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KIMI INCH

@kimiinch

↠ Somatic Therapist ↠ Intimacy Coach & Edu-tainer ↠ Sensual Alchemist ↠ Motivational Spanker Founder of @andmorepresents
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Do you have what it takes to Dominate? 🔥 ➡️ Are you k!nk curious and want to pull back the curtain and explore the depths of this world?
➡️ Do you want to learn how to integrate emotional intimacy into your deepest, naughtiest desires?
➡️ Are you looking for a safe and welcoming space to explore your wildest fantasies? ❗️Or are you looking to fully step into your leadership energy in your life so you can lead, surrender and play simultaneously? Whether you are just dipping your toes into this world, or you are ready to unleash your inner Dom(me) style, I have something for you that will show you how to seduce the world with your confidence. Dom(me) Mastery is a highly interactive experience where you’ll dive deep to uncover your most potent desires and abilities - unleashing a side of yourself unlike anything you’ve ever seen. Here’s what you get: * Bi-weekly zoom teachings with me and other experts that will cover everything you need to know to connect with your unique leadership practice. * Personalized assessment as well as detailed feedback and guidance on how to master your Dom(me) practice – in life, the bedroom, and elsewhere. * A supportive and exciting community of like-minded explorers - you’ll be able to explore your own power, witness others, and ask all the questions. * Bonus action-packed, immersive 3 day in-person event hosted by myself and the &More Angels. * Plus so much more juicy goodness! It’s time for you to come home to your healthy authority energy and find your truest, most authentic power - both in and out of the bedroom with Dom(me) Mastery. P.S. Not sure if this is a right fit for you? Schedule a call with me and I’ll answer all of your questions! 🔗 in BI0 @kimiinch . . , #dominance #intimacycoach #eroticleadership #relationshipcoach #kinkymeme
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2 years ago
A lot of us were taught that “no” is a bad word. That saying no is rude. Selfish. Disappointing. So we learned to override ourselves. To people please. To sacrifice. To betray our own truth in order to maintain connection. But that isn’t real intimacy. Real intimacy requires honesty. And honesty sometimes sounds like: “No.” “I’m not ready.” “That doesn’t feel good to me.” “I need something different.” Your “no” is not rejection. It’s nervous system wisdom. It’s a boundary that allows trust to exist. Because when someone can trust your “no”…they can trust your “yes.” And honestly? This is one of the biggest things we explore inside er0tic work: How to tell the truth. How to stay connected to yourself while connecting to someone else. How to stop abandoning yourself for approval, validation, or fear of disappointing people. Because connection built on performance will eventually collapse. But connection built on truth? That’s where intimacy begins. ✨ Something More | June 11–14 | Austin A pleasure-filled immersive experience exploring: ✦ communication ✦ attunement ✦ conscious k!nk ✦ tantra ✦ nervous system awareness ✦ intimacy + embodiment 10 spots remain. - 🔗 in bio 💥 @andmorepresents
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The little details your lover never forgets… Most people think better intimacy comes from learning a few new “moves.” Usually something they saw online. But most people need more: awareness. The little details. The subtle shifts. The ability to actually feel another person. That’s the stuff your lover never forgets. These things sound simple. But can you actually do them in real time… When there’s a real human in front of you? That’s the difference between consuming information…and having a lived experience. And science backs this up: Research on experiential learning and neuroplasticity shows that our brains change most deeply through embodied, emotionally meaningful experiences- especially when we’re actively engaged, emotionally safe, and learning in connection with others. In other words: your nervous system learns through doing, not just observing. Reading a book can inspire you. Watching a video can educate you. But being in the room? Practicing. Feeling. Being witnessed. Taking risks in a safe container? That’s what actually rewires people. It’s also why spaces like Something More are so transformative. Because for 4 days, you’re not just talking about intimacy, polarity, communication, power, surrender, connection, or turn-on… You’re living it. In real time. With real people. Inside a container designed for nervous system safety, exploration, creativity, and depth. Individuals leave more confident, more expressed, and more connected to themselves. Couples leave with shared experiences and understand each other more deeply. They communicate more clearly. They stop fearing the unknown because they’ve navigated it together. People walk away realizing: “Wow… there’s so much more possible than I thought.” That’s why I care so deeply about this work. Something More | Austin | June 11–14 We’re officially down to 12 spots remaining, and this is the last one this year. And if you want to feel into whether it’s the right fit for you, I offer complimentary 15-minute consultation calls. Come practice with me = 🔗 in B!0 @andmorepresents #intimacycoach
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2 days ago
What’s the sxiest thing someone has ever said to you? 🫦 Not just the hottest. The one that stayed with you. 👇 Drop it below. Most liked comment wins free access to my course: Talk Dirty to Me And honestly- I have a feeling this comment section is about to become a masterclass in seduction Steal your next line from the comments. Because dirty talk isn’t just about being explicit. It’s about: tension confidence attunement play emotional intelligence and learning how to express desire in a way that actually lands. This kind of communication changes everything. It’s also one of the many things we explore inside: ✨ Something More ✨ June 11–14 in Austin A consciously curated immersive experience exploring: ✦ intimacy ✦ tantra ✦ conscious k!nk ✦ attunement ✦ energetic play ✦ dirty talk ✦ impact play ✦ and the art of deeper connection Only 12 spots remain. Last of the year! 🔗 in B!0💥 @andmorepresents
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4 days ago
The Biggest Challenges of Dirty Talk & What To Do Instead! Here they are: 1. Sounds cheesy / Feels fake If your idea of dirty talk comes from porn or cheesy romance novels, no wonder it may seem inauthentic. Instead speak with vulnerability. I will show you a whole new way to use it to bring you and your partner to deeper intimacy and greater pleasure.  2. Feels shame over desires / asking for what they want Finding your voice in the bedroom is a powerful act. I will help you tap into your erotic power.  3. Self-consciousness / shy Listen, confidence comes from experience and experience comes from practice. And It’s not just about what you say, it’s how you say it. I will help build your confidence so that whatever you say will be enticing to your partner.   4. I don’t know what to say!!! Don’t worry - I’ll help you develop your language skills by tapping you into the limitless power of your imagination and in additon to this - will provide script ideas and helpful suggestions 👄 Ready to take your verbal skills to the next level? Join Something More June 11-14 in Austin. Click the 🔗 in my B!0
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6 days ago
“Mom… I’m a dominatrix.” Mother’s Day is today, and I’ve found myself thinking about my mom a lot. Especially one memory. Back around 2011-ish, I sat her down and said: “Mom… I’m a dominatrix.” Which, let’s be honest, is not exactly every mother’s dream conversation 😅 But instead of reacting with fear or shame, she got curious. She asked: “What does that mean exactly?” So I told her. About the sessions. The classes. The couples.The emotional breakthroughs. The healing. The intimacy. The ways people softened and transformed in these spaces. And she listened. Then she smiled and said: “Well… as long as you’re safe and happy, I’m happy for you.�But would it be okay if we didn’t tell Grandpa?” I laughed so hard. And honestly? I know how lucky I was. My family wasn’t perfect. But my mom accepted me for who I was. Even when she didn’t fully understand it. Even when my path looked unconventional. Even when it probably would’ve been easier to judge or dismiss me. She chose curiosity instead. She chose love. And I think that’s a huge reason why I care so deeply about creating spaces where people can be all of themselves…especially the erotic parts. Because so many people are starving for that kind of acceptance. To be seen.�To be loved.�To not have to hide. As the years passed, my mom continued asking me questions about my work. She became more and more open. In fact, before she unexpectedly passed away last week, she was seriously considering coming to a workshop at my new home in June. That thought makes me smile. And ache. And smile again. I wish she could’ve seen the house.�She was such a cheerleader for me getting it. But I also know…her love is woven into everything I create here. So today, I just want to say: To the mothers who love their children- especially when their path looks different than expected… Thank you. Your acceptance matters more than you know. And to anyone reading this who has ever felt “too much,” too strange, too erotic, too emotional, too different… You deserve spaces where you can be fully yourself too. Happy Mother’s Day, Mom.�Thank you for loving me exactly as I am.
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7 days ago
More people are becoming curious and opening up conversations around desire, fantasy, power dynamics, play, and er0tic expression. Yay! Wonderful. But there’s something I’ve been noticing lately… A lot of people seem to think that reading one book, watching a few reels, or taking one online class suddenly makes them ready to navigate k!nk. And I think that’s…concerning. Because for some reason, people understand that if you want to become skilled in communication, leadership, or business, you seek mentorship and guidance But when it comes to seggs? People often assume: “How hard could it be?” Meanwhile, this is one of the most vulnerable spaces a human being can enter. It touches: attachment, trauma, shame, desire, power, worth, fear, love, identity, etc And k!nk intensifies all of it. Which is exactly why I believe it deserves care, consciousness, education, and practice. K!nk can be an incredibly beautiful tool for: self-expression, connection, play, healing, transformation, expansion But just like any powerful tool or medicine- it can also be misused when it’s approached unconsciously or ego-first. Sometimes people tell me: “Kimi- it’s not that deep.” And I always laugh a little inside because… You don’t think eroticism is deep? You don’t think being naked emotionally, physically, psychologically, energetically with another human being is deep? Of course it is! It’s one of the deepest places we can go. And this is exactly why we created Something More. Not just another workshop. Not just another play party. But an immersive, experiential space where people can actually practice conscious connection in real time. Where you can learn: ✭ communication and attunement ✭ conscious touch and impact play ✭ energetic connection ✭ dirty talk and er0tic language ✭ bondage and sensation play ✭ polarity and power dynamics ✭ and how to create experiences that feel expansive And yes… It’s deep. But it’s also playful. Sensual. Fun as hell. Because growth and pleasure don’t have to live separately. Something More June 11–14 | Austin, TX Limited space & last one this year! 🔗 in B!0 @andmorepresents #intimacycoach
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WAYS PEOPLE USE K!NK ⬇️ SHADOW / UNCONSCIOUS USES ★ to feel powerful when they feel powerless in life ★ to avoid emotional intimacy (hide behind roles) ★ to reenact unresolved dynamics (control, abandonment, etc.) ★ to bypass vulnerability by “playing a part” ★ to escape themselves ★ to prove dominance or worth ★ to feel chosen or special ★ to numb through intensity ★ to avoid real connection while appearing “deep” ★ to control outcomes instead of feeling uncertainty NEUTRAL / EXPLORATORY ★ curiosity about taboo ★ exploring fantasies ★ experimenting with sensation ★ play and novelty ★ discovering preferences ★ exploring identity ★ exploring power dynamics safely ★ learning boundaries EMPOWERED / CONSCIOUS ★ to consciously explore power (not unconsciously act it out) ★ to deepen trust and intimacy ★ to practice surrender or leadership ★ to expand pleasure beyond the physical ★ to build nervous system capacity ★ to heal relational patterns (with awareness) ★ to express parts of self that are usually hidden ★ to experience polarity in a conscious way ★ to cultivate presence and attunement There’s no shame in any of it We all start somewhere But when you begin to understand your why… everything changes The same act can either disconnect you or bring you closer to yourself and to others. If this opens something in you… if you’re curious about what conscious, connected, embodied exploration can actually feel like… I’d love to invite you to Something More June 11–14 | Austin An immersive, intimate experience where you don’t just learn about this work… you experience it. There’s more available to you Come feel it - come live it. Spank the 🔗 in B!0 to learn more @andmorepresents
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11 days ago
I’m going to say something a little controversial: I’m so bored by a lot of Dom(me)s these days. Not because they don’t care. Not because they don’t want to be good. But because it’s all starting to feel… the same. The same scripts. The same punishments. The same predictable patterns. If your play feels repetitive, it’s not because you’re not trying hard enough. It’s because you’re playing at the surface. The Dom(me)s who change people… who leave a mark that lingers… They’re not the loudest. They’re not the most performative. They’re the ones who are: Present. Attuned. Creative. Expansive- in the best way. The ones who can meet someone exactly where they are… and then take them somewhere they didn’t even know they could go. And here’s the part most people miss: That kind of skill doesn’t come from watching videos. It doesn’t come from copying what you’ve seen online. It comes from being in a room where you can actually practice. Where you can feel. Experiment. Refine. Be seen. Be guided. Where you’re surrounded by people who are also committed to doing this well. That’s exactly what Something More is. 📍 Austin | June 11–14 A full 4-day weekend into: • Erotic leadership + followership • Power dynamics that are conscious and alive • Communication that actually deepens connection • Play that’s creative, embodied, and anything but boring Whether you’re brand new or already experienced… People walk away from this weekend saying the same thing: “Wow… I didn’t even know this was possible.” Because suddenly you’re not guessing anymore. You have tools. Range. Confidence. You’re resourced. You’re inspired. And your imagination? Fully turned on. This is your invitation. And if you want to talk it through first, I offer complimentary 15-min consult calls to see if it’s the right fit for you. Don’t be the Dom(me) they forget. Be the one they think about days later…wondering how the hell you did that!?!? 🔗 in B!0 - @andmorepresents
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13 days ago
Something I don’t share often: When I was a “baby” Dom- my ego was fragile and I needed validation. Not a little… like, A LOT. Clients would come see me and I would try to blow them away with all my skills, and training, and techniques. And for a while… it worked They’d come back again and again They’d be impressed But eventually…something shifted Once they felt comfortable… they didn’t want more performance They wanted connection Depth To be seen To be met… soul to soul And I couldn’t go there So I stayed where I felt safe In control In performance In the “razzle-dazzle” The truth? You see, I needed people to submit to me so I could feel like I had worth And the moment someone challenged me… I shut down or lashed out And I was messy And I wasn’t actually in my power But here’s the part I want you to know: There’s nothing wrong with that stage We all do the best we can with what we know But there is an invitation Because once I connected to my heart…once I allowed myself to feel… and experienced the depth, intimacy, and transformation that’s possible… I could never go back That’s the difference between the Drama-natrix and the Erotic Leader Because people are recognizing themselves We all have that part in us: The one that reaches for control when things feel uncertain The one that confuses intensity for connection The one that wants to be praised instead of truly seen This is the work And it’s exactly why we created Something More Not to teach you how to perform…but to experience what happens when you drop into something deeper June 11–14 | Austin A private, immersive experience where the entire space becomes a container for: ✭ connection ✭ attunement ✭ expression ✭ play ✭ and real transformation Only 16 spots left If something in you feels called, there’s more waiting for you 🔗 in B!0 to learn more ✨ @andmorepresents #dramanatrix
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17 days ago
I looked at my play partner and said: “Your only job now is to feel.” And she melted right in front of me. Sometimes the most simple direction is the most potent. Because I wasn’t telling her what to do. I was giving her permission to just BE. And then I slowed everything way down. My touch. My breath. My attention. The room got quiet in that I could feel her heart beating. And I could feel my body tingling. Here’s what most people don’t realize: We’re so conditioned to always be doing. We’re thinking, performing, anticipating, trying to “get it right.” But depth doesn’t come from doing. It comes from feeling. And feeling requires something most people aren’t used to giving: Slowness. Presence. Surrender. The way I teach power play is through Er0tic Leadership & Followership. It’s a dance. Fluid. Collaborative. Alive. And yes- there are moments where I am clearly leading. But there are also moments where the most powerful thing I can do is follow. To listen. To track. To meet what’s actually happening in real time. Because the truth is: You can only take someone as deep as you’ve gone yourself. And depth isn’t something you learn from a book. It’s not something you master from watching a video. It’s something you experience. In your body. In real time. With another human being. That’s why spaces like Something More are so powerful. Because for an entire weekend, you’re in a room where: People are present, willing, and are actually practicing. Not talking about it. But Living it. This is what we do at Something More. We create the kind of container where you get to: Slow down enough to actually feel Safe enough to actually open Supported enough to actually go deeper And experience what’s possible when eros is alive in the room. Austin, TX | June 11-14 2026 If you want to talk it through first, I offer complimentary 15-min calls to see if it’s the right fit for you. 18 spots left! 🔗 in B!0 | @andmorepresents The moment you stop trying to get somewhere is usually when everything starts to happen. Come feel everything with us. 💥
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19 days ago
When I tell people what I do… I can almost see the images that come into their mind: Dark Intense Maybe even a little intimidating And I get it Because that is one version of kink And it’s valid It’s real It’s meaningful for a lot of people But it’s not the whole story Not even close What I’ve experienced and witnessed over and over again is something much more expansive I’ve seen people soften I’ve seen people open I’ve seen people feel safe enough to finally let go I’ve seen laughter tears eye contact deep breaths moments of vulnerability that feel profound and sacred I’ve seen people be held in ways they never have before Because k!nk… when it’s approached with awareness isn’t just about intensity It’s about trust It’s about connection It’s about being fully seen and fully met There’s so much more here More heart More care More beauty Than most people ever get to see And I think that’s something worth sharing 🩷 👇 Tell me: What is k!nk to you? If you’ve ever felt curious but unsure where to begin… there’s a whole world here that’s not what you think Come experience the “more” inside my in-person event: Something More Coming to Austin - June 2026 🔗 coming soon… @andmorepresents
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25 days ago