Whatās under the story of your life? Whatās under the grief? The anger? The sadness? The fear?
Whatās the thing beneath the thing? The dead or dying thing? The lost or broken thing? The sad or confusing thing?
Iām not here to tell you itās all happening for a reason or things will get better or God isnāt wasting this. Iām here to say thereās something earthy, human, mysterious, maybe even made of clay or stardust or webs of mycelia or ashes or weeds.
Iām here to say if weāre trying to just explain away everything we might be missing something miraculous right HERE.
Right here, right now, in this place, even void of the peace we want, under it all, something beautiful is happening.
PS And in just a few hours, this book HERE will be in your hands š¤²š¼
PPS I want to see where YOU ARE when you hold this book in your actual hands. Tag me in your photos! @lorewilbert
#TheUnderstory
It was a kind of ick day I wouldnāt wish on anyone, but I wish everyone could know this guy. My guy, seen here after a shepherds pie, an IPA, and an hour of listening to me crack wide open. Happy birthday, my guy. Youāre the very best.
I should have loved this novel. I did not. One star, for the concept, which was brilliant. Less four stars for its execution, which was, IMO, terrible. Swipe for the quick review.
šš Comment MORE if you want to read my fuller thoughts on this book and who gets to decide what āgoodā is in art. #yesteryear
Your lines (and grays!) are endangered creatures in this year or 2026. Protect them! Put them on a postage stamp. Create a non-profit for them. Raise monies. Tell your neighbor.
But most of all, tell yourself.
(Thatās what Iām doing.)
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Listen to me, I recognize that I have very little credibility in the world of writing. I have never written a bestseller, I bleed Instagram followers like a bad period, I get all kinds of uncomfortable when someone comes up to me in public and asks for an autograph or photo, and despite having been at this for a quarter of a century, I still havenāt found my niche (though I confess to not looking very hard for it). So you donāt actually have to listen to me, but youāre here anyway, so why not?
Youāve got to resist.
Youāve got to.
Please resist.
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Eight weeks ago I was feeling like Joy was never going to surface again for me. I wasnāt even depressed, I mean, apart from normal February blues. I just felt like, will I ever feel hope the way I used to feel it with regularity?
š£ I bought a purple shirt that says JOY on it in big letters.
š I amped my pups up for aunt Bean visits.
š I watched my guy get excited about his hobby of fly fishing for trout.
šŖ I went to the theater twice with people I love and once by my very own self to watch and rewatch Project Hail Mary.
š I hung crystals and beads and gifted prisms from friends in my windows.
šø I framed art that makes me really happy.
š± I watched my pups love the green plastic grass we finally caved and laid down for them.
āļø I made art and more art and more art.
ā¤ļøšš And last week we finished our last episode of The Side Aisle and when we asked one another what feels different, I knew immediately:
Iām on the prowl for hope. Iām sniffing it out like a dog, like one of my dogs. Iām hunting it out, tracking it down, chasing hard after it, and Iām doing it indiscriminately. Iām not picking or choosing, Iām finding and sharing and making and mining.
And Iām feeling it.
When I shared about how my wrestles with faith and doubt began as a young child (peep my kindergarten pic in this collage) with an older person of faith recently, he called it āa cast of mind.ā
Iāve thought about that a lot lately, how our minds are formed and cast around so many important things as we grow. And how changing our minds, despite the iron grip of whatever mold we are in, is some of the most beautiful and difficult work of our lives.
But the mind is made to be changed. Again and again and again and again. Renewed, the Bible calls it. Transformed. Changingācellular, molecular, skin shedding, taste buds, allergies, our brains expanding and healing and making new connectionsāis literally what keeps us alive in the world. When our brains are dead, itās over.
So get introspective about the ways you have changed and the ways you want to change and the ways the people around you change and how they change you too. Itās some of the best work youāll ever do š§”
I have never, not in over twenty years of writing online, gone viral. Going viral is extremely easy if youāre a half-decent writer, but Iāve never tried to go viral on purpose. Iām not interested in what makes someone go viral. Iām not interested in writing the kinds of things that go viral. Iām extremely not interested in being trolled by bots or humans. I donāt want to provide a place for anyone to show up and be their worst self in a comment thread. Not for me. Iāve stated that pretty publicly over the years and while all my writer friends had their viral moments, I kept my V card. (Sorry, had to.)
Within a few hours that post had over 100k views on Instagram. I did not mean to do that and would undo it if I could without deleting the post.
But hereās what happened instead:
š¦ā⬠On Going Viral and Blackbirds: Empathy is only Toxic if we canāt find it in ourselves š¦ā⬠writing this one made me cry so I also read this one aloud to you :)
Comment BLACKBIRD and Iāll send the link to you
Iām turning off comments because Iām tired of telling people to actually read the caption before attacking me. I didnāt vote for Trump. Not once. āš¼
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I donāt know how much more clear I can be. I DID NOT vote for Trump. The title of this post is what I WISH the people I know who did vote for him and regret it, would say to me.
I did not vote for him, not once, twice, or three times. But Iāve needed to hear this from someone and I donāt think I ever will, so I wrote it to myself, and for you, from whoever you need it to be from.
We werenāt crazy in 2016, 2020, 2024, or today. We werenāt crazy all those days in between. We werenāt the undiscerning ones. We saw it all, right from the start. And itās okay to feel sad about how crazy weāve been made to feel for the past decade. ā¤ļø