¦
Not because youāre trying to manifest it.
Not because youāre trying to align to itā¦
Not because youāre working hard for itā¦.
But because youāve become a field that doesnāt fracture under pressure.
And wealth, real wealth, not high-cash-codependent-performance wealthā¦
only lands where thereās no inner punishment for receiving.
What does this even look like?
⦠Saying nothing and still being felt.
⦠Offering nothing and still being resourced.
⦠Doing nothing āstrategicā and still being invited.
⦠Dropping the addiction to proving your worthiness⦠and letting life pour itself into you because you are no longer trying to āearn itā.
This is ontological magnetism.
And it scares the spit out of people whoāve built everything through effort, authority, or earnedness.
āFor it is through the vacuum left behind when all the false reasons you thought you deserved it dissolve⦠that Exponential Wealth comes for YOU.ā
- @melanieannlayer
I first discovered Human Design in 2018.
It wasnāt love at first sight for meā¦Ā But the more it circled around me the more resonance I felt with itā¦
It gave language to certain things that had never made sense to me before. It made me laugh⦠(I loved that, still do.) I started relating to a lot of it like a āKarmic Jokeā⦠it became a light-hearted way for me to accept certain things about myself and others⦠embrace differences I hadnāt really known how to embrace without this frameworkā¦Ā
And the best part⦠it helped me see the beauty in people in ways I canāt begin to explain. It also helped me forgive and move on from people with a deeper understanding of our behaviors and shadows.
I donāt learn things only with the mindā¦
I learn through integrating mostly through lived experience. (This is also something HD gave me words for⦠something that had often made me feel inadequate for much of my life until that point.)
When something matters to me it becomes a part of me, a part of my life. It has never been enough for me to learn or study something⦠I must live by it. This is where I find true mastery⦠and then still, I learn from there!
These past few years I took on a big risk and brought Human Design to the forefront of my work. This meant being willing to live by design⦠and learn and lead in the fire, from the fire, beyond the fire.
I prioritized sacral yeses, and pivoted as often as possible when sacral noās were present.
I truly worked on myself to understand the difference between a reaction and a responseā¦
Between satisfaction and reliefā¦
And so much more⦠but these alone began shifting my life in unimaginable and unexpected ways.
I believe my contribution to Human Design is in the actual lived experience, the difficult parts we reject and wish we could change AND the grand parts that feel like freedom when we embrace them.
I believe it supports and even amplifies the body of work I have created over the last 13 yearsā¦
And through this work I am learning to value differentiation as much as unityā¦Ā
Which continues to open my eyes, soften my heart, and deepen my connection to faith.
Youāre wasting so much of your timeā¦
Just doing things because everyone seems to do it that way.
But youāre not everyoneā¦
You feel things they donāt seem to feelā¦
You think things they donāt seem to thinkā¦
You know things they donāt seem to knowā¦
When will you allow that to count for something?
Something REAL??
Itās your time⦠but youāre going to have to claim it.
This is your trail to blaze ā”ļøš¤š¼
I donāt teach the systems,
I unleash the women who write the code for themā¦
right back into the wild, where they belong.
āTis the season of Legends
ā”ļø
[Impact Academyš„]
Today I checked into room 2020ā¦
And felt a ping to look at my photo album to see what was happening 6 years ago in 2020ā¦
Kevin, my sister, and I were quarantined in Hawaii⦠but our spirits were high⦠we were on a mission and we were celebrating a ground breaking milestone for Alpha Femme.
I remember this day like it was yesterdayā¦
Celebrate what matters to you, be intentional, make memoriesā¦
These moments strung together⦠create the most beautiful life.
We were never meant to build our lives with force.
Not our healingā¦
Not our emotionsā¦ļæ½
Not our relationshipsā¦
Not our successā¦
Not our moneyā¦ļæ½
Not our timingā¦
Not our becoming.
Yet somewhere along the way we learned that effort earns us safetyā¦
We took on that we need to hold everythingā¦
ļæ½Manage the outcomesā¦ļæ½
Anticipate every thing that could happen before it does.
Try to stay one step ahead of life⦠just in case life canāt be trusted.
But there is a high cost to constant controlā¦
We donāt just carry responsibilityā¦.ļæ½
We carry tensionā¦ļæ½
We carry fearā¦
And we carry the belief that if we stop holding everything together, it will all fall apartā¦
So even when life is workingā¦ļæ½
we are not fully here in it.
Freedom only begins where we can access enough faith to loosen the gripā¦
Itās not that we give up or stop caring⦠But we stop confusing control with care⦠and stop disconnecting from ourselves in order to manage outcomesā¦
When we take on this wayā¦
The Feminine Power wayā¦
The Alpha Femme wayā¦
We eventually come to experience that waving a white flag in surrender is not always collapsing under pressure or an unwillingness to stand for what we want mostā¦
In alignment, it is actually a demonstration of faith⦠in our deserving of freedom.
When I am attuned to the Alpha Femme frequency, I am a woman who creates and receives in ways I could have barely imagined was possible for me before.
�I do not chase what is already moving toward me⦠And I do not chase what is moving away.
I do not TRY to become powerfulā¦
I accept that I am, and live accordingly.
AND BECAUSE OF THAT⦠life reorganizes around me.
Opportunities arrive without pursuitā¦ļæ½
Creativity arrives without forceā¦ļæ½
Wealth arrives without strainā¦
ļæ½Love arrives without performanceā¦
This is the freedom that comes from no longer feeling convinced that our hearts have to constantly brace for impactā¦
This is what it means to live without internal warā¦
To stop mistaking control for safetyā¦
With the Freedom to live at our own truest pace and our own toneā¦
And in that truth, life does what it has al