When
@zoebonnie asked me and
@lucindalohan to speak at
@nasc_collective_ my first instinct was to say no š
the imposter syndrome was poppinā. I kept thinking, what do I have to offer compared to these insanely talented women? Turns out⦠I had a lot to say š shocking I know!
Looking back on the last 10 years, I realised how much Iāve fought for my place in this industry. Even now I still sometimes feel like I donāt fully belong, but Iām proud I kept going and built a career that once felt impossible. It wasnāt exactly the conventional route, I remember thinking oh if I havenāt been interning since I was 18 Iāve no chance, but I didnāt even go freelance until I was 30! But sure look, if you told 18 year old me who wrote that I was going to be the editor of Vogue in my yearbook, that my work would actually BE in Vogue one day⦠sheād probably say obvs x
It was such an honour to share the stage with two friends I admire so much, talking honestly about the challenges, the highs, and all the advice we wish weād been given when we started. One thing Iāll always stand by: if you donāt ask, you donāt get. Asking to assist my amazing friend
@rhiannon_isabel taught me so much and opened doors. Telling
@rosiehstewart Iād love to style
@saoirsemonicajackson changed everything. You have to back yourself, even when youāre terrified of rejection.
If you feel like youāre on the outside looking in, or lost for what to do next, reconnect with the thing that made you feel alive as a child. It really helps me when I feel like I donāt know whatās next. Self loathing and criticism are things we learn, sometimes as a survival technique. Iām still working on that, but Iām so glad I pushed through the noise and the doubt. Obviously this has turned into a Substack⦠Substack is to a girl that loves to waffle as a podcast is to a boring man with terrible opinions. Who knows, maybe Iāll start both š
GrĆ” mór to Nasc and the beautiful community Zoe has created. Hereās to more doors opening, barriers breaking, honesty, fair pay and a more level playing field for everyone in the creative industries. Nasc round 4 is tonight, so get yer tickets via their bio!
YUPPPP the fkin girlos šāļø