This post is dedicated to my favorite Taurus in the world…my mommy.
a couple weeks ago I had the absolute pleasure of celebrating her 65th trip around the sun along with our family.
to say the least, the past few years have been ROUGH - so this birthday was a bit more sentimental….pure gratitude for God’s grace and favor over her life.
besides being the ABSOLUTE BEST:
daughter
mother
wife
sister
cousin
friend
she has dedicated her life to SEVERAL foster children and families all up & thru Baltimore as a social worker for over 30 years…. & lemme tell y’all
being of service in THAT way for that LONG is not for the weak.😐
like you have to reeeeeally love people & have a strong spiritual fortitude to withstand all that come with…& she did! but it was still emotionally taxing on her.
and though she still made our house a home EVERY day in every way…she very often forgot about herself.
When she retired 2 years ago I said “Ma, make a bucket list of things you’d like to do. things that make you happy.
Big. small. & everything in between…it’s time for you to DO YOU.”
TamTam has been watching the Today Show for years & always admired the folks waiving their lil signs. So this year, she wanted to waive her lil sign too!
maaaaaan, A TIME WAS HAD.
a 32 hour trip to NYC will be a forever memory I’ll always cherish. I literally watched a new level of JOY unlock in my mommy in reeeal time! 😍
like REAL JOY & i absolutely love that for her. she deserves it.
it’s our responsibility to nurture our own joy! no matter how much loved ones want it for you - you have to make that choice for yourself. & most times that choice is outside of your comfort zone.
let this be a reminder family:
be kind to your self.
unlearn & relearn.
choose wisely & keep it GODspeed.
we are all walking each other home.
[if my mom has ever been a blessing to you show her some love in the comments yall💐]
im so proud of my girl🥹🤍
I love playing drums!
Always have. Always will. Swipe for some moments that are dear to my heart!
I’ve had the honor of playing with some amazingly talented musicians! Absolutely can’t wait to make more moments with each of you🫶🏾