happy motherâs day to all the mamas, mamas to be, mamas in mourning, those mourning their mamas & those yearning to be mamas.
last year i coordinated a photoshoot in the backyard of my childhood home to add to familial artifacts. with my granny reaching mid-90s & my momâs metastatic breast cancer diagnosis in 2022, toppled with losing my dad in 2023, i was moved to capture proof of life while life was still living.
truly angels all around me. đ
Hey, Iâm Ky! đ A storyteller who traded in press releases for birth stories.
As a birth + postpartum doula, I show up for mamas and families who deserve to feel supported, seen, and advocated forâfrom pregnancy through postpartum.
I came to birth work because serving others isnât just something I doâitâs who I am. Thereâs truly no greater honor than being witness to the moment a mama hears that first cry.
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papa, thereâs not a prayer that leaves my lips unto Godâs ears that doesnât include your name.
today, on your 35th earth day, i pray for your dreams, needs and desires. i pray that we get to remain recipients of each others love for eternity. i pray that this next year of life God does his big one. that His blessings rain down on you. on us. you are the best answered prayer. dominoâs second favorite human đ¤
i love you, @jamelricardo_ đ§Ą
happy birthday, dad! three years feels like an awful long time not to call you on your birthday, but then i think how blessed i was to have thirty three years of calling you up (and trying to get you on video lol), going out to dinner or lunch and so much more.
i listen to this song as if youâre talking to me and i find great comfort in it. iâm trying dad, as hard as it is. your lightâthat smileâshines so brightly in my heart. i love you, big one. forever, your little one.
2025 đž as i reflect back on this year, this was most certainly my âa seat at the tableâ year. i found myself weary and mad. i looked for and found my glory. thank God for allowing me to fall in my ways so that i could wake up and rise. đď¸ 2026 = COUNT IT ALL JOY! đ¤˛đž
big mama, one kid đśđ meet domino, my adorable shark who has me knee deep in puppy and bernedoodle subreddits every other day 𼲠he has taken a liking to one of khloeâs favorite toys and it makes my heart swell with love. still miss my girl everyday but happy to give him my love. #bernedoodle #puppylife
whoever said time heals all wounds, lied. this last year proved to be more difficult than the first. the firstâdespite holding his hand while took his last breath, writing the obituary, putting the slideshow together and arguing with the cemetery for weeks on endâfelt like a fluke. something about grieving a person you loved so dearly in another state makes reality a little fuzzy. but oh grief, she doesnât stay away for long before sadness and tears cloud everything. another year without my 6â2â giant feels like walking around in a size too small shoesâfrom the outside you look put together but the agony youâre feeling with every step you take tells a different story. in a grief group i joined, we would introduce ourselves in relation to our lost loved one. a wonderful reminder of whose i amâky, willieâs daughter.
daddy,
i miss you everyday. i listen to your voicemails so i donât forget your voice. i look at pictures so i donât forget your smile. whatever youâve worked up there with God, i thank you both for keeping your hands on me. i hope youâre getting my texts up there.
love, little one
ps. i still havenât ran into anyone from law & order lol
a sunday well spent at the museum with @joy.lives.here . if you know me, you know my love for museums runs deepppppppp. after being closed for seven years, happy that @studiomuseum is back open to house our stories and perspectives. something about being in a space fully dedicated to black artânot a limited time only exhibit or select pieces in a sea of white artâdid something to my spirit. iâm certain this will become a favorite to frequent.
some of the best parts of being home. thereâs a slew of pics i didnât get because the moments were too lived in. đ also, childhood me didnât remember that franklin cider mill was just a parking lot đ